Well, you DID momentarily forgot her name. She is not that important to you, Mike. You haven’t been attentive which is why she turned to another guy. Currently, your first love is…cars. Martha is letting you go and you’re mad? You just don’t like being dumped. Nobody does.
she should have talked sooner, and mike should have listened. but, if you only value a relationship as a status, you’ve forgotten that it is the person you love, not the concept of a relationship. An attraction such as nice cars, or a nice face/body is one way and has no commitment in it, it is just an attraction. It can take a bit to figure that out though, especially at that age, when they “know it all” but know nothing, because responsibility and commitment haven’t been kearned.
Typical teenage girl. For somebody who just broke up with the guy and dumped him for another man, she is sure going to a lot of trouble now trying to discuss their relationship with him!
At least she’s not cheating on you. At least she told you about it before anything happened…unlike a certain ahole who’s name begins with an E who will appear later.
You asked Mike to speak up and he did.I remember my daughter had her first crush, then of all times just before my daughter on Wednesday from church the guy had to break up with her before bed time. Broke her heart, then I had to talk with her with mom advice.
Templo S.U.D. over 3 years ago
you asked, Martha, you received… negatively
pamanddante214 over 3 years ago
You can do better Mike.
wjones over 3 years ago
Sleep it off. After you pass your drivers test you can buy a car and get all the girls you can handle.
capricorn9th over 3 years ago
Well, you DID momentarily forgot her name. She is not that important to you, Mike. You haven’t been attentive which is why she turned to another guy. Currently, your first love is…cars. Martha is letting you go and you’re mad? You just don’t like being dumped. Nobody does.
Johnny Q Premium Member over 3 years ago
Primal scream therapy…
Johnnyrico over 3 years ago
So deal with it and move on.
timsoft over 3 years ago
she should have talked sooner, and mike should have listened. but, if you only value a relationship as a status, you’ve forgotten that it is the person you love, not the concept of a relationship. An attraction such as nice cars, or a nice face/body is one way and has no commitment in it, it is just an attraction. It can take a bit to figure that out though, especially at that age, when they “know it all” but know nothing, because responsibility and commitment haven’t been kearned.
Baarorso over 3 years ago
I take it this is the first breakup Mike’s ever had.;/
littlejohn Premium Member over 3 years ago
If you have been going out with Mike for two years. You should know how to “push his Buttons”. And you seem to be doing a job of doing it now.
well-i-never over 3 years ago
“Totally open” is for staying together, not ditching.
pheets over 3 years ago
Rejection is hard to take.. for both sides.
summerdog over 3 years ago
No one likes to be dumped. He should have said, I dumped you a while back, but I haven’t got around to telling you yet.
preacherman Premium Member over 3 years ago
I see both these kids as being self absorbed and when two into themselves get together they repel.
vaughnrl2003 Premium Member over 3 years ago
The trouble with being totally in love with someone else is just exactly what is the degree of love they are in with you. Also, do they even know you.
summerdog over 3 years ago
Nicely done scowls on Mike, there.
dcdete. over 3 years ago
Typical teenage girl. For somebody who just broke up with the guy and dumped him for another man, she is sure going to a lot of trouble now trying to discuss their relationship with him!
GirlGeek Premium Member over 3 years ago
At least she’s not cheating on you. At least she told you about it before anything happened…unlike a certain ahole who’s name begins with an E who will appear later.
Jeffin Premium Member over 3 years ago
Is he practicing parallel universe parking?
kab2rb over 3 years ago
You asked Mike to speak up and he did.I remember my daughter had her first crush, then of all times just before my daughter on Wednesday from church the guy had to break up with her before bed time. Broke her heart, then I had to talk with her with mom advice.
RonnieAThompson Premium Member over 3 years ago
BIG Congratulations to all who are and will be celebrating their anniversaries this year. May you have many more good years together.
DawnQuinn1 over 3 years ago
People!! Stop fighting!! As my father said “It take two to tango, and two to make love.” They are BOTH wrong.
InuYugiHakusho over 3 years ago
Well, that’s technically “something”.
patrickab7 over 3 years ago
“Be honest about your feelings.”
IT’S A TRAP.
JPuzzleWhiz over 3 years ago
Well, “AAUGHHH!” is saying “something”!
raybarb44 over 3 years ago
She’s too honest at the wrong time and definitely not under the right circumstances…
MCProfessor over 3 years ago
Well put!
lbhorton over 3 years ago
And soon to follow “Mike we can still be friends”. It is in the girls handbook of stupid things to say.
rob over 3 years ago
Does Jason even know Martha exixts?
asrialfeeple over 3 years ago
GOOD GRIEF!!
stevegabriele over 3 years ago
This is what happens when one takes the girl for granted.