Machiavelli discussed that in The Prince, the first half-way realistic discussion of how to rule most effectively (there were a number of them out there as economic changes brought new families into power in Renaissance Italy, although they can be traced back to Plato’s Republic.) The others simply advised you to be perfect. Big help. Machiavelli said ideally you should be both, but if you have to make a choice go with fear – people will betray someone they love before someone they fear.
A person who is loved has people obeying their wishes because they want to please the person loved. A person who is feared only has control when the people think the leader’s eye might be upon them.
Gordo4ever over 2 years ago
Loved is optimal, feared is more instantaneous in getting buy in…..
jagedlo over 2 years ago
reminds me of the “Is it better to be feared or respected” scene in the first Iron Man movie…https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g7-bSTxLeGs
LawrenceS over 2 years ago
Machiavelli discussed that in The Prince, the first half-way realistic discussion of how to rule most effectively (there were a number of them out there as economic changes brought new families into power in Renaissance Italy, although they can be traced back to Plato’s Republic.) The others simply advised you to be perfect. Big help. Machiavelli said ideally you should be both, but if you have to make a choice go with fear – people will betray someone they love before someone they fear.
Ellis97 over 2 years ago
Choose love. You don’t want your siblings running away from you. You want them to worship you.
The Pro from Dover over 2 years ago
But check with Teena of PreTeena fame and see how it went for her first.
ajr58(1) over 2 years ago
Go with “Trusted.”
The Wolf In Your Midst over 2 years ago
Oderint, dum metuant.
bob-droid12 over 2 years ago
I’m having the strangest sense of deja vu.
Teto85 Premium Member over 2 years ago
Stalin and Mao chose fear. And each murdered 10+ million of their countrymen. And don’t get me started on Hilter.
Rhetorical_Question over 2 years ago
The 20/80 rule? It is easy to follow than to lead?
Dragoncat over 2 years ago
Toad’s mother taught him that if you can’t be loved, be feared.
DM2860 over 2 years ago
A person who is loved has people obeying their wishes because they want to please the person loved. A person who is feared only has control when the people think the leader’s eye might be upon them.