Very true, Auntie. I did a lot of marriage counseling over my 40 year career in mental health, and I can vouch for the fact that though they live through the same events and know the same facts, two people can have very different interpretations of those facts and their respective motivations and actions.
I was so “evil” to someone, that they complained to the rec center and got me dismissed from my volunteer position. Then the same person complained because they cancelled the program I led, due to not being able to find someone else to do the program. I won’t have anything to do with that person or the rec center anymore. Does that make me evil still?
For some people, making you/me the villain helps to justify what they are doing. They don’t have to admit they are wrong if they can blame someone else.
blunebottle about 1 year ago
Yep.
TStyle78 about 1 year ago
You can’t please everyone.
seanfear about 1 year ago
not only the evil one, but the stupid too… (and recently this seems to be mom’s favorite bedtime story)
FreyjaRN Premium Member about 1 year ago
Almost always true.
electricshadow Premium Member about 1 year ago
I’m evil in “somesone’s” story? I can live with that as long as “somesone” doesn’t have me arrested.
amethyst52 Premium Member about 1 year ago
Don’t admit anything!
ACK! Premium Member about 1 year ago
Skruem.
PraiseofFolly about 1 year ago
That’s the given assumption of the Devil’s Advocate.
Captain Bars about 1 year ago
It’s like the old saying: “One’s man hero is another man’s villain.”
assrdood about 1 year ago
Ho Hum.
rockyridge1977 about 1 year ago
….must be human nature.
Daltongang Premium Member about 1 year ago
“Could it be S A T A N?”
vaughnrl2003 Premium Member about 1 year ago
True, that. Late with one little alimony payment and your evil straight outta Compton. For reals.
ChessPirate about 1 year ago
Yeah, those sones are mean… ☺
CorkLock about 1 year ago
Apostle Paul says he has to please the Lord and no one else.
Holden Awn about 1 year ago
Very true, Auntie. I did a lot of marriage counseling over my 40 year career in mental health, and I can vouch for the fact that though they live through the same events and know the same facts, two people can have very different interpretations of those facts and their respective motivations and actions.
cuzinron47 about 1 year ago
You seem to have the horns of a dilemma.
mistercatworks about 1 year ago
I’m sure “Mother Theresa” had her bad points (???)
crazeekatlady about 1 year ago
I was so “evil” to someone, that they complained to the rec center and got me dismissed from my volunteer position. Then the same person complained because they cancelled the program I led, due to not being able to find someone else to do the program. I won’t have anything to do with that person or the rec center anymore. Does that make me evil still?
Nobody_Important about 1 year ago
For some people, making you/me the villain helps to justify what they are doing. They don’t have to admit they are wrong if they can blame someone else.
jmcenanly about 1 year ago
Every villain is the hero of his own story.
Katzi428 about 1 year ago
Yep…this is the truth!
Diana Gregory Premium Member 10 months ago
So true