Our home had come with well established gardenbeds. The previous owner was a coworker of my mother who had fresh flowers on her desk ten months out of the year. The wife has always fancied herself a gardener, but the flowers, I must say, never seemed to be appreciative of her efforts, be it indoors or out they just kind of withered away. Now my mother was far less subtle than her middle boy. After a few years she told my wife our garden looked worse and worse every year. Of course by then the pitter patter of little feet wasn’t helping things grow either.
I used to love to garden. But the hard work, digging, kneeling, watering, etc. isn’t much fun after a certain age. I miss my flowers but my tired, aching body is OK with it.
Janis, Janis, Janis…. Get on line with your state Land Grant College (Michigan State, Ohio State, Purdue, Illinois, etc.) and take courses in becoming a Master Gardener.
Then you can tell Arlo just why he’s putting those elderberry shrubs over there.
fusilier, whose Beloved and Darling Wife did just that
It’s the same with everything though (raising a family, building a home and traditions, and so on). If you pay attention and invest yourself in those things now, there is usually a payoff down the road which is a multiple of the investment.
Few years back we had a nice “Butterfly Garden” with lots of nectar plants. My SIL looked at my wife and shook her head, sure that her sister had lost her mind to do all that work for a bunch of bugs
My wife is much happier now that she has a good idea of how she wants the rest of the yard planted. 14 fruit/nut trees, 10 blueberry bushes, a greenhouse, countless pots of raspberries, strawberries and marionberries … so far.
Pretty sure Jimmy is stalking me. When we first moved into our little house in the country my wife planted ambitious and numerous flower gardens. Though beautiful the amount of spring work and summer maintenance was extensive. Within the last four years she has removed, gradually, several of the gardens turning them into grass planting. I have (wisely) avoided “I told ya’ so” and gladly mow where roses once flourished.
Work is good and hard and the results are amazing. We have radishes, watermelon, okra, cucumbers, swiss chard, beans, tomatoes, zucchini, onions and soon peanuts. The stuff you get is amazing and worth the work.
Isn’t that just the way of it. One day it just ain’t fun anymore. I have seen it happen before to others and know it is coming, just glad it hasn’t happened to me yet! So happy to be mowing now instead of moving snow around
Tyge over 3 years ago
Ol’ Rockin’ Chair’s callin’ you, Janis? 8^ )
Ahuehuete over 3 years ago
Yup, time to sell the house and move to a condo.
thomas_matkey over 3 years ago
I get the same feeling sometimes. Then I eat that first tomato and realise it’s all worth it.
Da'Dad over 3 years ago
Our home had come with well established gardenbeds. The previous owner was a coworker of my mother who had fresh flowers on her desk ten months out of the year. The wife has always fancied herself a gardener, but the flowers, I must say, never seemed to be appreciative of her efforts, be it indoors or out they just kind of withered away. Now my mother was far less subtle than her middle boy. After a few years she told my wife our garden looked worse and worse every year. Of course by then the pitter patter of little feet wasn’t helping things grow either.
dsTrekker Premium Member over 3 years ago
It’s always seemed like work to me. If God had wanted people to garden, He wouldn’t have invented gardeners.
Charliegirl Premium Member over 3 years ago
I used to love to garden. But the hard work, digging, kneeling, watering, etc. isn’t much fun after a certain age. I miss my flowers but my tired, aching body is OK with it.
ddjg over 3 years ago
These comments—chacun à son goût!
jarvisloop over 3 years ago
Father Time is only the precursor to the scythe.
NeedaChuckle Premium Member over 3 years ago
As I get older, I find myself slowing down in my gardening. But being older, I accomplish the same in much shorter times. So it all evens out.
colddonkey over 3 years ago
My garden last year became a chore told the wife and sis-in-laws it was all theirs’s. Hoping it isn’t like that again this year.
fusilier over 3 years ago
Janis, Janis, Janis…. Get on line with your state Land Grant College (Michigan State, Ohio State, Purdue, Illinois, etc.) and take courses in becoming a Master Gardener.
Then you can tell Arlo just why he’s putting those elderberry shrubs over there.
fusilier, whose Beloved and Darling Wife did just that
James 2:24
Perplexed over 3 years ago
Arlo still thinks Janis is hot!
ScullyUFO over 3 years ago
It’s the same with everything though (raising a family, building a home and traditions, and so on). If you pay attention and invest yourself in those things now, there is usually a payoff down the road which is a multiple of the investment.
joe.altmaier over 3 years ago
We have 7 gardens. This spring we looked at them and said, “Why?”I’m with her.
The Pro from Dover over 3 years ago
What’s the point? I know how you feel.
Michael G. over 3 years ago
“The thrill is gone!” – B.B. King, US guitar god
Out of the Past over 3 years ago
My dad always had a garden when I was a kid—and did all of the gardening. Therefore, I have never had a garden.
Vangoghdog01 over 3 years ago
Few years back we had a nice “Butterfly Garden” with lots of nectar plants. My SIL looked at my wife and shook her head, sure that her sister had lost her mind to do all that work for a bunch of bugs
dv1093 over 3 years ago
My daughter came in yesterday from walking her dog – she had three ticks on her.
DDrazen over 3 years ago
This is what it sounds like when hobbies die.
david_42 over 3 years ago
My wife is much happier now that she has a good idea of how she wants the rest of the yard planted. 14 fruit/nut trees, 10 blueberry bushes, a greenhouse, countless pots of raspberries, strawberries and marionberries … so far.
MuddyUSA Premium Member over 3 years ago
Condo is okay if you like living with restrictive guidelines?
flushed over 3 years ago
Pretty sure Jimmy is stalking me. When we first moved into our little house in the country my wife planted ambitious and numerous flower gardens. Though beautiful the amount of spring work and summer maintenance was extensive. Within the last four years she has removed, gradually, several of the gardens turning them into grass planting. I have (wisely) avoided “I told ya’ so” and gladly mow where roses once flourished.
davecx over 3 years ago
And have to deal with an HOA? No!
BeckyHedges over 3 years ago
I had to quit! Im Giving away plants from all my gardens.
hk Premium Member over 3 years ago
Work is good and hard and the results are amazing. We have radishes, watermelon, okra, cucumbers, swiss chard, beans, tomatoes, zucchini, onions and soon peanuts. The stuff you get is amazing and worth the work.
I’mStandingRightHere over 3 years ago
Hobbies can become a job. At one time my hobby was computers. 30 years later, it’s how I make my living.
WoodTrail over 3 years ago
do something to change the pace. get back to gardening a little later, refreshed.
Tetonbil over 3 years ago
Isn’t that just the way of it. One day it just ain’t fun anymore. I have seen it happen before to others and know it is coming, just glad it hasn’t happened to me yet! So happy to be mowing now instead of moving snow around
Old Man River over 3 years ago
Know the feeling well. What used to be my garden is now my compost pile. Father time wins again.
Ginger Vedder over 3 years ago
The only time it was work for me was when the garden was producing more than I could handle! Then it was work!
bryan42 over 3 years ago
If it’s no longer a form of relaxation and enjoyment then time to find another outlet.
Thinkingblade over 3 years ago
Sometimes a hobby is like that. Step away from it for awhile and it just doesn’t have the same appeal when you come back.
mrwalker008 over 3 years ago
What ever happened to the boat?
ajakimber425 over 3 years ago
Like, duh!