Do what my daughter did, go on strike. She got tired of cleaning, only to have the boys, 3 of them plus dad, just mess it up again. She works a full time job and so does dad and the kids are all in school but NO ONE was helping with cleaning or meals so she made them plan and prepare all the meals and clean up after, pick up the downstairs before bed and it wasn’t more than 2 days before they got the point. Now they help with no complaint.
Do what my daughter did, go on strike. She got tired of cleaning, only to have the boys, 3 of them plus dad, just mess it up again. She works a full time job and so does dad and the kids are all in school but NO ONE was helping with cleaning or meals so she made them plan and prepare all the meals and clean up after, pick up the downstairs before bed and it wasn’t more than 2 days before they got the point. Now they help with no complaint.