Prospective, unsolicited, lawn service tried that marketing approach on us. They gave us a list of our lawn’s imperfections and told us they could rescue us. Flyer promptly shredded and thrown away.
How about, I did not give you permission to use it, you owe me X dollars. If you do not pay by X date, I take your hair while you are sleeping as payment. Even if Bets doesn’t, she can perhaps cause little miss entitled to lose lots of sleep.
Great that for Bets her priority continues to be getting content from fans. If she can’t post it, not worth doing for her? No possibility that a private, honest conversation about their relationship and goals is happening in the immediate future.
Don’t fall for the manipulation, Brad!