Truth about never seeing some school mates again after graduation. Same as college. I have a few on my FB from high school and college and none from graduate school. Granted, graduate school is more job oriented, and we students did not really socialize and many of us were also married with children, including myself.
Apparently, Elly’s memories of high school are different from Michael’s.
Might be “selective memory”.
Next year, Mike will be off to college and away from his parents’ direct control, and he will learn what independence REALLY is. I speak from experience how intoxicating it is!!
The classmates from a number of graduating classes from my high school must be different somehow from the ones in Canada, they not only keep in touch with ‘FB’ but meet regularly in our hometown to keep up with one another. My class (’63) meet for lunch on the first Tuesday of every month—it is a known fact and whomever can show up shows up and we have a time remembering and catching up on our lives.
My grandson will be entering his senior year in the fall, and all of us, including him, are already feeling a little sad and wistful about the upcoming changes. Think Joni Mitchell’s Circle Game.
That’s certainly how I felt. I had friends and there were definitely some good times, but it always felt like I was growing up in someone else’s home town. I couldn’t wait to go out and find mine.
School is just a learning ground for institutionalization. Starts with schools, or 3% of the American population will see a prison/jail cell. From there you will have up to a 60% chance of looking forward to a nursing home! Home schooling is the answer. No peer pressure, No bullying, Plus homeschooling will save Billions of dollars!
I left school on Jan 3rd. Checked out with the guidance councilor, walked across the hall to where my ex GF was standing, gave her a hug and kiss. Talked for 35 seconds saying I was “outa here!” Three days later I was working in the Challis National Forest planting mountain mahogany shrub. Just one of many different jobs I had working in the Forest Service for 2 years prior to starting college.
If the nostalgia comes, it will come as you start to approach your 10 year anniversary. As for the here and now, kids just want to GTFO of high school!
I had a surprise bridal shower and did not recognize one of my high school friends till she started talking (had not seen her for 3-4 years). She had lost her glasses (had contacts), lost weight, new haircut. What a transformation.
The further I get from High School graduation the less I want to see the people I graduated with. I mean really, if they look anywhere near as old as that guy I see in the mirror, phooey. All of them, in my mind, look exactly like they did when we were all 18 or so. I dread to travel into their futures and see what time has wrought.
For all my life I’ve gotten sentimental about partings in general. Leaving people, leaving places, leaving activities of any sort, even if I hadn’t been there very long, and sometimes even if I was planning to return after awhile, has virtually always been an emotionally intense experience, at least in the moment.
So imagine my surprise when I walked out of high school for the last time with barely a shrug.
I really loved high school but when it was over, you knew who your true friends were. In my case, people came up with excuse after excuse as to why they couldn’t see me or make time for me, even after I have gone out of my way for them. College is different, and today everything is online so it’s harder to make friends. I would be happy if somebody went out to a restaurant and have dinner/supper with me and chat and I would be glad to pay for it just because we all need some kind of adult friendship.
@9thCapricorn- Right and Elly’s right. Right now, Mike’s caught up in the moment of finally graduating but it’s not going to hit him until maybe a couple of years later that many of his school friends he will never see again. We all go went through that. 90% of the people I graduated with from HS and JHS I’ve never seen again. And a few have even passed away. I remember when I graduated from the sixth grade, I cried to my mother telling her that I will never see most of my friends whom I used to cut the fool on the school bus with, ever again. She said that I’ll make new friends when I get to JHS and she was right.
Michael should join the Canadian marines. It might do him some good. I know the U.S.C.G. was the best thing I ever did. I joined the reserve when I was a senior in H.S.
So a couple years ago, I was at my sister’s with her husband and his family. Lots of folks present, including a wheelchair-bound woman of 85 or 90 years. I was just hanging out, she and I talked a bit, then in front of everyone she said, “I love you.” I smiled then decided to have some fun with that, using a ridiculous pickup line that probably originated with 1930s movies. Standing next to her wheelchair, I said this, somewhat louder than normal: “Hey cutie, what say we blow this joint and go have some fun?” Conversation halted and about one second later, everybody was laughing. Michael Patterson isn’t the only one to have used that in the last several years. :)
dcdete. over 1 year ago
The first line, Liz is wondering if her mom knows whether Michael is graduating or not graduating??
I suppose parents are usually the last to find out.
Enter.Name.Here over 1 year ago
The emotional thoughts about school come once you are well out of there. ;-)
9thCapricorn over 1 year ago
Truth about never seeing some school mates again after graduation. Same as college. I have a few on my FB from high school and college and none from graduate school. Granted, graduate school is more job oriented, and we students did not really socialize and many of us were also married with children, including myself.
French Persons' Celebration of Peeved Harry Dinkle Premium Member over 1 year ago
I think his legs are made of rubber.
snsurone76 over 1 year ago
Apparently, Elly’s memories of high school are different from Michael’s.
Might be “selective memory”.
Next year, Mike will be off to college and away from his parents’ direct control, and he will learn what independence REALLY is. I speak from experience how intoxicating it is!!
Carl Premium Member over 1 year ago
Why people think HS was such a great time and place are beyond me.
FreyjaRN Premium Member over 1 year ago
I was like him. The only one from high school I had anything to do with was my high school sweetheart, who ended up being my first husband.
Space_cat over 1 year ago
Class reunions only exist to serve as a reminder that there is a reason you only see these people every 30 years!
zerotvus over 1 year ago
Now his real education is about to begin……..
'IndyMan' over 1 year ago
The classmates from a number of graduating classes from my high school must be different somehow from the ones in Canada, they not only keep in touch with ‘FB’ but meet regularly in our hometown to keep up with one another. My class (’63) meet for lunch on the first Tuesday of every month—it is a known fact and whomever can show up shows up and we have a time remembering and catching up on our lives.
Robert Nowall Premium Member over 1 year ago
I went to four different schools in my life. When I went from one to another, there wasn’t anybody but me there from the previous school.
JD_Rhoades over 1 year ago
I’m still in frequent touch with my high school friends. Apparently that makes me unusual.
Mumblix Premium Member over 1 year ago
I can’t believe that it’s been 15 years since these reruns started back in 2008.
dalemcginnis over 1 year ago
I’m with Michael. Couldn’t wait to graduate high school and get away from all the kids I knew since elementary school.
Snolep over 1 year ago
My grandson will be entering his senior year in the fall, and all of us, including him, are already feeling a little sad and wistful about the upcoming changes. Think Joni Mitchell’s Circle Game.
kaycstamper over 1 year ago
He won’t have her perspective until after he’s left and sees that for himself. And he’ll keep up with some of them on FB.
More Coffee Please! Premium Member over 1 year ago
That’s certainly how I felt. I had friends and there were definitely some good times, but it always felt like I was growing up in someone else’s home town. I couldn’t wait to go out and find mine.
walspj1 over 1 year ago
I am very easily going the rest of my life without ever seeing any of the people I went to high school with again.
Chris over 1 year ago
one of many… :J
mckeonfuneralhomebx over 1 year ago
School is just a learning ground for institutionalization. Starts with schools, or 3% of the American population will see a prison/jail cell. From there you will have up to a 60% chance of looking forward to a nursing home! Home schooling is the answer. No peer pressure, No bullying, Plus homeschooling will save Billions of dollars!
TMMILLER Premium Member over 1 year ago
I left school on Jan 3rd. Checked out with the guidance councilor, walked across the hall to where my ex GF was standing, gave her a hug and kiss. Talked for 35 seconds saying I was “outa here!” Three days later I was working in the Challis National Forest planting mountain mahogany shrub. Just one of many different jobs I had working in the Forest Service for 2 years prior to starting college.
ladykat over 1 year ago
Michael is jumping for joy.
French Persons' Celebration of Peeved Harry Dinkle Premium Member over 1 year ago
If the nostalgia comes, it will come as you start to approach your 10 year anniversary. As for the here and now, kids just want to GTFO of high school!
kittygatos over 1 year ago
I had a surprise bridal shower and did not recognize one of my high school friends till she started talking (had not seen her for 3-4 years). She had lost her glasses (had contacts), lost weight, new haircut. What a transformation.
EXCALABUR over 1 year ago
At least in this strip times go on the characters get older, just in real life.
Daltongang Premium Member over 1 year ago
Well, we got no choice
All the girls and boys (girls and boys)
Making all that noise (ooh)
’Cause they found new toys
We can’t salute ya
Can’t find a flag
If that don’t suit ya
That’s a drag
School’s out for summer
School’s out forever
I’m bored to pieces
Well, we got no class
And we got no principals (ooh)
And we got no intelligence
We can’t even think of a word that rhymes, well
We can’t salute ya
Can’t find a flag
If that don’t suit ya
That’s a drag
School’s out for summer
School’s out forever
I’m bored to pieces
No more pencils, no more books
No more teachers, dirty looks
Out for summer, out ’til fall
As a senior I won’t come back at all
School’s out for summer (detention)
School’s out forever
School’s out with fever
School’s out completely
School’s out for summer
vaughnrl2003 Premium Member over 1 year ago
The further I get from High School graduation the less I want to see the people I graduated with. I mean really, if they look anywhere near as old as that guy I see in the mirror, phooey. All of them, in my mind, look exactly like they did when we were all 18 or so. I dread to travel into their futures and see what time has wrought.
Foob over 1 year ago
When did Michael start doing drugs?
JUST SAY NO, MICHAEL!!
joecoolfiftyfive over 1 year ago
and I never went back
MuddyUSA Premium Member over 1 year ago
My class in High school had a 50th year reunion. A lot of missing class mates!
John Jorgensen over 1 year ago
For all my life I’ve gotten sentimental about partings in general. Leaving people, leaving places, leaving activities of any sort, even if I hadn’t been there very long, and sometimes even if I was planning to return after awhile, has virtually always been an emotionally intense experience, at least in the moment.
So imagine my surprise when I walked out of high school for the last time with barely a shrug.
kathleenhicks62 over 1 year ago
I was more like him, if high school was 5 years I wouldn’t have made it.
johnaapc over 1 year ago
that’s how i felt. Kids are mean, I couldn’t wait to never see them again.
198.23.5.11 over 1 year ago
I don’t miss any of my school bullies, and I wonder what prison they ended up in
CoreyTaylor1 over 1 year ago
No sentimentality about his TEACHERS, that’s for sure!Like most cases, it’s not the place, it’s the PEOPLE.
3cranes Premium Member over 1 year ago
Yep! Last days of Senior year; the longest/shortest year of school, and so ready to get out!
rushfan200 over 1 year ago
One school I was NOT sorry to leave behind was junior high. I felt they owed me a Purple Heart for the 3-year ordeal I’d just gone through!
raybarb44 over 1 year ago
Until you remember them as “Glory Days” my friend…….
Templo S.U.D. over 1 year ago
Time sure flies.
canyon712 Premium Member over 1 year ago
That was me long time ago.
howtheduck over 1 year ago
“Some of them he will never see again.” Don’t worry, folks. We will see all of Mike’s friends after high school and some of his enemies too.
I'm Sad over 1 year ago
I really loved high school but when it was over, you knew who your true friends were. In my case, people came up with excuse after excuse as to why they couldn’t see me or make time for me, even after I have gone out of my way for them. College is different, and today everything is online so it’s harder to make friends. I would be happy if somebody went out to a restaurant and have dinner/supper with me and chat and I would be glad to pay for it just because we all need some kind of adult friendship.
HodgeElmwood over 1 year ago
I can relate, Mike. And yeah, only once or twice did I ever see any of those kids again, and not for years now.
pchemcat over 1 year ago
My attitude was definitely the same as Michael’s. It was high time to blow that pop stand!
djtenltd over 1 year ago
@9thCapricorn- Right and Elly’s right. Right now, Mike’s caught up in the moment of finally graduating but it’s not going to hit him until maybe a couple of years later that many of his school friends he will never see again. We all go went through that. 90% of the people I graduated with from HS and JHS I’ve never seen again. And a few have even passed away. I remember when I graduated from the sixth grade, I cried to my mother telling her that I will never see most of my friends whom I used to cut the fool on the school bus with, ever again. She said that I’ll make new friends when I get to JHS and she was right.
The Great_Black President over 1 year ago
Michael will always remember his friends Daryyl, Arnie, and Wesley D. Bates.
dlestersprint0 over 1 year ago
Michael should join the Canadian marines. It might do him some good. I know the U.S.C.G. was the best thing I ever did. I joined the reserve when I was a senior in H.S.
Michael McKown Premium Member over 1 year ago
So a couple years ago, I was at my sister’s with her husband and his family. Lots of folks present, including a wheelchair-bound woman of 85 or 90 years. I was just hanging out, she and I talked a bit, then in front of everyone she said, “I love you.” I smiled then decided to have some fun with that, using a ridiculous pickup line that probably originated with 1930s movies. Standing next to her wheelchair, I said this, somewhat louder than normal: “Hey cutie, what say we blow this joint and go have some fun?” Conversation halted and about one second later, everybody was laughing. Michael Patterson isn’t the only one to have used that in the last several years. :)
lindz.coop Premium Member over 1 year ago
It hit me at our all-night party…somebody put up a sign that said “when the morning breaks we’ll be gone.” It was so true.
dwh3962 over 1 year ago
Schools are corrupt and full of crap heads