I was told four years ago that my stress-free lifestyle had led to a very good blood pressure result. I was told I have “the blood pressure of a teenager”. I mentioned this on one of my Calvin and Hobbes posts and someone replied, “Then you’d better give it back.”
I’m occasionally asked “What do you do now that you’re retired?” My only semi-joking reply is, “I have 2 full time jobs. One is minding my own business which occupies me constantly. The other is doing whatever my wife tells me to do.” I’m pretty good at both jobs.
In the grand scheme of things there are about 8 billion things other people do that are none of my business. I will worry about a much smaller subset of things that do affect my life.
I attended ALAnon for a few years and benefitted from it a great deal. Someone told me that the whole program could be summed up in the phrase "mind your own business! "
I was also told that the more involved you become in other people’s lives, the crazier your life becomes. I have seen proof of that concept time and time again.
seanfear over 1 year ago
I do, I swear I do…. but still … !!! shrug
blunebottle over 1 year ago
Probably the #1 way.
FreyjaRN Premium Member over 1 year ago
Amen. Your own stuff is stressful enough.
Cornelius Noodleman over 1 year ago
Or stay in bed.
jmworacle over 1 year ago
Funny, how those who are concerned with other peoples backyard seem to have the messiest one.
Cpeckbourlioux over 1 year ago
This is so true, Aunty.
The Reader Premium Member over 1 year ago
And I can’t stress that enough!
Macushlalondra over 1 year ago
I used to know someone who said “That’s not my area of responsibility” which caused him a lot less stress and more peace. That’s a good way to go.
Calvinist1966 over 1 year ago
I was told four years ago that my stress-free lifestyle had led to a very good blood pressure result. I was told I have “the blood pressure of a teenager”. I mentioned this on one of my Calvin and Hobbes posts and someone replied, “Then you’d better give it back.”
Doug K over 1 year ago
Proposed commandment: Thou shalt not stress others.
Just-me over 1 year ago
I’m occasionally asked “What do you do now that you’re retired?” My only semi-joking reply is, “I have 2 full time jobs. One is minding my own business which occupies me constantly. The other is doing whatever my wife tells me to do.” I’m pretty good at both jobs.
dflak over 1 year ago
In the grand scheme of things there are about 8 billion things other people do that are none of my business. I will worry about a much smaller subset of things that do affect my life.
rockyridge1977 over 1 year ago
Leave me along……you are stressing me out…..They think they are helping.
Daltongang Premium Member over 1 year ago
Aunty, you mind you own business, problem is you also mind everyone else’s business.
ladykat over 1 year ago
True
stepzla over 1 year ago
I attended ALAnon for a few years and benefitted from it a great deal. Someone told me that the whole program could be summed up in the phrase "mind your own business! "
I was also told that the more involved you become in other people’s lives, the crazier your life becomes. I have seen proof of that concept time and time again.
vaughnrl2003 Premium Member over 1 year ago
Wise words. Words to live by. …and yet, there’s Facebook and Twitter(or whatever) earning a fortune makeing everybody’s business, everybody elses.
pheets over 1 year ago
Truth in that.
rickmac1937 Premium Member over 1 year ago
Got that right
old_geek over 1 year ago
I don’t want to know.
I really don’t want to know…
bilbrlsn over 1 year ago
Stress is a choice and what might cause stress are essential components to an active life.
cuzinron47 over 1 year ago
But then you’ll stress out wondering what other people are doing /s.
andersjg Premium Member over 1 year ago
I take multiple doses of stress relief everyday. She’s feline, 12 years old, weighs 13 pounds, and loves to nap in my lap.
paullp Premium Member over 1 year ago
Some days, Aunty, you are just a fount of wisdom.
gopher gofer over 1 year ago
it’s the folks poking their nose in my business that cause me stress, not the other way around…
dbrucepm over 1 year ago
my circus, my monkeys, and you are not the ringmaster, mind your own business