I think people jump to a racist conclusion too quickly. Mostly people are just lazy. I have a last name that people have the hardest time pronouncing even though it is not at all complicated.
I think we forget how much we operate on auto pilot. Life is hard. We resist unconsciously anything that takes us out of our flow of established pattern. It’s a human tendency, nothing more, nothing less.
The other day we had a yard sale, and this white American guy came in dressed in a kilt and other regalia and introduced himself with a Spanish name. He told me his name four times before I finally got it. He finally said, like taco but with a “P”. Oh, Paco! I said.
Is that a difficult name? Nope, but it just wouldn’t click.
Now If I had insisted on calling him Bob, well yeah, that would make me a lazy douche.
My best friend in grade school was named Noor, and where her people got it from stumps me to this day, as they lived in a very rural area, the nearest library was in the next county, and none of us had a tv, so it wasn’t likely that they would have had any contact with the Middle East.
ikini Premium Member over 3 years ago
Oh, ouch. Clueless much?
me_the_polish_gull over 3 years ago
I guess Noor didn’t spell her name, because the other lady could say “En-oh-oh-argh”.
akachman Premium Member over 3 years ago
“Welcome to our ‘words only, no action or meaning’ group”. Thanks but I’ll pass.
mistercatworks over 3 years ago
“I’ll just call you Barbie, then.”
Best Commenter Ever over 3 years ago
It gets on my nerves when people do that, even when it’s not their fault.
ferddo over 3 years ago
Wonder what Noor called her?
Buoy over 3 years ago
I think people jump to a racist conclusion too quickly. Mostly people are just lazy. I have a last name that people have the hardest time pronouncing even though it is not at all complicated.
I think we forget how much we operate on auto pilot. Life is hard. We resist unconsciously anything that takes us out of our flow of established pattern. It’s a human tendency, nothing more, nothing less.
The other day we had a yard sale, and this white American guy came in dressed in a kilt and other regalia and introduced himself with a Spanish name. He told me his name four times before I finally got it. He finally said, like taco but with a “P”. Oh, Paco! I said.
Is that a difficult name? Nope, but it just wouldn’t click.
Now If I had insisted on calling him Bob, well yeah, that would make me a lazy douche.
FreyjaRN Premium Member over 3 years ago
What’s so hard about Noor?
jrbaskind Premium Member over 3 years ago
Face Palm!
sew-so over 3 years ago
It seems to me that Noor’s reaction should be “You can call me Nancy all you want, but I will only answer to Noor.”
harebell over 3 years ago
My best friend in grade school was named Noor, and where her people got it from stumps me to this day, as they lived in a very rural area, the nearest library was in the next county, and none of us had a tv, so it wasn’t likely that they would have had any contact with the Middle East.
gopher gofer over 3 years ago
wow, just like japan, where “cultural interaction” means “enough about you, let’s talk about me”…
MCProfessor over 3 years ago
When my father immigrated to the United States the immigration officer “Americanized” his last name because his real name sounded “funny”.
JH&Cats over 3 years ago
Ugh. This must have been mandatory at the office.
Decepticomic about 3 years ago
The smiley face on the board tells you it’s gonna be fun.
Comicsandcookies about 2 years ago
Hope she didn’t have to pay for the workshop!