Of course, if Ted had gone for LILA…. would her story be different? I came in only a few weeks before Drew and her husband split up, so I don’t know whether he had hit on Lila and she’d rejected him. And of course, unlike Ted’s wife, Drew is her friend.
Tad had hit on Lila BEFORE Drew got married, but Drew refused to believe Lila when she told Tad what happened. This created a rift in their friendship, and if I remember correctly Lila then lied and told Drew that Tad didn’t hit on her.I do not blame Lila for her decision. Boyd is her friend; Ted is not, and thus she does not have to accept Ted’s behavior. After all if Ted is willing to cheat on his own wife, what makes Boyd think Ted will be faithful to him?
What an odd position for Drew, it appears she is questioning Lila’s moral judgement. If Boyd knows Ted is in a relationship but continues to pursue him, Lila is right to not show her support.
Drew is so wishy washy. One day one way the next another. How are we to live up to your high standards Drew, when they change every day? Don’t you love when peoples morales are only ever against or in favour of what they’re doing at that moment?
arsmall over 13 years ago
Yes…it’s not a judgement, it’s her right. You’d still be getting cheated on, used and abused if she hadn’t made the call!
rayannina over 13 years ago
And Heaven knows Boyd’s judged her enough times!
SusanSunshine Premium Member over 13 years ago
Of course, if Ted had gone for LILA…. would her story be different? I came in only a few weeks before Drew and her husband split up, so I don’t know whether he had hit on Lila and she’d rejected him. And of course, unlike Ted’s wife, Drew is her friend.
3hourtour Premium Member over 13 years ago
..I do not believe that Lila would have dated a married man..or even someone in a serious relationship..and yes,Boyd has had no problem juding Lila..
Peachguy82 over 13 years ago
Tad had hit on Lila BEFORE Drew got married, but Drew refused to believe Lila when she told Tad what happened. This created a rift in their friendship, and if I remember correctly Lila then lied and told Drew that Tad didn’t hit on her.I do not blame Lila for her decision. Boyd is her friend; Ted is not, and thus she does not have to accept Ted’s behavior. After all if Ted is willing to cheat on his own wife, what makes Boyd think Ted will be faithful to him?
StoicLion1973 over 13 years ago
What an odd position for Drew, it appears she is questioning Lila’s moral judgement. If Boyd knows Ted is in a relationship but continues to pursue him, Lila is right to not show her support.
StoicLion1973 over 13 years ago
There we go, someone has to be “Captain Specific” in a General Conversation.
toinettec over 13 years ago
Go, Lila, go!
bergamot over 13 years ago
Drew is so wishy washy. One day one way the next another. How are we to live up to your high standards Drew, when they change every day? Don’t you love when peoples morales are only ever against or in favour of what they’re doing at that moment?
darkandstormynight over 13 years ago
Lila is completely justified here.
tegm over 13 years ago
if I had a bf who wanted to get with other guys, I would be all for it (if I could watch)