Hello… My name is Anne and I am a shopaholic.My Mother use to say I was the Queen of shopping and I didn’t get it from her. It’s such good therapy!!!!!
One problem with buying online – delivery. I’ve been waiting for some seeds for almost two weeks. UPS’ site has said it’s out for delivery for nine days!
I was the one who took our kids shopping; the missus could not take the noise. I enjoyed. I had one rule-if we buy any thing you don’t wear you have to pay me for it. I enjoyed it.
My observation is that folks who were careful and disciplined during the pandemic built a lot of new structure into their lives, which persists. I think part of this structure was just a coping mechanism.
I only order online when I need something but when my divorce ever gets finalized, soon hope, and when I get my cash settlement I will be hitting some online sites to buy stuff for my self that I have wanted but don’t have enough money to buy them now.
We do not order anything to be delivered unless it is something we ABSOLUTELY NEED & ABSOLUTELY CANNOT FIND LOCALLY!
Almost always problems with deliveries – damaged items, items left in rain, items left at foot of the driveway (which is maybe 20 ft – not a long walk), items get here late, items get here early (so we did not know to go out & look for it), 1 item delivered late Sunday night fairly early in pandemic & had I not taken our outdoing mail to our mailbox to leave for pickup, would not have known it was there & it would have been ruined by rainstorm overnight.
Ordered food May 2020 from Walmart. WMs here do not deliver, so deliveries came spread over 4 days from warehouses CA to MA by Fed Ex. Dented cans, bent over plastic bottle necks, boxed items looked as if they had been stomped on…
We had ordered from BJs- someone goes out and shops one’s list & delivers. Was done as needed meat. Order went through then the text messages started coming for items not in stock – mostly the meat items we had ordered to get – in one case we were ordered a bag of ice as a substitute for a meat item! Only meat received was 1 7.5 lb of excessively fatty beef for stew. Then it took husband 2 days of contacting them to get a refund for the items we did not receive.
But we do get a lot of deliveries for our neighbors – not that we are suppose to get them, they just get left here and I have to go and bring them to who they belong to – one box left on the side of house few years ago while away – bad as showed people we were away and bad for neighbor who it was for. Packages for strangers up to 3 blocks away have left here.
Live on 4 lane main road – anyone passing can notice and take packages – especially from bus stop across the street.
Oh – and then there is husband’s insulin which had to be delivered and was left outside in 90+F heat & is temperature sensitive – told we would have to sign for it, left at door after 3 days in transit – not usable.
Ahuehuete over 2 years ago
She’s a good little consumer
davidob over 2 years ago
All vendors approve of a package deal.
Ryan B Premium Member over 2 years ago
Well, it’s better than two packages a day.
wjones over 2 years ago
If that’s to much you could skip Sunday.
Bullet Bronson Premium Member over 2 years ago
Time to get that monkey off your back, Janis.
maureenmck Premium Member over 2 years ago
A day without package it’s like a day without sunshine.
Charliegirl Premium Member over 2 years ago
I hear ya, Janis.
Da'Dad over 2 years ago
I do not get as much out of shopping online as in walking an aisle. Hard to beat finding that special something, especially finding it on special.
Jason Allen over 2 years ago
1st step is admitting the problem. The 2nd step is canceling the membership.
waknoch over 2 years ago
Has Jimmy Johnson died? He hasn’t updated his website in three months.
James Wolfenstein over 2 years ago
I know the feeling… I have a one-bill-to-pay-a-day habit… :D
My First Premium Member over 2 years ago
Your local, independent retailers are there waiting for you. Please support them.
Lemon Juice over 2 years ago
Love the little shopping basket icon above the phone.
annefackler61 over 2 years ago
Hello… My name is Anne and I am a shopaholic.My Mother use to say I was the Queen of shopping and I didn’t get it from her. It’s such good therapy!!!!!
Aladar30 Premium Member over 2 years ago
Janis. I’m sorry but this is a very bad habit.
nosirrom over 2 years ago
Remember Janis. A package a day keeps recession away.
Darryl Heine over 2 years ago
Cut back on what?
rlfekete1 Premium Member over 2 years ago
It’s just so easy.
[Traveler] Premium Member over 2 years ago
Prime-nesia, you order so much that when packages arrive you can’t remember what you ordered
david_42 over 2 years ago
One problem with buying online – delivery. I’ve been waiting for some seeds for almost two weeks. UPS’ site has said it’s out for delivery for nine days!
Bocephus over 2 years ago
Me,too,Janis. Me,too.
jonesbeltone over 2 years ago
I was the one who took our kids shopping; the missus could not take the noise. I enjoyed. I had one rule-if we buy any thing you don’t wear you have to pay me for it. I enjoyed it.
ScullyUFO over 2 years ago
My observation is that folks who were careful and disciplined during the pandemic built a lot of new structure into their lives, which persists. I think part of this structure was just a coping mechanism.
RadioDial Premium Member over 2 years ago
Mother-in-law developed this addiction during Covid. It’s a real thing.
David Huie Green LoveJoyAndPeace over 2 years ago
Ordered two more this morning meself.
smilingtexan over 2 years ago
Amazon introduced “prime day” – order stuff through the week and it’s delivered on the one day
cuzinron47 over 2 years ago
It’s time to join AA, Amazon anonymous.
locake over 2 years ago
How much stuff does she need at her age? I don’t buy much – - online or in person.
Teto85 Premium Member over 2 years ago
Retail therapy is good for the should. But hell on the pocketbook. At least she could try bundling to save on shipping costs.
bluegrassfan over 2 years ago
And best of all, porch pirates love online shoppers
kathybear over 2 years ago
My husband is a 4 or 5 package a day addict.
Sambora1 over 2 years ago
I only order online when I need something but when my divorce ever gets finalized, soon hope, and when I get my cash settlement I will be hitting some online sites to buy stuff for my self that I have wanted but don’t have enough money to buy them now.
mafastore over 2 years ago
We do not order anything to be delivered unless it is something we ABSOLUTELY NEED & ABSOLUTELY CANNOT FIND LOCALLY!
Almost always problems with deliveries – damaged items, items left in rain, items left at foot of the driveway (which is maybe 20 ft – not a long walk), items get here late, items get here early (so we did not know to go out & look for it), 1 item delivered late Sunday night fairly early in pandemic & had I not taken our outdoing mail to our mailbox to leave for pickup, would not have known it was there & it would have been ruined by rainstorm overnight.
Ordered food May 2020 from Walmart. WMs here do not deliver, so deliveries came spread over 4 days from warehouses CA to MA by Fed Ex. Dented cans, bent over plastic bottle necks, boxed items looked as if they had been stomped on…
We had ordered from BJs- someone goes out and shops one’s list & delivers. Was done as needed meat. Order went through then the text messages started coming for items not in stock – mostly the meat items we had ordered to get – in one case we were ordered a bag of ice as a substitute for a meat item! Only meat received was 1 7.5 lb of excessively fatty beef for stew. Then it took husband 2 days of contacting them to get a refund for the items we did not receive.
But we do get a lot of deliveries for our neighbors – not that we are suppose to get them, they just get left here and I have to go and bring them to who they belong to – one box left on the side of house few years ago while away – bad as showed people we were away and bad for neighbor who it was for. Packages for strangers up to 3 blocks away have left here.
Live on 4 lane main road – anyone passing can notice and take packages – especially from bus stop across the street.
Oh – and then there is husband’s insulin which had to be delivered and was left outside in 90+F heat & is temperature sensitive – told we would have to sign for it, left at door after 3 days in transit – not usable.
Laurie Stoker Premium Member over 2 years ago
Good luck. I’ve cut back to one or two packages a week or so.