It doesn’t really pay to tell people that someone close to you has died. It too often turns into “can you top this” and you wind up hearing about the deaths of remotely connected people by firing squad on Mars. :) :( :(
We ran into that issue when trying to negotiate a contract. How many days off for what degree of relationship of the deceased? The actual feelings that a person may have for a totally unrelated person could be very profound. And, another may not care diddily for any member of their family. We finally just added days to what we had called “sick leave”, which was rarely used for being actually sick anyway.
Close enough to add as “friend” on Facebook for some. (I have a couple of mutual interest groups, relatives and people I actually know on my list. There are occasional days it takes two or three hours to go through recent posts. I sometimes wonder how much time people with 500+ “friends” spend on FB).
Imagine over 2 years ago
Probably was married to him.
sandpiper over 2 years ago
Lots of separation there.
dflak over 2 years ago
Well, yes. we were very close. He had these ideas that confirmed my beliefs.
Zebrastripes over 2 years ago
Again, you’re not listening…..
Dani Rice over 2 years ago
This is a classic “shirttail” relative.
tee929 over 2 years ago
It is a new game similar to the “6 degrees of Kevin Bacon”!
goboboyd over 2 years ago
Relationships are more important to women. Men-“Will there be food?”
mistercatworks over 2 years ago
It doesn’t really pay to tell people that someone close to you has died. It too often turns into “can you top this” and you wind up hearing about the deaths of remotely connected people by firing squad on Mars. :) :( :(
MuddyUSA Premium Member over 2 years ago
Not so much?
amaneaux over 2 years ago
[Dark Helmet] “I am your father’s brother’s nephew’s cousin’s former roommate!”
[Lone Starr] “So . . . what’s that make us?”
[Dark Helmet] “Absolutely nothing!”
— Spaceballs
Diane Lee Premium Member over 2 years ago
We ran into that issue when trying to negotiate a contract. How many days off for what degree of relationship of the deceased? The actual feelings that a person may have for a totally unrelated person could be very profound. And, another may not care diddily for any member of their family. We finally just added days to what we had called “sick leave”, which was rarely used for being actually sick anyway.
Zen-of-Zinfandel over 2 years ago
They met playing online bingo.
adrianrune over 2 years ago
Close enough to add as “friend” on Facebook for some. (I have a couple of mutual interest groups, relatives and people I actually know on my list. There are occasional days it takes two or three hours to go through recent posts. I sometimes wonder how much time people with 500+ “friends” spend on FB).