Not all unions are the same. Some benefit employees with improved work conditions and benefits, some promote business to create better opportunities for workers, some just fill the union bosses pockets with money.
Actually the law is very clear especially regarding disposition of estates and taxes. For example you can’t continue to claim joint filing status when a spouse dies.
Including the commandment, thou shall not covet other political opinions for mine is the only righteous and true political platform, sayeth the lord… but we will respectfully ignore the one about not lying. That would take all fun out of politics.
Sounds like depression. Three options. Therapy, pharmaceuticals and exercise. Best result is all three taken together.