I knew a guy like this in university … he thought he was superior to everyone because he was smart. He was always busy going on about how smart he was, and how I was his ‘intellectual inferior.’ One day I asked him how he had come to that conclusion and he was stumped. I pointed out that he was so busy talking and being ‘smart’ all the time he never noticed that there were others that were just as smart, just not as vain, and that if he assumed I was dumb simply because I was a girl, or pretty or had, at the time, a good body, then that made him pretty intellectually inferior in my books. He never said it again :)
So he’s right about her not discussing first? She’s also right then, he should have discussed the fact he was taking a job with her. If he cared about her he would have wanted to let her know he was interviewing in the first place. Why not discuss that if they are a couple. I’d be a heck of a lot more pissy if my partner came home saying he made a career move without telling me than I would about him booking a trip.
I knew a guy like this in university … he thought he was superior to everyone because he was smart. He was always busy going on about how smart he was, and how I was his ‘intellectual inferior.’ One day I asked him how he had come to that conclusion and he was stumped. I pointed out that he was so busy talking and being ‘smart’ all the time he never noticed that there were others that were just as smart, just not as vain, and that if he assumed I was dumb simply because I was a girl, or pretty or had, at the time, a good body, then that made him pretty intellectually inferior in my books. He never said it again :)