Parents who think they own their children think it’s perfectly okay to mess with their kids’ stuff. They don’t think of their kids as actual persons; their children do not actually own their own stuff; kids are merely offshoots, good for displaying the parents’ power and making themselves look good to other parents.
When my son was ten or eleven, he read a book, Ten Ways for a Kid to Make Money. One way was to have a toy yard sale with all the toys that he no longer played with. So, he did that, and we put some signs around the neighborhood. I had him price everything pretty low so people wold buy. He made about $25, which he used to buy new toys.
Wanda, let Zoe grow up with her stuffed animals. Why are you so adamant about purging them?? Let her be a little girl, she’ll grow away from them.. my girls did.
At least Wanda is telling her. I can still remember the day I came home from school & looked for my stuffed raccoon. I couldn’t find it so I asked my mom to help. She told me that the raccoon had a rip at the base of the tail so she threw it away. Fast forward to when my girls were little. Any time a stuffie of theirs got a rip I sewed it back up. I became quite a good stuffie doctor.
Would any of the female posters here care to explain why it seems women feel the need, and think they have the right, to throw away the possessions of their family members? Both my mother and my sister did that to me. I would never even consider doing that! (Ahem, not until it was done to me, anyway…)
I have a friend who’s my age and she still collects stuffed animals that are souvenirs of places she or her friends have been. When I came back from Antarctica I brought her a stuffed Albatross that makes a squawking sound when it’s tail is squeezed. She loves it.
I think Zoe should be allowed to keep every stuffed toy that she can remember the origin of or something special about it, as long as they’re kept in an orderly fashion.
My mom cleaned out my room and got rid of over half my possessions that she said I didn’t need any more when I was away at a summer camp when I was 12. No warning. My room wasn’t messy. She just decided to do it while I was away. I remember feeling horrified and violated. So the next weekend after I got back, I got rid of her jewelry that she never wears. I was grounded for a month, but she never touched my stuff again. Being an adult shouldn’t spare you of the consequences of being a bully and not having appropriate boundaries.
allen@home 11 months ago
Wanda I think you’re are being mean. But that’s just me.
C 11 months ago
Say goodbye to a normal childhood, Zoe
leopardglily 11 months ago
Oh come on. She’s a kid! Let her be a kid, for cripes sakes. She’ll outgrow it naturally.
sirbadger 11 months ago
If you have enough storage space, you could wait until she is in college.
Ratkin 11 months ago
Don’t remind me. My parents threw out all my comics when I was in college. I had about 400.
cmxx 11 months ago
Parents who think they own their children think it’s perfectly okay to mess with their kids’ stuff. They don’t think of their kids as actual persons; their children do not actually own their own stuff; kids are merely offshoots, good for displaying the parents’ power and making themselves look good to other parents.
Uncle Kenny 11 months ago
When my son was ten or eleven, he read a book, Ten Ways for a Kid to Make Money. One way was to have a toy yard sale with all the toys that he no longer played with. So, he did that, and we put some signs around the neighborhood. I had him price everything pretty low so people wold buy. He made about $25, which he used to buy new toys.
David Huie Green ForceIsAUsefulFiction 11 months ago
“….I just don’t wanna!!”
jasonsnakelover 11 months ago
One time I had 54 stuffy animals, but it pales in comparison to the number of Transfer I’ve collected.
RickTengle 11 months ago
summer school?
Blu Bunny 11 months ago
Zoe replies, 53 is an odd number, I need to get another to make them even.
saylorgirl 11 months ago
Wanda, let Zoe grow up with her stuffed animals. Why are you so adamant about purging them?? Let her be a little girl, she’ll grow away from them.. my girls did.
Ichabod Ferguson 11 months ago
Open the backs; take out the stuffing and make them into a quilt.
Wren Fahel 11 months ago
At least Wanda is telling her. I can still remember the day I came home from school & looked for my stuffed raccoon. I couldn’t find it so I asked my mom to help. She told me that the raccoon had a rip at the base of the tail so she threw it away. Fast forward to when my girls were little. Any time a stuffie of theirs got a rip I sewed it back up. I became quite a good stuffie doctor.
CrimsonOne18 11 months ago
I love it!!
shari.orce 11 months ago
I had 173 when I married my husband, kept them all! Gave many of them to my kids as we had them, nope, never got rid of any!
door72067 11 months ago
this is giving me flashbacks. =( why are parents like this?
DaBump Premium Member 11 months ago
What? Only 53?
ctolson 11 months ago
Time to enroll Zoe in ’Stuff-Animals Anonymous.
NeedaChuckle Premium Member 11 months ago
Beanie Babies anyone?
ChessPirate 11 months ago
Would any of the female posters here care to explain why it seems women feel the need, and think they have the right, to throw away the possessions of their family members? Both my mother and my sister did that to me. I would never even consider doing that! (Ahem, not until it was done to me, anyway…)
198.23.5.11 11 months ago
And I say “Try for 60”
Aladar30 Premium Member 11 months ago
Did Zoe steal them from other children or did she find a way to get them by trading them? Because otherwise all of this is just Wanda’s fault.
well-i-never 11 months ago
So many enablers.
tonedeafdog 11 months ago
My wife (now 70) has probably close to that number of stuffed animals. What’s the problem here?
raybarb44 11 months ago
And just who gave them to her might l ask?…..
HappyDog/ᵀʳʸ ᴮᵒᶻᵒ ⁴ ᵗʰᵉ ᶠᵘⁿ ᵒᶠ ᶦᵗ Premium Member 11 months ago
I have a friend who’s my age and she still collects stuffed animals that are souvenirs of places she or her friends have been. When I came back from Antarctica I brought her a stuffed Albatross that makes a squawking sound when it’s tail is squeezed. She loves it.
I think Zoe should be allowed to keep every stuffed toy that she can remember the origin of or something special about it, as long as they’re kept in an orderly fashion.
IndyW 11 months ago
And how many pairs of shoes does Wanda have?
StackableContainers 11 months ago
My mom cleaned out my room and got rid of over half my possessions that she said I didn’t need any more when I was away at a summer camp when I was 12. No warning. My room wasn’t messy. She just decided to do it while I was away. I remember feeling horrified and violated. So the next weekend after I got back, I got rid of her jewelry that she never wears. I was grounded for a month, but she never touched my stuff again. Being an adult shouldn’t spare you of the consequences of being a bully and not having appropriate boundaries.
kathleenhicks62 11 months ago
Zoe darling just keep on and ignore Mom—75 yrs old here and still got my child hood ones and newer ones after I have “grown up”. Hang in there.
jrankin1959 11 months ago
Counted? Why didn’t you just haul them all out while she was at school?
hagarthehorrible 11 months ago
Purging is fine for mobile games, cache and history files. The stuffed animals are a treasure trove to be stored for nostalgic childhood days, Wanda.
Geophyzz 11 months ago
People are either collectors (me) or they’re not (my wife).
Richard Perry 11 months ago
Invite Mimi over for a tea party.
Tom Toro creator 11 months ago
The stuffies with the most compelling backstories get to stay! Let the competition begin…
ChrisTrey 11 months ago
I have more than that, I think. Don’t know, don’t care. They are cute and cuddly and every time I go somewhere like a zoo, I bring home another one.
The Quiet One 11 months ago
So what? How are they bothering anyone?
wildlandwaters 11 months ago
“53?!? Is that all!!”
lindz.coop Premium Member 11 months ago
My Mom threw out a fur cat I loved while I was at school one day…we spent the rest of my childhood trying to replace it.
char819 11 months ago
My daughter bought one of those nets to hold them. Her daughter’s stuffed animals now hang above her bed.
EXCALABUR 11 months ago
ToneeRhianRose 10 months ago
SMH (/_<)