I thought that Bets and Tiffany switched rooms. Bets sharing a room with Steph, and Dez with Tiffany. Meaning Bets and Dez are no longer roomies, right? Or, are they still considered roomies because all four live in a Quad dorm?
She’s putting a lot on Gunther, to make him her only source of approval. As usual, she goes to extremes — the road trip that was extended past school starting, the social media that became her all-consuming paid job and now, being “cozy” every day with just Gunther. Wasn’t she supposed to be a good student? She needs to add more back into her life; her relationship with Gunther shouldn’t be all there is to it…and where is he, anyway?
When does this turn around and Dez tells Bets to not feel guilty about her little obsession? After all, some people can’t miss their soap opera or even their daily cartoon. Some cartoon fans even communicate with other cartoon fans on a computer forum…like this. Can you believe it?
There is a big difference between seeking the approval of hundreds or thousands of strangers (fans) and that of a good friend. That said, I hope she doesn’t slip back to the “old” Bets.
Every time I see Bets wanting compliments so badly, I wonder what kind of people her parents are. I can’t stop thinking that they have always neglected her and that’s why she needs to know that others like her. Now she seems happy to just be with Gunther, let’s hope it continues like this. By the way, It’s always nice to see how Dez can bring happiness, maybe Tiffany will bring doubt and Stef will bring irritation? Let’s hope Gunther arrives soon.
Don’t put all your stock in the social validation of strangers online. Very fair. But I can’t help but raise an eyebrow at “I use to crave fan attention. Now I only want his.” It feels a little sad, like she really didn’t have enough appreciation in her childhood and now as an adult she has to boost her self esteem based on what others think. Hopefully Dez tells her to rethink this cause, that’s a lot to ask for from a partner to be your sole source of validation.
Wellll… Ah HO! lowly unworthies… we certainly know Sure as God made Little Green Rutabagas that there is a quick, easy and most satisfying solution to Bets the Bae’s plight… Yep, you guessed ‘er, Chester… Back to Stalking the Wild Shoog Daddies with… with… wait for it… wait for it… Fabulous Ann❤️Eiffel!!! BOOM Problemo solved! Who needs anti social media with all the downers and trolls (we know who you are), yada. Simply hop on the Windstar and jet off to some exotic place with oodles of rich old Shoog Daddies ripe for the picking’, boy howdy. Bets the Bae is easily hawt enough to get oodles of “fan” approval from those rich old goats. Your Be❤️ed Count ❤️s it when there is a solution and happy ending… esp an Ann❤️Eiffel Happy ending >;9 So…. gotta run, hon… ’til the morrow… same Bat time… same Bat channel… To Infinity and Beyond… TTFN… Count OUT!
Bets needs to find a different focus for her social media attraction – maybe documenting unjust situations or interviewing public figures. Oh wait…those are the same.
“Proud of me? … really? ….. Are you? Look, look … I set my water glass down on the table!! Aren’t I just marvy-poo!?? Should I use that to start a new fan base???”
So how does a person differentiate between approval from strangers, approval from friends, approval from their significant other and approval from authority figures in their lives (such as teachers, clergy, etc.) It seems to me that this character should be focused on self-approval before she gets stretched in so many directions that none of it will count for anything.
I don’t think Gunther expects Bets to be an unmotivated little stepford girlfriend/wife, but I could be wrong. Maybe he wants her to be just like Irma. That would lead to trouble for sure because it’s not in Bets’ dna.
Everyone graves approval. Betts just wanted it from her subscribers. Now she’ll take it from Roz, Tiffany, and, specially Gunther. Unless/until she feels the need for more (again.)
I don’t think that the main focus of this arc is entirely Bets withdrawal symptoms; it is the one arc that is describing a romantic struggle with characters who really have a romantic (and possibly intimate) relationship in the toon-no one else has and hasn’t since Luann and Quinn.
Correct me if I’m wrong but last year, did they celebrate any holidays? I thought normally every NYE, they have a strip with the current members saying happy whatever year it is
It’s obvious, to me anyway, that Bets has some self-esteem issues that may go back to her childhood. I would like to see an arc where gets to deal with it. Maybe by talking it out with Denise or Gunther?
That exchange in the last panel kinda gives the lie to Bets’ premise, but it would be nice if we could take her at her word. Dez is clearly skeptical….
lvlax about 1 year ago
Bets is clearly in denial and will be jumping back into Social Media faster than we think.
Will Gun stay with her if she starts filming everything, again??
miztrniceguy about 1 year ago
She didn’t care about approval until panel 3
BayReader about 1 year ago
I thought that Bets and Tiffany switched rooms. Bets sharing a room with Steph, and Dez with Tiffany. Meaning Bets and Dez are no longer roomies, right? Or, are they still considered roomies because all four live in a Quad dorm?
David Huie Green LikeNobody'sEverSeen about 1 year ago
Hard on her, still craving approval.
Tyge about 1 year ago
We ALL apprreciate approval in some way or other.
Willow Mt Lyon about 1 year ago
A little growth is better than none.
chassimmons Premium Member about 1 year ago
Approval from actual friends is different from that of the online crowd.
Rhetorical_Question about 1 year ago
Needs Validation?
Joe1962 about 1 year ago
Bets is clearly delusional, look what she has in front of her a laptop.
Rhetorical_Question about 1 year ago
Where’s Gunther?
9thCapricorn about 1 year ago
Still seeking approval, Bets. Just from a different and better source than random fans in your Snapgram.
Azul0858 about 1 year ago
She’s putting a lot on Gunther, to make him her only source of approval. As usual, she goes to extremes — the road trip that was extended past school starting, the social media that became her all-consuming paid job and now, being “cozy” every day with just Gunther. Wasn’t she supposed to be a good student? She needs to add more back into her life; her relationship with Gunther shouldn’t be all there is to it…and where is he, anyway?
WomanWarrior about 1 year ago
She cares, Dez. Oh yes, Bets cares.
kenhense about 1 year ago
Approval from an actual friend means more than approval on social media.
jea9hrkr about 1 year ago
Bets is not gone yet… How about a spin off strip for the Betsy people so we can have more Luann less Bets.
blunebottle about 1 year ago
Give her a hug.
French Persons' Treasury of Self-Applauding Batty Premium Member about 1 year ago
Ohh, BEE-ESS…. Social media addictions are usually not so easily overcome…. Especially not with Bets’ narcissistic personality.
Wilkins068 about 1 year ago
Des shows her approval
Bets nearly jumps outta her chair
Nah she’s not hungry for approval at all
snsurone76 about 1 year ago
Only “lone wolves” don’t care about the approval of others.
So—are Bets and Dez gonna be BFF’s? And will that cut into time with Gunther?
redhawk1138 about 1 year ago
Unfortunately she is addicted to that instant gratification that social media brings. she needs some professional help
nightflight about 1 year ago
When does this turn around and Dez tells Bets to not feel guilty about her little obsession? After all, some people can’t miss their soap opera or even their daily cartoon. Some cartoon fans even communicate with other cartoon fans on a computer forum…like this. Can you believe it?
Troglodyte about 1 year ago
Bets seems to be getting Dez-perate.
TwilightFaze about 1 year ago
The point is she’s trying. For some people, quitting cold turkey is real easy. But for others? It’s a process.
limarick about 1 year ago
There is a big difference between seeking the approval of hundreds or thousands of strangers (fans) and that of a good friend. That said, I hope she doesn’t slip back to the “old” Bets.
OneTime59 about 1 year ago
Bets has Dez’ approval.
Aladar30 Premium Member about 1 year ago
Every time I see Bets wanting compliments so badly, I wonder what kind of people her parents are. I can’t stop thinking that they have always neglected her and that’s why she needs to know that others like her. Now she seems happy to just be with Gunther, let’s hope it continues like this. By the way, It’s always nice to see how Dez can bring happiness, maybe Tiffany will bring doubt and Stef will bring irritation? Let’s hope Gunther arrives soon.
Rockabore about 1 year ago
Don’t put all your stock in the social validation of strangers online. Very fair. But I can’t help but raise an eyebrow at “I use to crave fan attention. Now I only want his.” It feels a little sad, like she really didn’t have enough appreciation in her childhood and now as an adult she has to boost her self esteem based on what others think. Hopefully Dez tells her to rethink this cause, that’s a lot to ask for from a partner to be your sole source of validation.
Carl Premium Member about 1 year ago
One day she’s going to be buying a therapist a new car.
Ellis97 about 1 year ago
Bets, don’t get any ideas.
Count Olaf Premium Member about 1 year ago
Wellll… Ah HO! lowly unworthies… we certainly know Sure as God made Little Green Rutabagas that there is a quick, easy and most satisfying solution to Bets the Bae’s plight… Yep, you guessed ‘er, Chester… Back to Stalking the Wild Shoog Daddies with… with… wait for it… wait for it… Fabulous Ann❤️Eiffel!!! BOOM Problemo solved! Who needs anti social media with all the downers and trolls (we know who you are), yada. Simply hop on the Windstar and jet off to some exotic place with oodles of rich old Shoog Daddies ripe for the picking’, boy howdy. Bets the Bae is easily hawt enough to get oodles of “fan” approval from those rich old goats. Your Be❤️ed Count ❤️s it when there is a solution and happy ending… esp an Ann❤️Eiffel Happy ending >;9 So…. gotta run, hon… ’til the morrow… same Bat time… same Bat channel… To Infinity and Beyond… TTFN… Count OUT!
Mordock999 Premium Member about 1 year ago
Hey.
Looks like Bunk-Er-Roo Dez, is a loyal friend to the end. Stick close to her Bets.
And while Tiff is a pretty good friend, she still owes Bets for switching up roomies, and sticking her with toxic Stef.
Okay.
Now let’s get to the “Gunther! You’re spending more time with your work than ME!” part. ;-)
comic reader 22 about 1 year ago
Bets needs to find a different focus for her social media attraction – maybe documenting unjust situations or interviewing public figures. Oh wait…those are the same.
RonaldMcCalip about 1 year ago
Bets speaks with forked tongue!
D.E.N. about 1 year ago
“Proud of me? … really? ….. Are you? Look, look … I set my water glass down on the table!! Aren’t I just marvy-poo!?? Should I use that to start a new fan base???”
txmystic about 1 year ago
Gunth walks into a livestream…
kaycstamper about 1 year ago
How’s she going to pay her bills?
mac04416 about 1 year ago
If she doesn’t get control of herself, she will be on “Only Fans” doing God knows what for ‘likes’
RSH about 1 year ago
Up next Tiff and Stef; can she get some good feelings and approval from them?
preacherman Premium Member about 1 year ago
In a way, I’m into social media, but only on Sundays at 4 PM.
comic reader 22 about 1 year ago
So how does a person differentiate between approval from strangers, approval from friends, approval from their significant other and approval from authority figures in their lives (such as teachers, clergy, etc.) It seems to me that this character should be focused on self-approval before she gets stretched in so many directions that none of it will count for anything.
I don’t think Gunther expects Bets to be an unmotivated little stepford girlfriend/wife, but I could be wrong. Maybe he wants her to be just like Irma. That would lead to trouble for sure because it’s not in Bets’ dna.
DawnQuinn1 about 1 year ago
Gun is a loser, of course he will stay with her. He does not have the gonads to leave.
Ichabod Ferguson about 1 year ago
Is this an episode of Bewitched where Bets has to give up her powers so as not to offend her man’s ego?
MuddyUSA Premium Member about 1 year ago
Really, are you………
Paul D Premium Member about 1 year ago
“You like me! You honestly like me!”
aristotle835 about 1 year ago
There’s a lot of people like Bets who for some reason need outside validation. Maybe it’s an insecurity thing.
locake about 1 year ago
Nope, this is not Bets. Why has her personality totally changed? This is not believable. She would never be happy with this lifestyle.
mindjob about 1 year ago
At first it’s hard, but becomes easier. Like quitting smoking
Novalynn about 1 year ago
Who’s a good girl Bets?? You are, yes you are!!
BuckarooDave about 1 year ago
what happens if Gunther doesn’t show?
Gen.Flashman about 1 year ago
So they are going to watch a Star Trek episode on a small laptop for the 75th time?
Rick Smith Premium Member about 1 year ago
Baby steps, Bets, baby steps.
Wilkins068 about 1 year ago
Bets’ll haveta sit down an look in a mirror for her daily affirmation
’I’m good enough, I’m smart enough, and doggone it people like me..’
elliel203 about 1 year ago
Gotta get that approval hit frome SOMEWHERE… She should carry around a like button with a thumb…thumbnail
[Unnamed Reader - 14b4ce] about 1 year ago
ABBOTT: You know I wouldn’t gamble on a sure thing".
COSTELLO: “Oh,yeah?”
ABBOTT:“You wanna bet?”
[Unnamed Reader - 14b4ce] about 1 year ago
Maybe an ice bath would help
The Quiet One about 1 year ago
Everyone wants approval, but it doesn’t need to come from social media.
WilliamVollmer about 1 year ago
Everyone graves approval. Betts just wanted it from her subscribers. Now she’ll take it from Roz, Tiffany, and, specially Gunther. Unless/until she feels the need for more (again.)
AndrewSihler about 1 year ago
A “tell”.
asrialfeeple about 1 year ago
And the monkey never dies.
Baron Grim about 1 year ago
Bets is an approvalsexual. (See todays )
luann1212 about 1 year ago
I don’t think that the main focus of this arc is entirely Bets withdrawal symptoms; it is the one arc that is describing a romantic struggle with characters who really have a romantic (and possibly intimate) relationship in the toon-no one else has and hasn’t since Luann and Quinn.
fathergod about 1 year ago
Correct me if I’m wrong but last year, did they celebrate any holidays? I thought normally every NYE, they have a strip with the current members saying happy whatever year it is
paulscon about 1 year ago
It’s obvious, to me anyway, that Bets has some self-esteem issues that may go back to her childhood. I would like to see an arc where gets to deal with it. Maybe by talking it out with Denise or Gunther?
Otis Rufus Driftwood about 1 year ago
What is this, ‘Frazz’?
Sisyphos about 1 year ago
That exchange in the last panel kinda gives the lie to Bets’ premise, but it would be nice if we could take her at her word. Dez is clearly skeptical….