It’s only in recent years I have become comfortable by myself. While caring for my dying wife, decades ago, I had gotten into the habit of always listening to some kind of radio drama program over the headphones, which I had also connected to my wife’s summoning button.
Now I can hear the bird songs, the ebb and flow of traffic throughout the day, and sometimes the sound of surf a couple of miles away. I can also hear my cat’s quiet hello meow when I call her; I had never realized she did “answer up”.
Silence won’t kill you but it also won’t fill you.
That being said, I have a brother who practically can’t go around the corner without a zoo full of friends. He’s the only extrovert in the family – my other 2 sibs & I are hardcore introverts.
I LOVE time to myself. I am very social in general, while playing soccer, at work, with extended family, etc. But I cherish the infrenquent times when I have solitude. I am never bored in those situations.
Ida No 11 months ago
I’m not the friend to myself I told me I’d be. Maybe I’ll be a better drinking partner.
ladykat Premium Member 11 months ago
Now that you have the free time, what are you going to do with it?
Zebrastripes 11 months ago
This is so true! ☺️
PraiseofFolly 11 months ago
That’s a silly waste of time that could be best spent taking a nap.
Ontman 11 months ago
It’s not that bad.
marilynnbyerly 11 months ago
And that’s why I listen to lots of YouTube.
mistercatworks 11 months ago
It’s only in recent years I have become comfortable by myself. While caring for my dying wife, decades ago, I had gotten into the habit of always listening to some kind of radio drama program over the headphones, which I had also connected to my wife’s summoning button.
Now I can hear the bird songs, the ebb and flow of traffic throughout the day, and sometimes the sound of surf a couple of miles away. I can also hear my cat’s quiet hello meow when I call her; I had never realized she did “answer up”.
Silence won’t kill you but it also won’t fill you.
anomalous4 11 months ago
Time to yourself never sucks!
That being said, I have a brother who practically can’t go around the corner without a zoo full of friends. He’s the only extrovert in the family – my other 2 sibs & I are hardcore introverts.
Mike Baldwin creator 11 months ago
Maybe you’re not doing it right.
ca_jeffo Premium Member 11 months ago
I LOVE time to myself. I am very social in general, while playing soccer, at work, with extended family, etc. But I cherish the infrenquent times when I have solitude. I am never bored in those situations.
eddi-TBH 11 months ago
I never go full vegetable. Me time is for reading or watching an old favorite movie.
SHIVA 11 months ago
Hit that pillow, chicken!!!