Rudy Park by Darrin Bell and Theron Heir for September 05, 2021

No we don’t want to confess. We do stick our foot in our mouths every now and then.

I confess. I’m 80, and my eyes have minds of their own.

I enjoy noticing attractive women and don’t think there’s anything to feel guilty about. That is entirely different from commenting on their looks, of course, or touching. But we are biologically programmed to notice attractive people, and as long as that’s as far as it goes, I i say bring on the spandex and the bikinis.

I used to tell my wife that just because I’m on a diet doesn’t mean I can’t look at the menu.

I “never” wanted to look but sometimes it was like a car accident, the way “people” dress you know it is to attract attention and then say what are you looking at. I was married for 34 years until my wife died suddenly and unexpectedly in March 2021 and I still consider myself married and wear my ring and still try not look.

Can’t go overboard. However, never apologize for being what you are…..

Have you ever seen a 180lb 5’ 4" women in a bikini?

If you push them hard enough.

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I can get away with it because I’m a professional photographer.