Been there. Done that. I believe the wife gets more out of planning a trip than going on the trip. Case in point is spending Turkey Day with a daughter two states away.
Packing gets easier and more streamlined the more you travel. We usually do laundry while away so we’re unpacking clean clothes when we return. Definitely good to have a balance of vacation and extended family visits. Glad to have visited family twice in 2019, with a personal trip in between, since it turned out it’d be at least three years before we’d be able to return.
Most thanksgivings were tolerable, because I had my Mum and Dad and my 2 brothers, to buffer the egregious right wing uncle, who would always get red faced and demand the we listen to Rush Limbaugh!
Those days are gone and even though my Mum and Dad and my 2 brothers are gone, I can enjoy a thanksgiving with my wife and daughter and son in law!
Only child, so it was my Mother and I celebrating Thanksgiving ( parents divorced ). Now its the hubby and I going to a restaurant. I love it but always wondered what these big family celebrations are like. Thank you all for giving me a peek into your lives !
Family get togethers, I love love love it when everyone came over and it got noisy and messy and complicated. And I loved it again when everyone left and hubby and I and the dogs had peace again. It was a good season of life. Cherish the good ones because eventually it all changes.
It helps if you like your inlaws. My wife’s family is big bunch of very cool Norwegians. We/they have standing reservations that fills almost a wing of a Holiday Inn.
When I was growing up, we rarely had family gatherings on Thanksgiving. Mom and my brother preferred to go hunting. (Similarly, Easter was a trout fishing holiday.) But Christmas… that was a family event of a different proportion.
Da'Dad over 2 years ago
Been there. Done that. I believe the wife gets more out of planning a trip than going on the trip. Case in point is spending Turkey Day with a daughter two states away.
Alias1600 over 2 years ago
Packing gets easier and more streamlined the more you travel. We usually do laundry while away so we’re unpacking clean clothes when we return. Definitely good to have a balance of vacation and extended family visits. Glad to have visited family twice in 2019, with a personal trip in between, since it turned out it’d be at least three years before we’d be able to return.
nosirrom over 2 years ago
The older I get the less I feel like traveling. Since neither my wife nor I have in-laws anymore the holidays aren’t travel times for us.
wjones over 2 years ago
A vacation with Excitement is getting away and telling no one where you are going.
j_m_kuehl over 2 years ago
Now for something exciting would be talking about having a another shrimp-ette
Sanspareil over 2 years ago
Most thanksgivings were tolerable, because I had my Mum and Dad and my 2 brothers, to buffer the egregious right wing uncle, who would always get red faced and demand the we listen to Rush Limbaugh!
Those days are gone and even though my Mum and Dad and my 2 brothers are gone, I can enjoy a thanksgiving with my wife and daughter and son in law!
It feels good!
well-i-never over 2 years ago
Spud over at Wallace seems to have it worse. His most interesting thing is his rash.
annefackler61 over 2 years ago
Only child, so it was my Mother and I celebrating Thanksgiving ( parents divorced ). Now its the hubby and I going to a restaurant. I love it but always wondered what these big family celebrations are like. Thank you all for giving me a peek into your lives !
car2ner over 2 years ago
Family get togethers, I love love love it when everyone came over and it got noisy and messy and complicated. And I loved it again when everyone left and hubby and I and the dogs had peace again. It was a good season of life. Cherish the good ones because eventually it all changes.
tauyen over 2 years ago
I used to have a sign in my guest room that said "Guests are like fish – they stink after 3 days’.
trainnut1956 over 2 years ago
Ah, I wondered what had happened to the visit of the kids, mentions about a month ago…
Tyge Premium Member over 2 years ago
Yay! We’re going on a trip. ♬From Atlantic to Pacific, Gee the traffic is terrific♬ 8^ )
Vangoghdog01 over 2 years ago
It helps if you like your inlaws. My wife’s family is big bunch of very cool Norwegians. We/they have standing reservations that fills almost a wing of a Holiday Inn.
snowedin, now known as Missy's mom over 2 years ago
Yeah, packing is tough. REALLY tough for them. They’ve been packing for weeks now.
locake over 2 years ago
Where did Gene get the idea she wanted to change plans? She never said anything like that.
raybarb44 over 2 years ago
I agree……
ellisaana Premium Member over 2 years ago
When I was growing up, we rarely had family gatherings on Thanksgiving. Mom and my brother preferred to go hunting. (Similarly, Easter was a trout fishing holiday.) But Christmas… that was a family event of a different proportion.