Elly, you don’t go around and ask people, including your husband, what you should do with your hair. It is YOUR hair. Find something YOU feel comfortable and good about. It is YOU who has to wear the style every day, have to style it, and decide how much time you want to invest in styling it. Do you want to also invest time in dyeing your hair every 6 weeks? Invest time to go to the hair salon every 8 weeks to keep up with the hairstyle you chose? Those questions helped ME decide nope. I’m not gonna style it every day, color it every 6 weeks, and go to the hair salon for trims every 8 weeks. I left it long and the hair parted in the middle and let it go gray naturally after some 20 years of dyeing it. It’s the best decision ever.
Elly, you don’t go around and ask people, including your husband, what you should do with your hair. It is YOUR hair. Find something YOU feel comfortable and good about. It is YOU who has to wear the style every day, have to style it, and decide how much time you want to invest in styling it. Do you want to also invest time in dyeing your hair every 6 weeks? Invest time to go to the hair salon every 8 weeks to keep up with the hairstyle you chose? Those questions helped ME decide nope. I’m not gonna style it every day, color it every 6 weeks, and go to the hair salon for trims every 8 weeks. I left it long and the hair parted in the middle and let it go gray naturally after some 20 years of dyeing it. It’s the best decision ever.