Because it’s easier to gather your thoughts when you’re not playing verbal ping pong with someone, risking your relationship on not saying the wrong thing.
Bets stops to think about it for a minute an moves the picture of Kippy up next to her bunk. Then she clicks her heels together an suddenly she’s not in Gunterville anymore /S
Bets needs to be true to herself. I remember on an episode of The Waltons when grandpa told his wife the grandma that she is not to pretend to be sweet. She is pepper!!! She is salt! She is the family’s spice. Bets needs to balance her life’s relationships.
Me: “Aren’t” is used for the second person (you aren’t). The first person form is amn’t (seriously. Look it up if you don’t believe me.) The M is silent, so it’s pronounced like ant, which is the origin of the word ain’t. If you don’t want to use the word “amn’t”, perhaps because you’re afraid nobody will understand you, it would, strictly speaking, be grammatically correct to say “Why ain’t I telling you this in person”, but that’s not considered good English, except maybe in the southern states. Well… it’s not considered good American, except in the south. It’s not considered good English anywhere.
But that doesn’t really “bother” Me as much as the fact that after Bets left Gunther by the roadside last year, she didn’t communicate with him for months until she returned.
Gunny would do well to continue to stick to his studies and perhaps consider other opportunities in the “romance department.”
Bets, while a good friend, and (IMO) an interesting character just has way too many hang ups, For NOW, unless……,
(Bets. Repeat to yourself: _ Business Opportunity with Tiffany._)
Sure writing is a way to organize your thoughts and remember more details as you are not pressed in conversation, so just continue to write and then suggest a in person conversation.
It’s nice to see Bets so determined to change and wanting to have a life full of quality with Gunther. But it seems like she’s going too far in the other way. It’s not wrong to write a text or talk on the phone and it’s exaggerated to only ever want to talk to someone in person. It will still take her a long time to find a balance and I continue to hope that she and Tiffany will find a project to develop together. Meanwhile, I’m surprised at how bare that room is. I expected a lot more pictures of Kip around Stef’s bed, posters, cheerleader uniforms and some superheroes and anime related stuff from Bets.
According to the web, “You can describe someone as a zombie if their face or behavior shows no feeling, understanding, or interest in what is going on around them.”
Similarly, the web defines glum, “looking or feeling dejected; morose.”
Appears that a “glum zombie” is an incompatible combination.
and….although reconnecting with you would be really nice Gunther, I don’t feel that a serious relationship is what’s best for me at this time. I need to quit dating for awhile, concentrate on school, and re-evaluate my goals and priorities. It’s been great and we will always be friends. Bets
Why .. she asks! Well, this week alone we’ve found that she’s devoid of any of the right stuff and completely filled with the wrong and she won’t get off of her whiny butt to live a real life. And, as she’s always been portrayed, she’s a self centered, controlling attention freak who’s shown that her life’s mantra is “It’s all about … MEEEEEE!!!” Maybe we’ll get back to Luann, the family, the cafe … etc. next week.
looks like Bets got the little kick in the butt from Dez which she needed in order to move forward in life (w/o the constant posting on instagram etc). I look forward to seeing her engaged in real life activities.
I’ve said it before, Bets & Gun could make an awesome cosplay prop store as a start up business. The trick that Bets & Gun need to realize is how to take their passions, and express them in a healthy way that fulfills a vital human need.
Doing the cosplay prop shop, making products for others to enjoy the cosplay lifestyle, is one of those options, “Van Life” is incredibly taxing on the human mind and body, despite how cost effective it is.
But I’m also wondering why doesn’t Gun find a gig that pays enough to afford his own place, pull “An Officer and a Gentleman”, and simply tell his folks “Bets and I are moving out to our own place, doing our own thing!”?
It’s tough, but stepping up and being a man is hard. Otherwise, everyone could do it.
alasko about 1 year ago
Because you are addicted to your electronic world.
Tyge about 1 year ago
This looks like the start of a beautiful relationship. (With apologies to Casablanca) 8^ )
syzygy47 about 1 year ago
Because it’s easier to gather your thoughts when you’re not playing verbal ping pong with someone, risking your relationship on not saying the wrong thing.
Nobody_Important about 1 year ago
At least she seems to be learning something.
Joe1962 about 1 year ago
Bets, because you are afraid, plus it’s a lot easier talking to a picture on the wall of Gun then face to face.
Argythree about 1 year ago
Bets is really trying hard; I still think she could be one of the best things to happen to Gunther…
eromlig about 1 year ago
But whose picture is that beneath her? Oh, wait — it’s her roomie’s boyfriend.
ericbrower about 1 year ago
One half-step at a time Bets.
9thCapricorn about 1 year ago
Good question Bets. I suspect you know the answer.
ericbrower about 1 year ago
Bets isn’t telling in person because she still has limited visitations to the Gulag.
Wilkins068 about 1 year ago
Bets stops to think about it for a minute an moves the picture of Kippy up next to her bunk. Then she clicks her heels together an suddenly she’s not in Gunterville anymore /S
The /S means I’m jus funnin’
David Huie Green LoveJoyAndPeace about 1 year ago
The first step towards solving a problem is recognizing you have a problem that you need to solve.
rasputin's horoscope about 1 year ago
She’s not talking to him in person because that’s not how her age group communicates, and Bets is the poster child for Gen Z.
kenhense about 1 year ago
Where is Stef?
Willow Mt Lyon about 1 year ago
The clock is broken. It is stuck at the same time.
Willow Mt Lyon about 1 year ago
Bets just realized that she doesn’t need to do all that texting and social media to communicate with people.
jmworacle about 1 year ago
Yes, why?
lvlax about 1 year ago
P.S. Dez called me whiny. I lost my temper. Long story short… now she’s buried in her garden. Please don’t tell anyone.
PaulLeckner about 1 year ago
Bets needs to be true to herself. I remember on an episode of The Waltons when grandpa told his wife the grandma that she is not to pretend to be sweet. She is pepper!!! She is salt! She is the family’s spice. Bets needs to balance her life’s relationships.
Purple People Eater about 1 year ago
Bets: Why aren’t I telling you this in person?
Me: “Aren’t” is used for the second person (you aren’t). The first person form is amn’t (seriously. Look it up if you don’t believe me.) The M is silent, so it’s pronounced like ant, which is the origin of the word ain’t. If you don’t want to use the word “amn’t”, perhaps because you’re afraid nobody will understand you, it would, strictly speaking, be grammatically correct to say “Why ain’t I telling you this in person”, but that’s not considered good English, except maybe in the southern states. Well… it’s not considered good American, except in the south. It’s not considered good English anywhere.
Ok, I’ve picked enough nits for now.
snsurone76 about 1 year ago
Are you afraid Mommy Dearest will overhear? She probably snoops through his phone and e-mails, anyway.
Rhetorical_Question about 1 year ago
Ah! Breakthrough
blunebottle about 1 year ago
BINGO!
Mordock999 Premium Member about 1 year ago
Yep.
Bets is back on the smartphone As Expected.
But that doesn’t really “bother” Me as much as the fact that after Bets left Gunther by the roadside last year, she didn’t communicate with him for months until she returned.
Gunny would do well to continue to stick to his studies and perhaps consider other opportunities in the “romance department.”
Bets, while a good friend, and (IMO) an interesting character just has way too many hang ups, For NOW, unless……,
(Bets. Repeat to yourself: _ Business Opportunity with Tiffany._)
baraktorvan about 1 year ago
Sure writing is a way to organize your thoughts and remember more details as you are not pressed in conversation, so just continue to write and then suggest a in person conversation.
cabalonrye about 1 year ago
Because sometimes it is much easier to put your thoughts in order when you write them down?
bh05150 about 1 year ago
Is that a school or a mental institution she’s supposed to be in? Because I don’t recall her actually being an enrolled student.
Hamady Sack Premium Member about 1 year ago
Moonie Penitentiary.
Ellis97 about 1 year ago
Sometimes when you talk in person, it’s a little hard to get the words out.
Huckleberry Hiroshima about 1 year ago
Exactly.
ctolson about 1 year ago
Or at the very least, call him. 555-sew-easy.
Aladar30 Premium Member about 1 year ago
It’s nice to see Bets so determined to change and wanting to have a life full of quality with Gunther. But it seems like she’s going too far in the other way. It’s not wrong to write a text or talk on the phone and it’s exaggerated to only ever want to talk to someone in person. It will still take her a long time to find a balance and I continue to hope that she and Tiffany will find a project to develop together. Meanwhile, I’m surprised at how bare that room is. I expected a lot more pictures of Kip around Stef’s bed, posters, cheerleader uniforms and some superheroes and anime related stuff from Bets.
Gen.Flashman about 1 year ago
Still in bed at 1:30pm? Stef makes her bed that would make a Parris Island Marine DI proud.
French Persons' Treasury of Self-Applauding Batty Premium Member about 1 year ago
Gen-Z (eyeroll)
Lescoe Brandon about 1 year ago
Be nice if they showed some of them attending classes at university.
Uncle Bob about 1 year ago
internet addiction…
mxy about 1 year ago
Does anyone actually go to classes in this strip?
carrissima about 1 year ago
There we go! Good step, Bets.
carlosrivers about 1 year ago
That’s a revelation right there, you’re on your way Bets…
[Unnamed Reader - bddb15] about 1 year ago
What’s the difference between boots and shoes? And why hide them in boxes when the could be displayed neatly under the bed?
mountainclimber about 1 year ago
According to the web, “You can describe someone as a zombie if their face or behavior shows no feeling, understanding, or interest in what is going on around them.”
Similarly, the web defines glum, “looking or feeling dejected; morose.”
Appears that a “glum zombie” is an incompatible combination.
pscheel about 1 year ago
By George, I think she’s got it
jconnors3954 about 1 year ago
Good question.
ccfharvard4 about 1 year ago
One could type it all up, and then present it in person. Get the conversation, real conversation, started.
locake about 1 year ago
It was a boring week, but at least we did not see Stef or Bernice. I guess boring is better than annoying.
comic reader 22 about 1 year ago
and….although reconnecting with you would be really nice Gunther, I don’t feel that a serious relationship is what’s best for me at this time. I need to quit dating for awhile, concentrate on school, and re-evaluate my goals and priorities. It’s been great and we will always be friends. Bets
justanudderpeeon about 1 year ago
I see the light coming on in Bets head!
Angry Indeed Premium Member about 1 year ago
Bet’s magnetic Id is dominant. She needs to her breath do the talking, not her fingers.
dv1093 about 1 year ago
I can’t wait until Bets becomes part of the Luann archives, like Jonah and Prudence.
BuckarooDave about 1 year ago
Sunday: Brad goes to the sink …
Tetonbil about 1 year ago
Exactly!
Need coffee about 1 year ago
OK, but has anyone ever seen a happy zombie? Glum is the default.
Doctor Go about 1 year ago
Ooooo, insight…
oakie817 about 1 year ago
right?
GaryCooper about 1 year ago
Talking to people in person is really old-school.
plaidley about 1 year ago
DING! DING DING DING DING DING!
my1friend about 1 year ago
She needs to go to Gun and tell him face to face, in her world she loves him.
hansstyx about 1 year ago
Thanks to the authors to thematize that there is a real life besides all this silly self-presentation with Youtube, Instagram, TikTok etc.
Robert Nowall Premium Member about 1 year ago
In all honesty, I’m starting to weary of the Bets ’n Gun drama.
D.E.N. about 1 year ago
Why .. she asks! Well, this week alone we’ve found that she’s devoid of any of the right stuff and completely filled with the wrong and she won’t get off of her whiny butt to live a real life. And, as she’s always been portrayed, she’s a self centered, controlling attention freak who’s shown that her life’s mantra is “It’s all about … MEEEEEE!!!” Maybe we’ll get back to Luann, the family, the cafe … etc. next week.
RSH about 1 year ago
looks like Bets got the little kick in the butt from Dez which she needed in order to move forward in life (w/o the constant posting on instagram etc). I look forward to seeing her engaged in real life activities.
The Quiet One about 1 year ago
That’s a very good question Bet’s.
raybarb44 about 1 year ago
Missing something arent’ we? Sad this is how many in this generation considers “talking” or communicating……
Caldonia about 1 year ago
You’re just not good at communicating. You couldn’t even get the Earth Mother!™ stereotype to leave you alone.
Otis Rufus Driftwood about 1 year ago
Finally, self realization.
A.Ficionada about 1 year ago
She’s starting to see it!
Kenezg about 1 year ago
That’s the not connecting part.
Black76Manta about 1 year ago
Someone learned something, hopefully this is the beginning of a better and good life for her!
gigagrouch about 1 year ago
Why indeed
bullardcr about 1 year ago
I’ve said it before, Bets & Gun could make an awesome cosplay prop store as a start up business. The trick that Bets & Gun need to realize is how to take their passions, and express them in a healthy way that fulfills a vital human need.
Doing the cosplay prop shop, making products for others to enjoy the cosplay lifestyle, is one of those options, “Van Life” is incredibly taxing on the human mind and body, despite how cost effective it is.
But I’m also wondering why doesn’t Gun find a gig that pays enough to afford his own place, pull “An Officer and a Gentleman”, and simply tell his folks “Bets and I are moving out to our own place, doing our own thing!”?
It’s tough, but stepping up and being a man is hard. Otherwise, everyone could do it.
Fedup Bear about 1 year ago
So far away from the fun, silly comic this started out to be
mjowens1985 about 1 year ago
Oh, no, how is this still going on?
[Unnamed Reader - 14b4ce] about 1 year ago
Bets has conquered her internet foe
Without being overheard by the village gossip below