If you want respect, get a cane. When I first started using a cane because of my gout, I started getting all kinds of respect. People opened doors for me, cars stopped to let me cross the street and people let me ahead of them in line.
Unfortunately, I’m not sure it’s so simple as a lack of respect. I fear that it is more intractable than that, as it arises from entire generations being taught that they were the center of the universe, that it is all about “them”. Respect can, IMHO, be taught, but dissuading someone from egocentricity is not so readily resolved. Regardless of the source, however, I agree with you Aunty, it’s pretty abysmal, especially on our roads and on the internet, where a certain amount of anonymity allows people to be their worst.
Uh. . .I LUV you, Aunty, but . . . Actually, it IS hard being perfect, but somebody has to do it! (I’m working on being just like you. . .perfectly cantankerous. Right now, I’m just “practically perfect” . . .in every way!)
Destruction of a well -functioning family is the main problem which turns out frustrated, angry, and aimless kids. As a teacher – I saw it first hand and could tell you which ones had a supportive and nurturing home life vs those that didn’t.
milkweed6410 over 5 years ago
Who are you and what did you do with Auntie?
Troglodyte over 5 years ago
Define “basic respect”, Aunty!
Shirl Summ Premium Member over 5 years ago
I’m pretty sure a lot of people were raised by wolves.
DanFlak over 5 years ago
The example is set from the very top itself. Do unto others before others can do unto you.
gnome over 5 years ago
That comes from seeing people as “others”, and not respecting the fact we are all the same.
Marvin Premium Member over 5 years ago
Spot on, Aunty.
Purple People Eater over 5 years ago
If you want respect, get a cane. When I first started using a cane because of my gout, I started getting all kinds of respect. People opened doors for me, cars stopped to let me cross the street and people let me ahead of them in line.
joefearsnothing over 5 years ago
…..and fewer people today deserve respect! ;o[
WestofthePecan Premium Member over 5 years ago
Unfortunately, I’m not sure it’s so simple as a lack of respect. I fear that it is more intractable than that, as it arises from entire generations being taught that they were the center of the universe, that it is all about “them”. Respect can, IMHO, be taught, but dissuading someone from egocentricity is not so readily resolved. Regardless of the source, however, I agree with you Aunty, it’s pretty abysmal, especially on our roads and on the internet, where a certain amount of anonymity allows people to be their worst.
1953Baby over 5 years ago
Uh. . .I LUV you, Aunty, but . . . Actually, it IS hard being perfect, but somebody has to do it! (I’m working on being just like you. . .perfectly cantankerous. Right now, I’m just “practically perfect” . . .in every way!)
cuzinron47 over 5 years ago
And a fine example you are.
ChessPirate over 5 years ago
It seems to me that they weren’t “raised” at all…
WCraft Premium Member over 5 years ago
Destruction of a well -functioning family is the main problem which turns out frustrated, angry, and aimless kids. As a teacher – I saw it first hand and could tell you which ones had a supportive and nurturing home life vs those that didn’t.
Zen-of-Zinfandel over 5 years ago
Aunty must be referring to animals.
bakana over 5 years ago
Some were just dragged across the floor with no attempt at “Up”.
gopher gofer over 5 years ago
is she talking about cattle…?