Here you go guys. Just use this: “Believing that true love waits, I make a commitment to God, myself, my family, my friends, my future mate and my future children to be sexually abstinent from this day until the day I enter a biblical marriage relationship.” also abstaining from “sexual thoughts, sexual touching, pornography, and actions that are known to lead to sexual arousal.”
Remember, this is Bern. She has to feel superior to her friends to maintain the friendship. She couldn’t be around her brother. Why? She felt inferior to him. She felt as if she didn’t measure up. It’s the same way with Luann. Bern has a need to feel superior to Luann and being “silly” isn’t being superior. Sesquipedalian? Grandiloquent ? Yea, that fits into superior. Concupiscent? Na, that’s just trouble…
she has issues with Luann knowing. why? because Bern has to be “better” than anyone she is friends with. Remember her brother? she felt inferior to her brother and didn’t want to be around him. Bern has issues being around anyone that makes her feel inferior and she feels inferior a lot…
I think the question is “do we tell Luann?” That ties into the “why do you care?” Nil is wondering why it’s ok to kiss in public and try to keep it private at the same time
Here you go guys. Just use this: “Believing that true love waits, I make a commitment to God, myself, my family, my friends, my future mate and my future children to be sexually abstinent from this day until the day I enter a biblical marriage relationship.” also abstaining from “sexual thoughts, sexual touching, pornography, and actions that are known to lead to sexual arousal.”