This does indeed happen. I was looking for something in the kitchen. Had not said a single word to Hubby. He said “it’s on top of the fridge.” He was right.
Probably because you told them that doing x made you mad, and then they did x again five minutes later, when asked “what were we just talking about” they said “huh?” and then act like they have no idea why you are mad.
You’re the only person who is allowed to tell them that, but if you don’t it’s ok, the rest of society will do it anyway.