I have a hospital therapy dog. If we didn’t care about others, we wouldn’t be doing this. I was a social worker for many, many years. It is a helpful thing to be able to be concerned for others, do what is possible to help, and then move on to the next person who needs help without dwelling on the previous ones. Anyone who can’t let go of what they have seen and been unable to do to help someone else does not belong in a job helping others. There is nothing wrong with people who are sensitive, but there are better jobs for them that won’t haunt their sleep.
People are taking this advice in two different ways. Some take it as not to be worried about other people being a threat and other people are taking it as advice not to be concerned about other people. I prefer to take the former view and not worry about what may never happen or “Never trouble trouble until trouble troubles you.”
seanfear almost 2 years ago
wish if it was that easy
FreyjaRN Premium Member almost 2 years ago
It’s a laudable goal.
PraiseofFolly almost 2 years ago
Is that REALLY a good idea? Don’t stop — just don’t obsess.
karlykru Premium Member almost 2 years ago
I always liked the suggestion of not letting someone in your head rent free.
Troglodyte almost 2 years ago
Don’t worry, be happy. Easier said than done! :D
The Reader Premium Member almost 2 years ago
Sometimes I worry about Aunty.
CorkLock almost 2 years ago
Devoted Christians are concerned about others – especially family. That leaves boozed up Aunty out.
dflak almost 2 years ago
I grant to very few people the power to influence how I feel about myself.
jango almost 2 years ago
Don’t worry. Be Happy!
ladykat almost 2 years ago
You have a point, Aunty! I’m sure you and Walt worry about each other.
Moonkey Premium Member almost 2 years ago
I have a hospital therapy dog. If we didn’t care about others, we wouldn’t be doing this. I was a social worker for many, many years. It is a helpful thing to be able to be concerned for others, do what is possible to help, and then move on to the next person who needs help without dwelling on the previous ones. Anyone who can’t let go of what they have seen and been unable to do to help someone else does not belong in a job helping others. There is nothing wrong with people who are sensitive, but there are better jobs for them that won’t haunt their sleep.
ChessPirate almost 2 years ago
Well, he may have been indicted, and probably will be again, but he’s still pretty worrisome… ☺
Daltongang Premium Member almost 2 years ago
So why Aunty, why are you interested in giving US advice? Were Not Interested.
cuzinron47 almost 2 years ago
I’ve got enough to worry about myself.
Calvinist1966 almost 2 years ago
People are taking this advice in two different ways. Some take it as not to be worried about other people being a threat and other people are taking it as advice not to be concerned about other people. I prefer to take the former view and not worry about what may never happen or “Never trouble trouble until trouble troubles you.”
crazeekatlady almost 2 years ago
Thank you! I needed that.
gopher gofer almost 2 years ago
worry about people? i’m too busy worrying about my own concerns…
kathleenhicks62 almost 2 years ago
Worrying about people that do not worry about you only causes you trouble- – forget about the others.
aussie399 Premium Member over 1 year ago
Amen. Don’t worry about doesn’t mean don’t think about