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Hmmm ā thatās a bit like what is going in our house. Husband does not understand that I like to do things alone some times. Since he quit his job back around 2007, after agreeing as part of the plan, that I could go on doing what I do normally during the day on my own, little by little we progressed to the point (long before the pandemic started) where we do everything together ā big time alone is now ā on my laptop after dinner (1:45 am) in the kitchen to be away from being with him in our office upstairs on my desktop computer. Pre pandemic I went out to a client in NYC once a month alone and went to my embroidery chapter once a month for 10 months a year alone (though he wants to join same also ā but part of the agreement was he would not) ā then lunch or whatever I wanted to do alone ā such as taking donation items to Goodwill. When he first quit his job I would go out on Fridays I used to go out alone for lunch and to do whatever I wanted to do (mostly run errands) as I had done before. Friday afternoon alone disappeared years go.
So I know what this guy feels like. Some people think that wanting to do things without them means you donāt love them.
Wife and I spent 10+ years on a semi, traveling the country and Canada. 24/7/365. No escaping the past there.. Canāt go out with the boys, or gals and blow off steam. All past baggage has to be handled in a 10Ć10 space. However, we are both āself entertainersā where we donāt need to talk and do with each other. Now that she has cancer, I still go out on Tuesday mornings for a couple hours.. That may end as the end comes.. But. We donāt mind being cooped up with each other hours on end.
Iāll have to admire Paige for creating a āHot Buttonā issue over mis-matched expectations. And it has resonated with commenters that I didnāt expect! It has certainly worked for āLuannā as she sometimes has hundreds of commenters! I sometimes wonder WHY do we find other peoples lives so interestingā¦and why do we feel a need to comment on it?
Vilyehm over 3 years ago
And by that reasoning, I canāt leave a comment.
mafastore over 3 years ago
Hmmm ā thatās a bit like what is going in our house. Husband does not understand that I like to do things alone some times. Since he quit his job back around 2007, after agreeing as part of the plan, that I could go on doing what I do normally during the day on my own, little by little we progressed to the point (long before the pandemic started) where we do everything together ā big time alone is now ā on my laptop after dinner (1:45 am) in the kitchen to be away from being with him in our office upstairs on my desktop computer. Pre pandemic I went out to a client in NYC once a month alone and went to my embroidery chapter once a month for 10 months a year alone (though he wants to join same also ā but part of the agreement was he would not) ā then lunch or whatever I wanted to do alone ā such as taking donation items to Goodwill. When he first quit his job I would go out on Fridays I used to go out alone for lunch and to do whatever I wanted to do (mostly run errands) as I had done before. Friday afternoon alone disappeared years go.
So I know what this guy feels like. Some people think that wanting to do things without them means you donāt love them.
k0rcj over 3 years ago
Wife and I spent 10+ years on a semi, traveling the country and Canada. 24/7/365. No escaping the past there.. Canāt go out with the boys, or gals and blow off steam. All past baggage has to be handled in a 10Ć10 space. However, we are both āself entertainersā where we donāt need to talk and do with each other. Now that she has cancer, I still go out on Tuesday mornings for a couple hours.. That may end as the end comes.. But. We donāt mind being cooped up with each other hours on end.
Willywise52 Premium Member over 3 years ago
Itās not canāt tell him,itās wonāt.
MuddyUSA Premium Member over 3 years ago
Is there a chance for make up sex. That always worked for meā¦.and wow!
gigagrouch over 3 years ago
Bail out, Ethan. Sheās a boat anchor.
Plods with ...ā¢ over 3 years ago
ā¦and there it is.
bakana over 3 years ago
He fell into her Trap.
Now, he will forever be Wrong.
whahoppened over 3 years ago
Iāll have to admire Paige for creating a āHot Buttonā issue over mis-matched expectations. And it has resonated with commenters that I didnāt expect! It has certainly worked for āLuannā as she sometimes has hundreds of commenters! I sometimes wonder WHY do we find other peoples lives so interestingā¦and why do we feel a need to comment on it?
bhambaker over 3 years ago
Frankly, heās making more sense, though she does have her pointsā¦ :-)