The problem with life’s hard choices is that there usually isn’t a clear ‘bingo’ direction. Instead of attempting to add up the pros and cons of the alternatives (and still be unsettled about the choice that the factoids may slightly favour) sometimes its more helpful to imagine what each choice will help you become. And how appealing does that ‘new you’ strike you?
If they think she’s angry now, wait until she spends a morning with HR…