On the last episode of SIX FEET UNDER, when Claire dressed casually for Nate’s funeral, David said “Everyone else dressed for it!” and Claire said “Then everyone else wins.”
If we were going someplace ‘fancy’(like weddings, etc.), I had to undergo ‘inspection’ which not only included my clothes but………using a credit card(e.g)and scrapping my face against the grain of my beard to see if I had shaven close enough ! ! ! !
I had a t-shirt made with the logo: “[My husband’s name] is old enough to dress himself” because I was tired of having relatives and friends chide me for what he is wearing. We still have a culture that holds the woman of the home responsible for everyone’s appearance, diet, behavior, etc. So when the spouse or kids show up looking like they just wandered in from dumpster-diving, it’s ‘her’ fault. My ultimate solution: I quit going to weddings, funerals, family reunions, etc. with him. Or rather, I went without him. He obviously didn’t want to go. I’m not talking heels and ties, just clean, relatively unwrinkled casual and semi-casual wear. It’s not about fashion or style, but respect. Taking just a tiny effort to show respect for the couple, the deceased, the family.
Went to college with a guy that always wore a tie (coordinating of course) with a t-shirt. I asked him why once and he replied, he liked to dress semi-formal. Strange but boy, could he play the piano.
I was very fortunate to have a hubby who dressed nicely for any occasion. I actually had to gently let him know on occasions when he was really over-dressed. He really thought that he was quite casual at such times, because he had always seen his father do things like working on the car wearing a dress shirt and tie! (I wasn’t sure I believed it when he told me that, but his mother verified it!)
Templo S.U.D. about 2 years ago
and jeans too?!
Johnny Q Premium Member about 2 years ago
On the last episode of SIX FEET UNDER, when Claire dressed casually for Nate’s funeral, David said “Everyone else dressed for it!” and Claire said “Then everyone else wins.”
kingdiamond69 about 2 years ago
No your dressed like your a star in the Lords of Flatbush movie.
Farside99 about 2 years ago
No! Just No!
yoey1957 about 2 years ago
At least he’s wearing a plain tee, he could have opted for the formal tux tee. Just say’n.
jmolay161 about 2 years ago
Never too old to dress properly for a wedding. He’s going to get a dressing down by the embarrassed lady.
'IndyMan' about 2 years ago
If we were going someplace ‘fancy’(like weddings, etc.), I had to undergo ‘inspection’ which not only included my clothes but………using a credit card(e.g)and scrapping my face against the grain of my beard to see if I had shaven close enough ! ! ! !
juicebruce about 2 years ago
I have been to weddings that were just a field party ! Ah for the Bad Old Days !
Manitobaman about 2 years ago
Last couple of weddings I attended, some people showed up looking like they were getting ready to cut their grass or something. Times have changed !
BadCreaturesBecomeDems about 2 years ago
Paint and stains: daily wear. Nice logo or design: going out, meetings, family gatherings. Non-faded black: formal dinners.
GreenT267 about 2 years ago
I had a t-shirt made with the logo: “[My husband’s name] is old enough to dress himself” because I was tired of having relatives and friends chide me for what he is wearing. We still have a culture that holds the woman of the home responsible for everyone’s appearance, diet, behavior, etc. So when the spouse or kids show up looking like they just wandered in from dumpster-diving, it’s ‘her’ fault. My ultimate solution: I quit going to weddings, funerals, family reunions, etc. with him. Or rather, I went without him. He obviously didn’t want to go. I’m not talking heels and ties, just clean, relatively unwrinkled casual and semi-casual wear. It’s not about fashion or style, but respect. Taking just a tiny effort to show respect for the couple, the deceased, the family.
ctolson about 2 years ago
As well as being clean with no stains on it.
Went to college with a guy that always wore a tie (coordinating of course) with a t-shirt. I asked him why once and he replied, he liked to dress semi-formal. Strange but boy, could he play the piano.
Teto85 Premium Member about 2 years ago
Yeah, he is if he is part of the caterer’s clean up crew.
rickmac1937 Premium Member about 2 years ago
Got that right
pheets about 2 years ago
Formal in my life is no holes, no stains.
g04922 about 2 years ago
LOL… His way of saying: “I did not want to go, anyway.”
ragsarooni Premium Member about 2 years ago
Wow! I can most definitely relate! Only in my case it’s usually funerals…..
KEA about 2 years ago
I quit wearing clothing with writing on it… was tired of doing unrecompensed advertising for greedy businesses
namleht about 2 years ago
That is for the button down shirt you wear over it…
bobpickett1 about 2 years ago
or just on the back and keep the jacket on
the lost wizard about 2 years ago
There is a difference between a Plugger and a slob. :)
martinman8 about 2 years ago
and i bet she grabs an ear and walks him right back into the bedroom
Dorothy Ownbey Premium Member about 2 years ago
Funny. I thought that was an undershirt.
EMGULS79 about 2 years ago
A Plugger Wife receiving a wedding invitation is absolutely one of the worst fates that can befall her Plugger Husband.
Muzi54 about 2 years ago
That’s how I dress every day (since HS), but I wear a pocket T for my glasses. Formal means no holes.
Rayonriver about 2 years ago
Me
finnygirl Premium Member about 2 years ago
I was very fortunate to have a hubby who dressed nicely for any occasion. I actually had to gently let him know on occasions when he was really over-dressed. He really thought that he was quite casual at such times, because he had always seen his father do things like working on the car wearing a dress shirt and tie! (I wasn’t sure I believed it when he told me that, but his mother verified it!)