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Uh, nope, you are the bacon. She already feels under-appreciated and his âkiddingâ makes her sound like he thinks sheâs his servant. His dismissing her feelings like this is not going to win him any brownie points.
negative, yes, but also very realistic for the times. Men did demean women both at home and in the workplace (especially in the workplace!) and many seemed to think they were demigods simply by virtue of their missing a quarter of one of their chromosomesâŠ.
I donât think that Elly thinks staying at home is a prison sentence. I think she just wants a little more appreciation and respect. With a job, itâs easy to get that through a paycheck and traditional professional respect. Why is it so funny to demean stay at home moms? (And Iâm not one) Shouldnât they deserve to be treated with professionalism and common courtesy as well, esp by their âbossâ?
John brought a friend home without clearing it with Elly first. She had been planning to serve leftovers since she was tired from the long day with the kids. She didnât serve leftovers but made a nice meal. John then belittled Elly by telling his friend it was good he was there, otherwise heâd have gotten leftovers. Then he calls her one of the âgirlsâ he has working for him and says it was a joke. Sorry John but this was no joke and you shouldnât ever have said that even in jest. Last but not least letâs remember who the friend is he brought home. Ted. Ted the mommyâs boy dipstick at work.
I donât tell my husband who to be friends with but Iâll tell ya if he had a friend like Ted Iâd tell him to ditch that friendship immediately.
appreciation and respect - amen! Elly and I tracked through the same years of our life cycle- my husband was raised in the 40s-50s with the idea that whatever the man said or wanted was the final word and the women in his life (Mom & Sis) made it happen - after 45 years I still havenât turned the corner on that expectation - heâs a good man and father and yes, he was a hog farmer, so he literally brought home the bacon - even tho I have a masters and worked as a professional educator for 40 years, we still have these same frustrating conversations. The missing element in FBFW is the mother-in-law who is clucking her tongue at Ellyâs rebellion.
Being a stay-at-home mom isnât easy. Even though my daughter-in-law has a Masters Degree, she has opted to quit her job to stay home and raise their 20 month-old daughter (with #2 on the way). Itâs a lot of work, and yet very rewarding. Sheâs doing an excellent job. It takes a lot of energy to keep up with a toddler. She wears me out when I visit.
And you NotNormanChubsyUbsy, You think being a stay at home is easy? What century were you born in? Maybe JOHN should show ELLY more respect!
And last time I checked, bub, IT TOOK TWO PEOPLE to make a baby!!
Teasingâ Itâs called, Humor With a Hammer. You say what you really mean under a guise of âjust kidding,â when you really werenât. But Elly does it too, and she makes comments to Connie and Anne about men. John just isnât around to hear them.
It is amusing to relive the early marriage challenges. Every generation has them. I love seeing the âMale Chauvinistâ stuff come up. That was a huge deal when I was young.
Yet, we still havenât totally got it right. Today I see many young women who have decided that their husbands/boyfriends now have to do EVERYTHING.
Or, in the case of my son, the wife brings home the bacon and sometimes he feels she takes advantage of him, not realizing what he does with the kids during the day.
If itâs not fun for everyone, its not fun, so STOP! This rule applies to speech as well as games in our house.
I am really glad I am not starting at this point without having read the end. But then, we all have rough edges when we are young that need to be smoothed out by friends and loved ones.
When this strip started over from the beginning some months ago, it was, according to its creator, an attempt to revisit the past with some new perspective.
With all due respect to the changes in her own circumstances that fueled this development, sometimes the vitriol seems a bit one sided and all encompassing, kind of like âletâs make the guy the clueless buffoonâ in all circumstances.
Imagine the howls of indignation if those roles were reversedâŠ.
1 The âHow could he say such a thing?/Heâs in so much trouble!â crowd
2 The âWhatâs wrong with that?â crowd
3 The âItâs just a 1980âs comic strip.â crowd
Elly wants to be regarded as an equal partner in the marriage. Not as an employee. John is seriously digging his own grave and will continue to until he respects Ellyâs role as a partern.
Welcome to the seventies! I didnât like them the first time around, and theyâve ripened to a deeper stench now.
Anyone notice how Ellie has aged in a year? When this comic âreset,â she was young and pretty again. Suddenly, she has a light bulb for a nose and does nothing with her hair.
Lynn would be better off just to re-run the old comics, rather than re-draw them.
I wish the people who dislike the comic would simply NOT READ IT. They should go away and stop commenting on it if all they can do is complain. A certain person (in Archie Bunker lingo, Iâll just look at the party and whisleâŠ) gripes over the storylines here and on Gasoline Alley and probably on others I donât read. He seems to hate the comics so why does he bother to read them? Heâs wasting his time.
Now be a good boy and go do a little housework, itâll help your disposition!
ejcapulet over 15 years ago
Uh, nope, you are the bacon. She already feels under-appreciated and his âkiddingâ makes her sound like he thinks sheâs his servant. His dismissing her feelings like this is not going to win him any brownie points.
hank197857 over 15 years ago
good grief ⊠he brings home the bacon; she fries it; they both eat. whatâs wrong with that?
Allison Nunn Premium Member over 15 years ago
negative, yes, but also very realistic for the times. Men did demean women both at home and in the workplace (especially in the workplace!) and many seemed to think they were demigods simply by virtue of their missing a quarter of one of their chromosomesâŠ.
lewisbower over 15 years ago
Hope the couch is comfortable
lightenup Premium Member over 15 years ago
I donât think that Elly thinks staying at home is a prison sentence. I think she just wants a little more appreciation and respect. With a job, itâs easy to get that through a paycheck and traditional professional respect. Why is it so funny to demean stay at home moms? (And Iâm not one) Shouldnât they deserve to be treated with professionalism and common courtesy as well, esp by their âbossâ?
alondra over 15 years ago
John brought a friend home without clearing it with Elly first. She had been planning to serve leftovers since she was tired from the long day with the kids. She didnât serve leftovers but made a nice meal. John then belittled Elly by telling his friend it was good he was there, otherwise heâd have gotten leftovers. Then he calls her one of the âgirlsâ he has working for him and says it was a joke. Sorry John but this was no joke and you shouldnât ever have said that even in jest. Last but not least letâs remember who the friend is he brought home. Ted. Ted the mommyâs boy dipstick at work.
I donât tell my husband who to be friends with but Iâll tell ya if he had a friend like Ted Iâd tell him to ditch that friendship immediately.
coffeeturtle over 15 years ago
As a former child, the greatest job in the world is being a Mom! I wish I could have had more time with mine during those formative years. {sigh}
John, Mike & Elizabeth better appreciate!
koskid over 15 years ago
appreciation and respect - amen! Elly and I tracked through the same years of our life cycle- my husband was raised in the 40s-50s with the idea that whatever the man said or wanted was the final word and the women in his life (Mom & Sis) made it happen - after 45 years I still havenât turned the corner on that expectation - heâs a good man and father and yes, he was a hog farmer, so he literally brought home the bacon - even tho I have a masters and worked as a professional educator for 40 years, we still have these same frustrating conversations. The missing element in FBFW is the mother-in-law who is clucking her tongue at Ellyâs rebellion.
ElainefromFlorida over 15 years ago
Being a stay-at-home mom isnât easy. Even though my daughter-in-law has a Masters Degree, she has opted to quit her job to stay home and raise their 20 month-old daughter (with #2 on the way). Itâs a lot of work, and yet very rewarding. Sheâs doing an excellent job. It takes a lot of energy to keep up with a toddler. She wears me out when I visit.
Dry and Dusty Premium Member over 15 years ago
Youâre just digging that hole deeper and deeper John!!
Dry and Dusty Premium Member over 15 years ago
And you NotNormanChubsyUbsy, You think being a stay at home is easy? What century were you born in? Maybe JOHN should show ELLY more respect! And last time I checked, bub, IT TOOK TWO PEOPLE to make a baby!!
stopgap over 15 years ago
Teasingâ Itâs called, Humor With a Hammer. You say what you really mean under a guise of âjust kidding,â when you really werenât. But Elly does it too, and she makes comments to Connie and Anne about men. John just isnât around to hear them.
It is amusing to relive the early marriage challenges. Every generation has them. I love seeing the âMale Chauvinistâ stuff come up. That was a huge deal when I was young.
Yet, we still havenât totally got it right. Today I see many young women who have decided that their husbands/boyfriends now have to do EVERYTHING.
Or, in the case of my son, the wife brings home the bacon and sometimes he feels she takes advantage of him, not realizing what he does with the kids during the day.
There should be mutual respect and consideration.
tandemingtroll over 15 years ago
If itâs not fun for everyone, its not fun, so STOP! This rule applies to speech as well as games in our house.
I am really glad I am not starting at this point without having read the end. But then, we all have rough edges when we are young that need to be smoothed out by friends and loved ones.
BlitzMcD over 15 years ago
When this strip started over from the beginning some months ago, it was, according to its creator, an attempt to revisit the past with some new perspective.
With all due respect to the changes in her own circumstances that fueled this development, sometimes the vitriol seems a bit one sided and all encompassing, kind of like âletâs make the guy the clueless buffoonâ in all circumstances.
Imagine the howls of indignation if those roles were reversedâŠ.
jmworacle over 15 years ago
And he can cook it for ow on!
bald over 15 years ago
i too was raised in the 50âs and my father Never treated my mother like john treats elly, and i would NOT consider treating my wife like that
yyyguy over 15 years ago
i donât think John has enough amalgam to fill the cavity heâs drilling.
JanLC over 15 years ago
There seems to be 3 schools of thought here:
1 The âHow could he say such a thing?/Heâs in so much trouble!â crowd 2 The âWhatâs wrong with that?â crowd 3 The âItâs just a 1980âs comic strip.â crowd
The interaction between these 3 is fascinating.
Wildmustang1262 over 15 years ago
Uh, what kind of bacon did John bring home?
redsheri over 15 years ago
Elly wants to be regarded as an equal partner in the marriage. Not as an employee. John is seriously digging his own grave and will continue to until he respects Ellyâs role as a partern.
Shikamoo Premium Member over 15 years ago
John- Say âoinkâ. Good boy. Now go wallow in mud, âcause your nameâs MUD!
Max Starman Jones over 15 years ago
Welcome to the seventies! I didnât like them the first time around, and theyâve ripened to a deeper stench now.
Anyone notice how Ellie has aged in a year? When this comic âreset,â she was young and pretty again. Suddenly, she has a light bulb for a nose and does nothing with her hair.
Lynn would be better off just to re-run the old comics, rather than re-draw them.
summerdog86 over 15 years ago
Remember, Lynn has said that the strip takes place now âin modern timesâ.
alondra over 15 years ago
I wish the people who dislike the comic would simply NOT READ IT. They should go away and stop commenting on it if all they can do is complain. A certain person (in Archie Bunker lingo, Iâll just look at the party and whisleâŠ) gripes over the storylines here and on Gasoline Alley and probably on others I donât read. He seems to hate the comics so why does he bother to read them? Heâs wasting his time.
Now be a good boy and go do a little housework, itâll help your disposition!