I never thought of tableware as having a gender bias… but come to think of it, I and the few men I’ve talked to about the subject (maybe three?) all prefer “somewhat plain” with a sharp knife, four tines on the forks and a handle that is easy to grip and won’t rotate in a greasy hand. And a spoon with a very thin (equals sharp) edge on the bowl so it can scoop better when the good stuff is down to a mere coating.
Spouse and Ex both prefer(ed) something “more decorative” and care much less than I do about the feel of the handle in their hands. And my oldest sister liked her “Dansky” tableware that has three-tine forks, though the handle is pretty good. Ex had a strong preference (she still has the tableware we bought when we set up housekeeping). Spouse is willing to let me choose, which I did: Utterly plain flat handles, with a nice curved top to the handle and at least thin-ish spoons. And serrated knives.
When I was a kid, my family had silverware (it was actually stainless steel) from multiple sets. We kids regarded one set as the “kids’ set” and didn’t like to use that. We preferred to use silverware with “adult” designs.
I tend to get “short-forked” when going out to eat. My guess is that those don’t get stolen as much as adult forks do, therefore more of them are around these days.
Nelson, a real man doesn’t use a fork, or cut up his meat. He picks it up with both hands and chews a bite off of it. And the meat has to be cooked RARE, with the blood still dripping off of it…. And then he calls to the serving wench to get him more.
They were giving away silverware at a grocery store way back with a purchase, pick out your own. I never realized I had picked ones with different patterns on them until it was pointed out to me much later! So now few of ours match!
Girl vs boy utensils? Is this where the idiocy starts? Reading the comment and reasoning from the first poster, that all makes sense. But not using a fork because it has flowers on it? Sounds sexist to me. I don’t like that Opal gave him a new one. I think she’s a sexist as she’s teaching Nelson to be. She should’ve told him to use it or go hungry. (And, no eating with his fingers)
I like the plain, unadorned silverware, as I do the dishes, and food doesn’t get trapped in the “decor.” My wife hates the forks in restaurants, and carries her own.
Opal should say to Nelson that if it’s “manly” enough for you, you can act like a man and cut up your own meat. However, since this is just a comic strip, that’ll never happen.
Methinks he doth protest too much. I have a trans friend who said, as a growing boy, he vehemently rejected the idea of anything girly, so no-one would guess his secret.
Grandma, consider this a learning opportunity for young Nelson :) My little brother wanted a doll when he was about 4 (that’s 62 years ago) and our parents (A WWII vet and homemaker, typical middle class), got him one without hesitation. He loved that doll and took it everywhere, and I always gave our parents credit for not caving to the very sexist idea in those days that boys shouldn’t have dolls!
I completely agree with nelson here and I only eat with 1 fork that I just hand wash when I’m done with it. also I only eat with a fork if I can help it
MichaelAxelFleming 2 months ago
Good tines . . . .
ArcticFox Premium Member 2 months ago
It seems that Nelson’s manipulative powers are developing early.
Tachyon the Samurai 2 months ago
Well, I would cut you meat if you had a girl’s fork.
Concretionist 2 months ago
I never thought of tableware as having a gender bias… but come to think of it, I and the few men I’ve talked to about the subject (maybe three?) all prefer “somewhat plain” with a sharp knife, four tines on the forks and a handle that is easy to grip and won’t rotate in a greasy hand. And a spoon with a very thin (equals sharp) edge on the bowl so it can scoop better when the good stuff is down to a mere coating.
Spouse and Ex both prefer(ed) something “more decorative” and care much less than I do about the feel of the handle in their hands. And my oldest sister liked her “Dansky” tableware that has three-tine forks, though the handle is pretty good. Ex had a strong preference (she still has the tableware we bought when we set up housekeeping). Spouse is willing to let me choose, which I did: Utterly plain flat handles, with a nice curved top to the handle and at least thin-ish spoons. And serrated knives.
Maizing 2 months ago
When I was a kid, my family had silverware (it was actually stainless steel) from multiple sets. We kids regarded one set as the “kids’ set” and didn’t like to use that. We preferred to use silverware with “adult” designs.
The Reader Premium Member 2 months ago
That knife looks awfully girlie!
phritzg Premium Member 2 months ago
It seems like Nelson might have entered a “girls are icky” phase.
Jeff0811 2 months ago
I tend to get “short-forked” when going out to eat. My guess is that those don’t get stolen as much as adult forks do, therefore more of them are around these days.
Doug K 2 months ago
Sometimes a boy needs to show that he’s a man.
Sometimes boys and even grownup men show that they are still boys.
steveh64 2 months ago
Nelson, a real man doesn’t use a fork, or cut up his meat. He picks it up with both hands and chews a bite off of it. And the meat has to be cooked RARE, with the blood still dripping off of it…. And then he calls to the serving wench to get him more.
iggyman 2 months ago
They were giving away silverware at a grocery store way back with a purchase, pick out your own. I never realized I had picked ones with different patterns on them until it was pointed out to me much later! So now few of ours match!
Queen of America 2 months ago
Girl vs boy utensils? Is this where the idiocy starts? Reading the comment and reasoning from the first poster, that all makes sense. But not using a fork because it has flowers on it? Sounds sexist to me. I don’t like that Opal gave him a new one. I think she’s a sexist as she’s teaching Nelson to be. She should’ve told him to use it or go hungry. (And, no eating with his fingers)
ANIMAL 2 months ago
Maybe if he had a “man knife”…. he could do it HIMSELF
jango 2 months ago
He should ask Earl to cut up his meat. Then Earl could show him how to whittle-away with a pocket knife.
Zebrastripes 2 months ago
Nelson’s been listening to Earl too much…..where else would he get this notion? ☺️☺️☺️
dakotaeditor 2 months ago
I like the plain, unadorned silverware, as I do the dishes, and food doesn’t get trapped in the “decor.” My wife hates the forks in restaurants, and carries her own.
ᴮᴼᴿᴱᴰ2ᴰᴱᴬᵀᴴ 2 months ago
fork it
fork it all to hale
wndflower1 2 months ago
well now—this has been a very enlightning and educational strip this morning—NOT!
David Huie Green LoveJoyAndPeace 2 months ago
Inherent sexism.
Strawberry King 2 months ago
You’re a big boy. You can cut it yourself.
ladykat 2 months ago
My flatware is plain
KEA 2 months ago
your typical alpha male
MuddyUSA Premium Member 2 months ago
Poor Grandma…….
JudithStocker Premium Member 2 months ago
Opal should say to Nelson that if it’s “manly” enough for you, you can act like a man and cut up your own meat. However, since this is just a comic strip, that’ll never happen.
Otis Rufus Driftwood 2 months ago
Growing we just were grateful for the flatware we had.
zeexenon 2 months ago
Yes, he’s right on track with The Da Vinci Code, symbol of the sacred feminine ‘V.’
EMGULS79 2 months ago
I’ve never assigned gender to silverware, but I do consider salad forks to be “baby forks.” I refuse to use them even for salads; they’re inefficient.
Skeptical Meg 2 months ago
Methinks he doth protest too much. I have a trans friend who said, as a growing boy, he vehemently rejected the idea of anything girly, so no-one would guess his secret.
vonskippy 2 months ago
It’s a fork, tell the kid to eat with his fingers if he doesn’t like it.
MarieStanford 2 months ago
Grandma, consider this a learning opportunity for young Nelson :) My little brother wanted a doll when he was about 4 (that’s 62 years ago) and our parents (A WWII vet and homemaker, typical middle class), got him one without hesitation. He loved that doll and took it everywhere, and I always gave our parents credit for not caving to the very sexist idea in those days that boys shouldn’t have dolls!
elgrecousa Premium Member 2 months ago
Mr Crane is starting to hit below the belt.
mengelji 2 months ago
I just want a fork that’s sharp enough to snag a single piece of lettuce instead of pushing it around. What good is a blunt fork??
Aimless Melissa 2 months ago
LOL
Rio Smith 2 months ago
I completely agree with nelson here and I only eat with 1 fork that I just hand wash when I’m done with it. also I only eat with a fork if I can help it
tcviii Premium Member about 1 month ago
I enjoy using the silverware that my parents and grandparents bought, Plus some we got for free.