The year begins with a fight between Luann and Bernice… PERFECT! If we’re lucky, Luann will take the words she says leaving as a resolution and, over the course of this year, she’ll be able to realizing that her life can be so much better without her “BFF” around to constantly bring her down. This is the only possible interpretation of this arc I see. The bond between the two is dying and this happens due to Bernice’s inability to be more understanding and kind. If she doesn’t change, she will lose Luann.
Bernice needs to look in the mirror. She’s trying to use her limited psychology learning to help LuAnn when she herself has psychological/social issues. She has to help -fix her self before she can help – fix others.
Excellent way to get out of being roped in to Luann’s idiotic plan! Good job Bernice! Maybe she’ll get mad enough to take on some responsibility for her own actions and goals.
Somebody has to call Luann out on her bull sh*t. Her parents certainly don’t. They just let her go about her life shifting in the wind with no structure or expectations, not even any household rules. They keep Bernice there as a babysitter. Someone for Luann to talk to who will tell them if anything is getting really out of hand.
Luann could improve her life by giving Bernice a one-way ticket on a space ship to another galaxy. I wouldn’t call Bernice, the Devil’s Advocate; more likely, she his replacement!
Am I the only one who thinks Luann is just as insufferable as Bernice in this exchange? She demands that everyone to help her with her resolutions but doesn’t actually have a plan on how she’s going to keep them, and then throws a tantrum when called out on it? Good lord.
Okay, the thing that people are missing here is that Luann didn’t ask for Bernice’s ‘help’ in the first place! Bernice kept giving Luann unsolicited advice, and Luann finally got sick of her criticism and left. We’ve been subjected to week after week of Bernice’s smug ‘help’. Why doesn’t she look in the mirror if she wants to help someone. Physician, heal thyself.
Stop the hate! Bernice was asked by Luann to help her keep her resolutions. Luann has made ambiguous resolutions, “Be kinder” or ones with no plan, “Clean up my room”. Luann needs to rethink the resolutions and define how she intends to change for the better in 2024, but I doubt she is willing to do the work. Bernice is trying to lead her in the right direction, to get her focused on making reality-based resolutions.
OK, everyone here is down on Bernice as being judgmental (when she clearly has work to do on herself). HOWEVER, I think Bern’s point (all along) is not what the resolutions are but the idea of them and the fact that people make them only to not keep them or they make ones that are overly vague with no plan as to how to implement. Bern takes the overly technical/analytical approach to everything and G&K are exaggerating this for effect, as they do everything.
I’d ask if Luann is going through a certain experience that I can remember my older sister going through that would make her behave in such a manner, but I know that will only result in having “sexist” and “misogynistic” labels hurled at me, so I won’t ask.
Luann has been kind for years by never telling Bernice to get lost. So there’s that, at least. Frank and Nancy could stand to be more kind to Luann by not making snide remarks about her.
Did it ever occur to you Bernice that Luann may not want or need your help? I think it’s time you consider a new major, because you are failing miserably with your current major.
Tyge about 1 year ago
A tear in the relationship? Troubling! 8^ (
BayReader about 1 year ago
Delusional, one track mind Bernice. Read the room, girl. Read the room.
live2read about 1 year ago
First time I’ve ever seen Luann walk out on Bernice. Good!
Doneaver about 1 year ago
Oh Bernice, can you not get out of your self-centered universe. You’re finding a way to be smug in any situation is disturbing.
ronaldspence about 1 year ago
wow Bern is insufferable!
kenhense about 1 year ago
Scary to think that Bernice might wind up with a degree in psychology and people go to her for help – and this is all the help they get.
MarieStanford about 1 year ago
Guess I missed it When Luann asked Bernice for help
lvlax about 1 year ago
So… time to give Ms. Bernice a 30 day notice to vacate the premises? Fingers crossed!
This is such a weak arc to start off the year with, I hope they improve!
Joe1962 about 1 year ago
Calling Dr. Ruth these two ladies need some advice on how to be better friends.
Wilkins068 about 1 year ago
48 out of 50 cats dont like Bernice
snsurone76 about 1 year ago
I hope real-life counsellors are more efficient (and less self-centered) than Bernice.
cmxx about 1 year ago
That’s Bernice just being Bernice.
blunebottle about 1 year ago
Bernice, so dense.
Rhetorical_Question about 1 year ago
Frank Degroot was right?
Rhetorical_Question about 1 year ago
Bernice is permanent member of Degroot Family according to Nancy?
Rhetorical_Question about 1 year ago
Go and feed Puddles?
i_am_the_jam about 1 year ago
2024 is off to a GREAT start for this strip, isn’t it, folks? :P :P :P
MeanBob Premium Member about 1 year ago
Psychology is just a license to be judgemental. At least in the hands of amateurs.
Oldschoolornot about 1 year ago
Bernice reminds me of the saying “when you’re a hammer, everything you see is a nail”
Aladar30 Premium Member about 1 year ago
The year begins with a fight between Luann and Bernice… PERFECT! If we’re lucky, Luann will take the words she says leaving as a resolution and, over the course of this year, she’ll be able to realizing that her life can be so much better without her “BFF” around to constantly bring her down. This is the only possible interpretation of this arc I see. The bond between the two is dying and this happens due to Bernice’s inability to be more understanding and kind. If she doesn’t change, she will lose Luann.
David Huie Green LoveJoyAndPeace about 1 year ago
Education is a fine thing and I support each school,
It’s a shame some seem too timid to teach the Golden Rule:
“Try to treat each other the way you wish they treated you,
And have pity on the driver, I’m just a human too."
(dhg from The Short Bus Song or Bus Driver’s Lament)
French Persons' Celebration of Peeved Harry Dinkle Premium Member about 1 year ago
Basket case number one and basket case number two.
CastletonSnob about 1 year ago
In your opinion, when did this strip go downhill in quality?
Ellis97 about 1 year ago
Luann, you don’t need Bernice as a counselor or a roomie or a friend. I seriously don’t get what you see in her.
Bernedoodle about 1 year ago
Feed the “DOG”.
ACTIVIST1234 about 1 year ago
Luann:. DenialBern: Delusional
The life of the mind is fascinating.
kaycstamper about 1 year ago
Shaking head…
bluephrog about 1 year ago
Bernice is in training to become a theraPEST
Willywise52 Premium Member about 1 year ago
Luann needs a man,then a plan…
Dkram about 1 year ago
Bernice, go to your room.
\\//_
STACEY MARSHALL Premium Member about 1 year ago
Bern: resolve to be less judge-mental!
Shanana about 1 year ago
But Luann is kind, Bernice, you arrogant wannabe Freud. Go live with Ben. Seriously, with a “bestie” like that, who needs enemies?
ctolson about 1 year ago
Bernice needs to look in the mirror. She’s trying to use her limited psychology learning to help LuAnn when she herself has psychological/social issues. She has to help -fix her self before she can help – fix others.
chris_o42 about 1 year ago
Geeze Louise Bernice—just shut the heck up!
MollyCat about 1 year ago
Boooooorrrring
Just-me about 1 year ago
Best thing Luann could have done is walk away from Berniece.
ScottMacAskill about 1 year ago
Isn’t there a law about trying to practice psychology when you are only into second/third year of your bachelor’s degree?
Ken Otwell about 1 year ago
I don’t remember Luann asking Bernice for help.
carlosrivers about 1 year ago
I’m with Bernice on this point. Luann is just saying the right things for people to hear, and Bernice is calling her out on it, which confuses Luann…
comic reader 22 about 1 year ago
Excellent way to get out of being roped in to Luann’s idiotic plan! Good job Bernice! Maybe she’ll get mad enough to take on some responsibility for her own actions and goals.
Somebody has to call Luann out on her bull sh*t. Her parents certainly don’t. They just let her go about her life shifting in the wind with no structure or expectations, not even any household rules. They keep Bernice there as a babysitter. Someone for Luann to talk to who will tell them if anything is getting really out of hand.
Now take that list off your door
prrdh about 1 year ago
Luann is feeling much kinder toward those Bernice is ‘helping’, anyway.
eced52 about 1 year ago
Bernice, isn’t your mother calling you? I think she has recovered from your last therapy session by now.
YorkGirl Premium Member about 1 year ago
Ah, and there it is. Set yourself up for failure by delegating a job, without detailing the responsibilities. Then leave in a huff.
Artistic personality vs logical thinking, the story of my life! ;-))
Call me Ishmael about 1 year ago
She’s already been kind. She hasn’t given Bern a good klop.
metagalaxy1970 about 1 year ago
The problem with learning psychology is that you want to analyze EVERYONE instead of letting things be.
Angry Indeed Premium Member about 1 year ago
Luann could improve her life by giving Bernice a one-way ticket on a space ship to another galaxy. I wouldn’t call Bernice, the Devil’s Advocate; more likely, she his replacement!
Tetonbil about 1 year ago
My god can we please be finished with this?
StoicLion1973 about 1 year ago
Why is Bernice such a stick-in-the-mud as a young adult? She was much less so as a teen.
Carol from CT about 1 year ago
I really wonder how these two stay friends…Bern, lighten up. You’re far from perfect yourself.
BJShipley1 about 1 year ago
Am I the only one who thinks Luann is just as insufferable as Bernice in this exchange? She demands that everyone to help her with her resolutions but doesn’t actually have a plan on how she’s going to keep them, and then throws a tantrum when called out on it? Good lord.
teammahnken about 1 year ago
Bernice IS trying to help, but the thing is, I don’t remember Luann asking her to.
Enoi about 1 year ago
I do sometimes wonder how/why those two have remained friends all these years.
Mordock999 Premium Member about 1 year ago
“Be Kind? REWIND!”
And Lu? You were “kind” to Gunther last fall, so that “box” has been checked.
Bernice? You might want investigate this “kindness phenomenon” and practice it on something other than your fish.
pls50 about 1 year ago
the people i know that has a phycology decree tends to be the ones that need phycological help.
FassEddie about 1 year ago
Incomplete brain. Wait six years. Maybe ten.
snowedin, now known as Missy's mom about 1 year ago
Okay, the thing that people are missing here is that Luann didn’t ask for Bernice’s ‘help’ in the first place! Bernice kept giving Luann unsolicited advice, and Luann finally got sick of her criticism and left. We’ve been subjected to week after week of Bernice’s smug ‘help’. Why doesn’t she look in the mirror if she wants to help someone. Physician, heal thyself.
andersjg Premium Member about 1 year ago
Hoplessly mired in pscho-babble.
MJ Weber Premium Member about 1 year ago
Luann did the right thing. Bernice is incredibly tiresome. Hope this year she finally starts to figure it out.
paulscon about 1 year ago
Stop the hate! Bernice was asked by Luann to help her keep her resolutions. Luann has made ambiguous resolutions, “Be kinder” or ones with no plan, “Clean up my room”. Luann needs to rethink the resolutions and define how she intends to change for the better in 2024, but I doubt she is willing to do the work. Bernice is trying to lead her in the right direction, to get her focused on making reality-based resolutions.
RSH about 1 year ago
OK, everyone here is down on Bernice as being judgmental (when she clearly has work to do on herself). HOWEVER, I think Bern’s point (all along) is not what the resolutions are but the idea of them and the fact that people make them only to not keep them or they make ones that are overly vague with no plan as to how to implement. Bern takes the overly technical/analytical approach to everything and G&K are exaggerating this for effect, as they do everything.
J. Scarbrough about 1 year ago
I’d ask if Luann is going through a certain experience that I can remember my older sister going through that would make her behave in such a manner, but I know that will only result in having “sexist” and “misogynistic” labels hurled at me, so I won’t ask.
Caldonia about 1 year ago
Luann has been kind for years by never telling Bernice to get lost. So there’s that, at least. Frank and Nancy could stand to be more kind to Luann by not making snide remarks about her.
SandbaggerOne about 1 year ago
Is Bernice the worst character in comics? I really think that yes, she is. I would so love for her to be killed off.
dlestersprint0 about 1 year ago
I hope this is the end of this arc.
Wishingonastar about 1 year ago
Could this be the end of a “beautiful” relationship? One could hope so.
bwest.devore37 about 1 year ago
Bernice is clueless.
The Quiet One about 1 year ago
Did it ever occur to you Bernice that Luann may not want or need your help? I think it’s time you consider a new major, because you are failing miserably with your current major.
dimndno about 1 year ago
I’ve a few people that can quickly identify other people’s faults but none of their own.
Susan123 about 1 year ago
Luann didn’t ask for help. What are Bernices resolutions? To “help” others?
NiteKat about 1 year ago
Bernice takes credit for all positive outcomes, whether real or imagined on her part.
In this case, she’s decided she “helped” Luann, so she patting herself on the back. (metaphorically speaking)
mistercatworks about 1 year ago
Still seems to be in “kinder-garten” to me.
TIMH about 1 year ago
Why, oh why could Bernice not have gone the way of Knute, Crystal, and Delta?
melodymucisa about 1 year ago
I can’t wait to see what happens!
BuckarooDave about 1 year ago
Sunday : Brad and Toni are perplexed!
WomanWarrior about 1 year ago
I hope Bernice doesn’t break her arm patting herself on the back.
Mooshki Premium Member about 1 year ago
Please let Bernice find a different course of study, because she SUCKS at counseling.
DaveM about 1 year ago
Bernice is going to make a terrible therapist.
Like really, really terrible.
Ceeg22 Premium Member about 1 year ago
Bernice needs to be kinder
Sisyphos almost 1 year ago
Luann is just tossing the words around, but Bernie is the catalyst for doing something—more or less….