I used to love to go out with my mother. I’d get all dolled up too, hoping maybe I would run into some cute boy. Not going to happen sitting in my room!
Ah, the teen years stage on the continuum from being pushed in a pram by mom to eventually pushing Mom in a wheelchair followed by shopping alone and thinking “ oh look, Mom would have aloved/hated/laughed at this!”
That’s the way I handle it. I tell them: “I’m leaving in 15 minutes, if you want to go, you’ll be waiting at the door with your coat and boots on”….. If they’re ready, we’ll go. If they’re not ready, then I don’t wait and keep asking them.
I’m glad that my girls never went through the “I don’t want to be seen with my mother” phase, but what helped was that their friends all liked me, too…mostly because I didn’t try to act like them. I was cool because I was uncool.
I tried that with my 18 year old stepson (he was still in bed) before hubby and I were married. I was visiting and going to look for a job in the next town over. Well, I told him I’m leaving at 9:00. Then I’m leaving in 30 minutes. Then leaving in 15 minutes. Then at 9:00 I said goodbye and left. He was stunned! Everyone else had always catered to him. He learned the hard way.
Oh, and by the way, many years later we are great friends!
Once while shopping for a snowboard long ago, my 14-year-old son came over to me in panic and said, “Dad, that kid who just came in knows me. Pretend you don’t.” I had a mischievous urge to point directly at him and yell, “I don’t know you, Son!” But I’d been in his shoes at nearly the same age, so I just masked my laughter and loved him all the more.
charliefarmrhere about 8 hours ago
Hello WUSS!
snsurone76 about 8 hours ago
Gee, Liz is just as tall as her mother! Comic strip kids sure grow fast (physically).
Daniel Verburg about 6 hours ago
Cheer up Liz, it’s only a phase.
dlkrueger33 about 4 hours ago
I used to love to go out with my mother. I’d get all dolled up too, hoping maybe I would run into some cute boy. Not going to happen sitting in my room!
arolarson Premium Member about 4 hours ago
Ah, the teen years stage on the continuum from being pushed in a pram by mom to eventually pushing Mom in a wheelchair followed by shopping alone and thinking “ oh look, Mom would have aloved/hated/laughed at this!”
gammaguy about 3 hours ago
In Denmark, it’s extremely common for mother and daughter to go shopping together, whether the daughter’s age is 2 or 20.
French Persons' Celebration of Peeved Harry Dinkle Premium Member about 3 hours ago
That’s the way I handle it. I tell them: “I’m leaving in 15 minutes, if you want to go, you’ll be waiting at the door with your coat and boots on”….. If they’re ready, we’ll go. If they’re not ready, then I don’t wait and keep asking them.
Wren Fahel about 3 hours ago
I’m glad that my girls never went through the “I don’t want to be seen with my mother” phase, but what helped was that their friends all liked me, too…mostly because I didn’t try to act like them. I was cool because I was uncool.
birkemeyerjulie about 3 hours ago
I am only 5’ 2. A shortie. And Liz, some day you will miss your mother. Take advantage of it!
SquidGamerGal about 2 hours ago
What is wrong with her?!
Prescott_Philosopher about 2 hours ago
I learned to judge women by the relationship they had with their mother. Struck Pay Dirt with my wife.
JudithStocker Premium Member about 2 hours ago
Good for Elly! Get right to the point and don’t mess around. If Liz wasn’t at the door, I think Elly would’ve left without her.
Niko S about 1 hour ago
Someday, dipstick, you’ll wish your mother were around to go places and do things with. SIGH!
baskate_2000 about 1 hour ago
Just do it, don’t be a wuss!
klesmiley_ Premium Member about 1 hour ago
I tried that with my 18 year old stepson (he was still in bed) before hubby and I were married. I was visiting and going to look for a job in the next town over. Well, I told him I’m leaving at 9:00. Then I’m leaving in 30 minutes. Then leaving in 15 minutes. Then at 9:00 I said goodbye and left. He was stunned! Everyone else had always catered to him. He learned the hard way.
Oh, and by the way, many years later we are great friends!
Angry Indeed Premium Member about 1 hour ago
She wuss just saying….
ctolson 43 minutes ago
But being with your mother is better than stewing in a bowl of self-pitty.
jarvisloop 35 minutes ago
Downtown? Who goes downtown anymore? Now, it’s all malls and the Internet (at least that’s how it is in Ohio).
(Yep. This is an old strip. I know that. Just posting for the heck of it.)
MuddyUSA Premium Member 33 minutes ago
And there you have it…….
rshive 15 minutes ago
Some days one feels like a wuss. So little problem looking like one.
OldDoug Premium Member 13 minutes ago
Once while shopping for a snowboard long ago, my 14-year-old son came over to me in panic and said, “Dad, that kid who just came in knows me. Pretend you don’t.” I had a mischievous urge to point directly at him and yell, “I don’t know you, Son!” But I’d been in his shoes at nearly the same age, so I just masked my laughter and loved him all the more.