I loved the idea of a singularity party, But this approach seems like a fantasy. My experience is that often “she came on to me” is an excuse, mis-perception, or simple rationalization. If a woman is pleasant, maybe she’s just polite. If she seems distant, she may not, in fact, be a frigid bitch—maybe she’s been burned by married/attached men who think she’s fair game for their flirtatious behavior. Seriously, I’m a grandma in my 60’s, and hardly a hottie, but still have to discourage other women’s husbands.
I loved the idea of a singularity party, But this approach seems like a fantasy. My experience is that often “she came on to me” is an excuse, mis-perception, or simple rationalization. If a woman is pleasant, maybe she’s just polite. If she seems distant, she may not, in fact, be a frigid bitch—maybe she’s been burned by married/attached men who think she’s fair game for their flirtatious behavior. Seriously, I’m a grandma in my 60’s, and hardly a hottie, but still have to discourage other women’s husbands.