I just think we can’t assume that Rosa’s parents don’t know about her plans. Maybe they told her it would be okay to go to Peru for a year if her uncle says yes, on the condition she gets the deferred enrollment in Yale, as others have mentioned. I can’t imagine a brother or BIL making plans for my kids without my consent and knowledge, Latino family or not. I know my husband and I would be furious if this were to happen behind our backs. How would you people as parents feel in this situation?
I just think we can’t assume that Rosa’s parents don’t know about her plans. Maybe they told her it would be okay to go to Peru for a year if her uncle says yes, on the condition she gets the deferred enrollment in Yale, as others have mentioned. I can’t imagine a brother or BIL making plans for my kids without my consent and knowledge, Latino family or not. I know my husband and I would be furious if this were to happen behind our backs. How would you people as parents feel in this situation?