Petunia & Dre by Allison Garwood for October 17, 2024

I’m someone who wants to stay single forever, yet I still read stuff like this.

Why would you want to be married to someone who wants both you and a girlfriend? What does that say about respect for you?

Considering I was married to one wonderful man for nearly 55 years, I find it hard to relate.

It’s hard to move away from someone that you had and may still have feelings for.

My parents have been divorced for slightly less than two thirds of my life thus far, and it was the best thing for all of us. I honestly don’t think I would have survived into adulthood if my mom had waited much longer to leave my dad. Mom would definitely not have survived, and Dad would never have grown into a person who respects women.

I was trying to picture an outcome for this scenario but all I could think of was the USS Enterprise under attack with Mr. Scott saying " “I cannot change the laws of physics, Captain!" Don’t get your heart broken again Pet, He isn’t reliable.

Oy. If you can deal with a man who has 2 women, for some reason…well, go ahead!

Interesting. When it comes to matters of the heart you have to do what is best for you and Dre. None of us are in a position to determine what that should be. With this latest move, you can honestly say you did everything possible to fix your marriage. I remain on the edge of my seat waiting to hear more of your story. ❤️

On the edge of my seat – reconciliation was not an option for me, but every one has their own story

Mel sounds like he should find another line of work.

Ok. This will finally clear the air. Most of us humans do not like uncertainty. Hope for the best, but be willing to deal with the worst. Idea: Have you thought of seeing a therapist? Not to stay together or separate specifically, but to get a clear idea of which way will be best.

Looks like a crazy idea. But sometime you need to go crazy.

Well you put this out here, so it’s advice you’re going to get. Probably all of it worthless, but, hey you’re keeping us entertained, and that’s what you’re paid for, right?

Why be somewhere you’re not wanted?

I’m super confused though – what made Griffin think he could date someone else while being married to you?