hildigunnur: Sometimes my husband helps me cook (and even does all the cooking himself on rare occasions) but a majority of the time, I do the cooking alone. He offers to clean up all the time to help me out but, as I said before, I like things done a certain way in the kitchen – particularly the dishwasher loading – and if he doesn’t do it the way I like it and I have to go behind him and re-do everything to my liking, then I may as well do it all the first time to begin with.
The funny thing is, the kitchen seems to be the only place where I have to have this kind of complete control. Everything else, any place else, in my life and I’m nowhere near this caring about how things get done just so long as they get done good enough. I wonder why that is? You’d think that I’d be this way in every aspect of my life but I’m not.
hildigunnur: Sometimes my husband helps me cook (and even does all the cooking himself on rare occasions) but a majority of the time, I do the cooking alone. He offers to clean up all the time to help me out but, as I said before, I like things done a certain way in the kitchen – particularly the dishwasher loading – and if he doesn’t do it the way I like it and I have to go behind him and re-do everything to my liking, then I may as well do it all the first time to begin with.
The funny thing is, the kitchen seems to be the only place where I have to have this kind of complete control. Everything else, any place else, in my life and I’m nowhere near this caring about how things get done just so long as they get done good enough. I wonder why that is? You’d think that I’d be this way in every aspect of my life but I’m not.