A good therapist will encourage you to accept that only you can dig yourself out of where you are-even if childhood experiences did shape your self perception, as an adult you have to take responsibility for any changes, wallowing in self pity or blaming others is not something a good therapist would encourage.Nor would a good therapist encourage ignoring problems that are affecting their client’s life. I am not a therapist but have been helped by a few at key points in my life.
Also, if Tiffany didnt want to do pirates she could have said, I’m sorry but I am not willing to do themes I just want to offer a white tablecloth fine dining experience. Instead of saying nothing but then not giving the paying customer what they ordered. But Bets handled it really badly.
Bets ordered a specific thing and Tiffany completely ignored her request. But Bets could have handled things much more diplomatically. If she was caring at all about giving Gunther a wonderful evening, she would have noticed that even if she was disappointed, he was NOT, and stayed and made the best of it, knowing he would be happy either way.
How is sex worse than horrific graphic torturous murder? I’ve never understood that with movies/public “decency”.