For Better or For Worse by Lynn Johnston for May 22, 2010

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    wndrwrthg  over 14 years ago

    Don’t forget the elephant, the clown and the Ziegfeld Follies.

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    legaleagle48  over 14 years ago

    To test your sanity and/or threshhold for torture?

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    tis4kis  over 14 years ago

    Does anyone know why they do that?

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    amongthestars  over 14 years ago

    “CHEESE AND CELERY CAKE”???????

    Don’t stress too much about this party Elly, it’s likely to be the last…no-one will want to come back after that!

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    NoahsMama  over 14 years ago

    amongthestars, it’s not cheese and celery cake, it’s cheese and celery, and cake. There’s a comma after celery!

    As to why she’s doing it, does any of us ever know why? I just survived my son’s party, and I enjoyed it while it was going on, but I was glad when it was over! Next time, I’ll be having it somewhere other than my house…the mess after definately was not worth it.

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    lewisbower  over 14 years ago

    NOAHSMAMA I read it as cheese and celery cake also and thought, “What a Godawful idea”.I’m glad you corrected this.

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    WORDMAN33  over 14 years ago

    Paul Jones…so on my next birthday I should have 74 guests at my party?

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    Dkram  over 14 years ago

    Gluten for punishment.

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    rogcbrand  over 14 years ago

    For my nephew’s 7th birthday, my sister hired a guy who had a reptile museum- he brought a rattler, a cobra, a boa and anaconda. The kids, and I, loved sitting just feet from the snakes as he’d get them out to show us, and all lining up to hold an 8 foot long boa. But then this small, very fast lizard leaped out of it’s box & some of the dads went running in the opposite direction- kind of like the cartoon image of elephants stampeding at the sight of a mouse!

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    jimgamer  over 14 years ago

    I think the WHY is because she loves her kids !!!!!!!

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    rotts  over 14 years ago

    LOL, dkram!

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    eocene  over 14 years ago

    I can understand if she’s worried about the amount of children she’s invited over, but the way this comic is structured it sounds like she’s mainly freaking out over having to provide a basic cake, celery w/cheese and simple sandwiches for the children & acting as though this is incredibly excessive. If she was planning an large amount of complicated food or crazy activities that would be one thing, but these foods are all easily assembled and she makes no mention of activities. Is providing simple snacks for her daughter’s birthday really that much of a hardship? Yeah, it will take a little effort, but just because you have to put a little work into something doesn’t mean it has to be a stress-inducing misery-fest. Sheesh, Elly, just enjoy your daughter’s birthday for goodness sake, and stop defining the quality of every interaction with your children by how much work it means for you.

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    jaeldid66  over 14 years ago

    I just made a cake and turned the kids loose in the backyard with lots of balls and frisbees to play. Oh, and the rule was, the number of guests did not exceed the birthday age number. So when he turned 6, he had 6 guests.

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    poohbear8192  over 14 years ago

    Elly, you are doing this so you can fondly remember it. ………………………Twenty years from now.

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    summerdog86  over 14 years ago

    Where are all the “treat” bags? And they better have some really good toys in them, lady!

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    lightenup Premium Member over 14 years ago

    Yes, you’re doing it for a bit of fun and some memories later.

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    keltii  over 14 years ago

    this day and age,, peanut butter sandwiches are a no-no,, everyone it seems, has an allergy of some sort! so planning a party is no fun anymore,, you get more phone calls of moms, requesting,, so and so,, can’t eat this or you can’t serve that,, not worth it anymore!

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    mrslukeskywalker  over 14 years ago

    She’s going to have a lot of celery left over. What kind of a children’s party menu is that?

    The party of misery and crying.

    And the games? Probably a toddler Spelling Bee, or math flash cards, where everyone fails and gets punished.Lolololololol!

    She must be trying to get everyone to leave early.

    I am laughing and trying to make you do the same as I write this. If you don’t agree, read the strip again. My comment is totally appropriate, and true according to what she said. Peanut butter and jelly, and celery? This is the 80’s, and these people aren’t paupers. Splurge on a bag of chips and some ice cream. Jeez! It’s a party.

    It’s true that back then, the parties weren’t the extravagant shows of wealth with rented amusements, bouncy houses and preformers that they have now. That come along in the 90’s to present. I remarked at my nephew’s birthday party this week that our parties, when I was a kid, were more for the adults’ entertainment than for ours. My mother was about to get mad, but my father said I was right. We always had good party food and games though, and celery and peanut butter wasn’t on the list.

    What’s in the lootie bags Elly? Pencils and Wet-Naps? Lolololol! Sorry, I couldn’t help myself. This is absolutely hilarious.

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    lindz.coop Premium Member over 14 years ago

    I think the idea is that the party isn’t for the kid – it’s just to show off what a great mom she is – forget it! Sounds like nobody is going to have a good time at this party!!

    Better idea – take the kid to the park, have Annie bring her kid along, buy some cupcakes (or make them if you still have to prove yourself as a mom), stick a couple of candles in them & sing Happy Birthday. Everybody will have a lot more fun.

    I always laugh when I compare my second “wedding” at the JP, Dad, Brother, Sister-in-law, Nephew, & Niece-on-the-way invited, almost forgot the ring, stopped at a local restaurant afterward on a whim – to my first “proper” wedding with the gown, chapel, minister, flowers, cake, tuxedos, and 60 of my “closest” friends & relatives. Guess which one was more fun for all – especially my Dad because he didn’t have to wear that dam tux.

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    jump4joy  over 14 years ago

    Oh boy, celery. Yum. Yum. Perfect party treat. No mention of ice cream yet.

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    ellisaana Premium Member over 14 years ago

    Peanut butter sandwiches and celery might be something Elly knows Elizabeth will eat. Kids sometimes are very particular at that age.

    My son always wanted cauliflower. (until he got in school and discovered he wasn’t supposed to like it. LOL)

    I wonder if she is obsessing so much over the menu as over the guest list: 3 toddlers, 4 2 year olds and a 5 year old plus Michael (and Elizabeth) Yow! Unless the parents stay, that is a houseful.

    I remember the 80s as being a time when parents would use parties as free babysitting. They would dump their kids off and take off to have some “ME time”

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    mirthiful  over 14 years ago

    I can definitely relate to her right now… I’m in the process of planning out my son’s 4th birthday… he is so excited about a party after having gone to some recently. I definitely want to do it anywhere other than my house though.

    Brandon, thanks for the laugh! Loved the image that brought up.

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    NoahsMama  over 14 years ago

    Lewreader, I could honestly see Ellie doing a cheese and celery cake, though, for what it is worth. Probably generate the same excitement as the menu she is planning to have.

    Mrs. Luke…I did laugh when I read your comment! I can see her now in the next 10 strips coming up with 101 ways to serve her family celery…soup, puree, as decorations, filled with peanut butter with little raisin “ants” on the top…and quite possibly after the party she could use the leftover celery to use as garnish in her Cesar drink or Bloody Mary after the kids go home! LOL!

    And, they probably are too poor to afford much else. John probably has Student Loans up to whazoo to pay for his dental degree, and he did just buy that super duper stereo system…and let’s not forget Ellie’s splurge after the electric can opener fiasco!!!

    I am totally enjoying this comic, and my only regret is I didn’t read and enjoy it sooner. But then, I wasn’t a mom myself and most of it would probably have gone over my head…

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