I remember telling myself the same thing. The only thing those whippings achieved was to make me resentful. My relationship with my own grown kids is much happier.
My dad’s fault was being a terrible tease, he wouldn’t stop. I vowed I’d never be like that – and I wasn’t. He did spank, but only on rare occasions when it was really deserved. I think I copied him on that.
Yep, you have to figure out what works for each child. My daughter you removed from the social scene. My son was harder…you could send him to his room and he’d just read the dictionary!
Baldo and Grace are very well behaved children. You rarely see them do anything actually bad. They are nice to others, do their schoolwork and help around the house.
When it comes to spanking, I learned better from it… How to better Not Get Caught. Robert Heinlein summed it up nicely in one of his books, a parental figure, Lazarus, spanked his very young siblings for lying, so that next time they lied they’d do it a lot more convincingly.
I remember once, at about age 8, I knew that I was about to be punished, and I was hoping that I would get a spanking that would be over quickly, rather than losing my allowance.
My Dad had two punishments, the old fashion “Talking to” and a few licks across the behind. If given the choice, I always took the Licks. The “talking to” tended to last much longer.
Templo S.U.D. about 2 years ago
before the advent of video games, what was taken away? okay, there was the TV privileges, but seriously
face.less_b about 2 years ago
Someone call child protective services!!!!
MichaelAxelFleming about 2 years ago
“This is going to hurt me more than it hurts you.” – “Well, then let ME spank YOU!”
cdward about 2 years ago
I remember telling myself the same thing. The only thing those whippings achieved was to make me resentful. My relationship with my own grown kids is much happier.
Judy Hendrickson [Unnamed Reader - 852856] about 2 years ago
Take away their cell phones!!!
texasbob about 2 years ago
Taking away video games for a week would punish Baldo, Gracie not so much, you would need to take her books away for a week
LawrenceS about 2 years ago
My dad’s fault was being a terrible tease, he wouldn’t stop. I vowed I’d never be like that – and I wasn’t. He did spank, but only on rare occasions when it was really deserved. I think I copied him on that.
rpmurray about 2 years ago
I have to agree that spanking nowadays is not all that effective. Caning on the other hand …
Amy Dee Premium Member about 2 years ago
My coworker used to take his kid’s DS and then play it himself.
kaycstamper about 2 years ago
Yep, you have to figure out what works for each child. My daughter you removed from the social scene. My son was harder…you could send him to his room and he’d just read the dictionary!
Doug K about 2 years ago
Isn’t just saying “Now think about what you’ve done.” enough?
GaryCooper about 2 years ago
The only thing hitting a child teaches is that bigger and stronger people get what they want.
martinman8 about 2 years ago
don’t forget the cell phone
DarkHorseSki about 2 years ago
Yep, addict your kids to the tech and then take it away when they misbehave…
locake about 2 years ago
Baldo and Grace are very well behaved children. You rarely see them do anything actually bad. They are nice to others, do their schoolwork and help around the house.
Rista about 2 years ago
When it comes to spanking, I learned better from it… How to better Not Get Caught. Robert Heinlein summed it up nicely in one of his books, a parental figure, Lazarus, spanked his very young siblings for lying, so that next time they lied they’d do it a lot more convincingly.
mike75035 about 2 years ago
Certainly you don’t have to take away Gracie’s video games!
moondog42 Premium Member about 2 years ago
This has been an amazingly enlightened comments section these last two days.
David Rickard Premium Member about 2 years ago
Papi, you monster!
ValancyCarmody Premium Member about 2 years ago
I remember once, at about age 8, I knew that I was about to be punished, and I was hoping that I would get a spanking that would be over quickly, rather than losing my allowance.
eb110americana about 2 years ago
¡Dios Mio!
Sailor46 USN 65-95 about 2 years ago
My Dad had two punishments, the old fashion “Talking to” and a few licks across the behind. If given the choice, I always took the Licks. The “talking to” tended to last much longer.