I can’t completely agree with this idea. Sometimes I take those burdens from my Wife, and sometimes she takes them from me.And we do this for each other gladly.
I can relate to this one. I’m going through a battle with myself over taking on many of my friends problems and trying to solve them all. An impossible task. I’ve had to make some ground rules with them lately but they still depend on me to help them, when actually they need to learn to help themselves. They just can’t see a way out of their problems or do but won’t take the steps needed to get there. They rely on me to save the day (temporarily).
Happy Tinkerbelle Premium Member over 4 years ago
I’ll ask my friend if they have the mental space to help me right now. Sometimes they don’t because of their own issues.
Hydrohead over 4 years ago
I can’t completely agree with this idea. Sometimes I take those burdens from my Wife, and sometimes she takes them from me.And we do this for each other gladly.
the_dungeoneer Premium Member over 4 years ago
But sometimes people end up telling no one their problems, believing it to be too big a burden for others.
CCRock Premium Member over 4 years ago
That was beautiful.
BJIllistrated Premium Member over 4 years ago
I can relate to this one. I’m going through a battle with myself over taking on many of my friends problems and trying to solve them all. An impossible task. I’ve had to make some ground rules with them lately but they still depend on me to help them, when actually they need to learn to help themselves. They just can’t see a way out of their problems or do but won’t take the steps needed to get there. They rely on me to save the day (temporarily).