What happened after Bernice blew up girl’s night? Everyone looked happy until Bernice opened her mouth. This arc can be very drawn out if Gun is going to try to teach Bets moderation and having a balanced life with social media and not for social media.
1. I love that it’s Gunther initiating this. It really shows that he’s understands her. The Bets Gunther fell for is the hardworking influencer who loves her job and adventure and he’s realizing that he prefers her that way. And I agree. Far better for her to be a busy creator with her own income than a couch potato who rely on her boyfriend for attention and affirmation.
2. I’ve seen some people speculate that they are going to break up but I doubt it. They’re in love, neither of them want to break up and this is an easy issue to fix. Couples deal with worse all the time
Also I am stunned at how nice the comment section has been towards Bets lately. It warms my heart :)
It’s possible to do things, enjoy life, have adventures – and NOT post about them! There is no law that says you can only do things if you also blog about them. Bets seems to think her life is only valid if lots of other people are watching (and, one assumes, approving). Good for her for stopping the constant attention-seeking, now she needs to realise that she is also allowed to do carry on doing what she enjoys.
Surprise surprise. It seems Gunther is missing the cosplay part. I know he enjoys costuming and conventioning but does he miss performing for their Snapgram fans? That’s the bottom line.
Feels like Bets is trying to hold onto Gunther by becoming Gunther, or at least her version of Gunther. They really need to talk and figure out what makes them happy.
Good move for Gunther. Let’s see if Bets is mature enough to get on board, or will she derail the opportunity to better understand each other. If nothing else, I’m glad to see Gunther take his hand out from under the blanket. He was starting to worry me.
As far as Bets is concerned, she doesn’t want to do that stuff if she can’t stream it or get internet attention from it. Gunther needs to point out that they can go to cons and NOT do any internet stuff.
Bets will have Gunther begging to sew new costumes and get back on board with the vlogging before the week is out. He was snarky enough to revel in his “Gun” popularity to Luann so he liked it just fine.
Oh good! They are finally talking. Maybe at last they can find a balance in their lives. So happy Gunther is expressing his feelings. Now she needs to express hers. They can still have fun and fulfilled lives without having to share it all with the social media community.
I have people ask my all the time, why I never take pictures or videos of the things I do. I always tell them. Because I’m living the moment. taking pictures is the last thing on my mind. Its interesting to see how many people can’t understand that concept.
Uh, you can go do cosplay at the conventions without broadcasting your every move to the world. It would be a hobby supplementing a PRODUCTIVE LIFE of providing needed and valued goods and services to others through real work.
Ya’ll can talk marshmallows and unicorns all you want.
Bets is coming up with a mind-numbing, repetitious shows to watch in order for Gunther to break-down, get tired and insist that Bets go back her to “beloved” social media, so that SHE can be “Happy.”
What We have here, is not so much a “failure to communicate” but a text book example of a guy being waterboarded, and then given sufficient rope to HANG himself.
One truly has to admire the psychological insidious of Bets’ “plan.” Because in the end, if Gunther shows ANY future displeasure over Bets’ renewed social media obsession, well by gum, HE will have “asked for it.”
Gunny, you poor, kind-hearted, well meaning SAP, most guys in this situation start looking for a “side chick.”
I’m so happy to see Gunther able to talk to Bets without the fear of hurting her. Their road trip really changed their relationship for the better, at least in that side. He sees her doing something he thinks is wrong and tells her, HOORAY! Gunter didn’t like the constant media exposure, but he really loved do cosplay and going to ComicCons with Bets. He don’t want stop doing it and he hates see Bets so passive. I hope this doesn’t lead to a breakup, but to Bets realizing she can do the things they love without having to share them with the world, or that they can share it with moderation.
Can’t they costume and comic-con without posting everything? People used to do things all of the time without sharing every second on social media. Go do something! Enjoy the experience. Take some pictures to look at later, like the good old days!
Bets is an extreme extrovert and is now trying to act like an introvert, Gun recognizes that that is not good for either of them or their relationship. Bets just needs to find a balance between being on social media and having private moments for only the two of them.
Why is he yelling?? She’s sitting right next to him. That’s the sign of an immature loser. Someone who has to shout to express themselves, like a baby. Dump him Bets, you can’t wait for him to grow up.
The passive aggressiveness of Bets’ body-language’s the only part of today’s strip making me laugh. This is not what a happy relationship looks like. This is pretty bitter. Sad part is they’re most likely not going to break up even though their approach to being on different pages tend to be “cold shoulder, ignore the issue, and passive aggression.” It’s like slow torture.
Sorry, but I can’t take a guy seriously who buttons every shirt he wears (including pajama tops) all the way to the top button. Any American who does that is either a religious fundamentalist or a future serial killer, and since I’ve never heard Gunther talk about his faith…
Thinking back to when they did cosplay and go to a con together, I think the issue is Gun sees cons as a place to engage and interact with fans, while Bets sees them as a place to engage and interact with HER fans. In her mind there’s no point now that she’s killed her socials
I’ve noticed that when the internet goes out people start talking. We are a little rusty at first, but soon we are enjoying each other. I’m thinking of shutting it down for an hour or so every day.
I said it yesterday, but the comment got shuffled to the “also ran” department. It’s all about balance. These two are learning the invaluable lesson of balance in all things.
So, I am just wondering why Bets doesn’t want the costuming and the con-going by itself. That sounds like a lot of fun. The main problem was allowing too much of social media to consume them. What if they just did the stuff they liked for the fun of doing it, minus the “showing it to everyone else on earth and getting them to comment” part?
Would someone please clue in the Davises that “Bets ‘n’ Gun” has two apostrophes, both facing the same way, not facing in opposite directions? Thanks in advance.
As dark as it sounds, this almost feels like a date rape! Bets dedicated so much to her fandom, did so much to please them. And they turned on her. Now she hides her true self away. Afraid of being hurt again.
Gunther’s right (as usual). Forget cosplaying or conning for others Bets. Do it for YOURSELF!
Given the look in Bets’ eyes, I wonder if Greg and Karen are going to have Bets doing drugs? She’s acting really stoned. California is a weed legal state and a few good brownies would have Bets tripping balls all day long.
That’s the way the cookie crumbles, “my way or the highway” boy. Sheesh! Can’t you ever be satisfied with what you have, rather than demanding absolute perfection?
Tyge 10 months ago
But do you get to pick and choose, Gun?
e.professor 10 months ago
What happened after Bernice blew up girl’s night? Everyone looked happy until Bernice opened her mouth. This arc can be very drawn out if Gun is going to try to teach Bets moderation and having a balanced life with social media and not for social media.
BayReader 10 months ago
Atta guy, Gunther! State what you want. Then maybe Bets can state what she wants. Then you can move forward in the relationship.
Scarlet Shimmer 10 months ago
Aww, this is sweet! 2 observations
1. I love that it’s Gunther initiating this. It really shows that he’s understands her. The Bets Gunther fell for is the hardworking influencer who loves her job and adventure and he’s realizing that he prefers her that way. And I agree. Far better for her to be a busy creator with her own income than a couch potato who rely on her boyfriend for attention and affirmation.
2. I’ve seen some people speculate that they are going to break up but I doubt it. They’re in love, neither of them want to break up and this is an easy issue to fix. Couples deal with worse all the time
Also I am stunned at how nice the comment section has been towards Bets lately. It warms my heart :)
catchup 10 months ago
It’s possible to do things, enjoy life, have adventures – and NOT post about them! There is no law that says you can only do things if you also blog about them. Bets seems to think her life is only valid if lots of other people are watching (and, one assumes, approving). Good for her for stopping the constant attention-seeking, now she needs to realise that she is also allowed to do carry on doing what she enjoys.
Joe1962 10 months ago
Bets/Gun relationship is a work in progress, Gun takes steps to be more understanding of Bets. And they are actually talking to each other.
Last Rose Of Summer Premium Member 10 months ago
Besides Gunther hasn’t sewed in AGES. I guess he liked making costumes.
STEPUP 10 months ago
Hey, where’s Mother Ex-Lax????!!!!
Caldonia 10 months ago
Yow! Stop throwing a tantrum!
Wilkins068 10 months ago
All th bearings an seals in Gunter’s sewing machine’ve siezed up its been so long
9thCapricorn 10 months ago
Surprise surprise. It seems Gunther is missing the cosplay part. I know he enjoys costuming and conventioning but does he miss performing for their Snapgram fans? That’s the bottom line.
M M 10 months ago
What is we haven’t conned? Connected??
Rhetorical_Question 10 months ago
Bets realized that she can’t drop out from College and do Bets n Gun as a single act? Gunther likes Bets Malone as an entrepreneur?
snsurone76 10 months ago
They haven’t “conned” in ages?? What does that mean? Are they a couple of Bernie Madoffs??
sfknight 10 months ago
Feels like Bets is trying to hold onto Gunther by becoming Gunther, or at least her version of Gunther. They really need to talk and figure out what makes them happy.
nightflight 10 months ago
Good move for Gunther. Let’s see if Bets is mature enough to get on board, or will she derail the opportunity to better understand each other. If nothing else, I’m glad to see Gunther take his hand out from under the blanket. He was starting to worry me.
Willow Mt Lyon 10 months ago
Come on you two, either do something that take a bit of brain work like playing a board or card game or else go for a walk together.
salttsea 10 months ago
They are a great modern comic strip couple. So drawn to each other.
jea9hrkr 10 months ago
What is going on with LUANN? ☹️
sueb1863 10 months ago
As far as Bets is concerned, she doesn’t want to do that stuff if she can’t stream it or get internet attention from it. Gunther needs to point out that they can go to cons and NOT do any internet stuff.
GaryCooper 10 months ago
For Bets, if it’s not on a digital screen, it’s not happening.
comic reader 22 10 months ago
Bets will have Gunther begging to sew new costumes and get back on board with the vlogging before the week is out. He was snarky enough to revel in his “Gun” popularity to Luann so he liked it just fine.
French Persons Premium Member 10 months ago
Living Bets or Zombie Bets, she will brain-dead anyway.
eladee AKA Wally 10 months ago
Oh good! They are finally talking. Maybe at last they can find a balance in their lives. So happy Gunther is expressing his feelings. Now she needs to express hers. They can still have fun and fulfilled lives without having to share it all with the social media community.
6foot6 10 months ago
I have people ask my all the time, why I never take pictures or videos of the things I do. I always tell them. Because I’m living the moment. taking pictures is the last thing on my mind. Its interesting to see how many people can’t understand that concept.
Bernedoodle 10 months ago
Get involved in other things. There are plenty of ways to have positive experiences on a college campus. Don’t be so self-centered. GET INVOLVED!
Free or Not? Premium Member 10 months ago
Uh, you can go do cosplay at the conventions without broadcasting your every move to the world. It would be a hobby supplementing a PRODUCTIVE LIFE of providing needed and valued goods and services to others through real work.
Everything in its right place……
colddonkey 10 months ago
The “old” Bets was good all she needs to do is learn moderation and they’ll live happily ever after.
Mordock999 Premium Member 10 months ago
Sheesh.
Ya’ll can talk marshmallows and unicorns all you want.
Bets is coming up with a mind-numbing, repetitious shows to watch in order for Gunther to break-down, get tired and insist that Bets go back her to “beloved” social media, so that SHE can be “Happy.”
What We have here, is not so much a “failure to communicate” but a text book example of a guy being waterboarded, and then given sufficient rope to HANG himself.
One truly has to admire the psychological insidious of Bets’ “plan.” Because in the end, if Gunther shows ANY future displeasure over Bets’ renewed social media obsession, well by gum, HE will have “asked for it.”
Gunny, you poor, kind-hearted, well meaning SAP, most guys in this situation start looking for a “side chick.”
But God help you if you find her. :-(
Aladar30 Premium Member 10 months ago
I’m so happy to see Gunther able to talk to Bets without the fear of hurting her. Their road trip really changed their relationship for the better, at least in that side. He sees her doing something he thinks is wrong and tells her, HOORAY! Gunter didn’t like the constant media exposure, but he really loved do cosplay and going to ComicCons with Bets. He don’t want stop doing it and he hates see Bets so passive. I hope this doesn’t lead to a breakup, but to Bets realizing she can do the things they love without having to share them with the world, or that they can share it with moderation.
mrsdonaldson 10 months ago
Can’t they costume and comic-con without posting everything? People used to do things all of the time without sharing every second on social media. Go do something! Enjoy the experience. Take some pictures to look at later, like the good old days!
Paul D Premium Member 10 months ago
I liked Rosa better.
Ellis97 10 months ago
I don’t have time to binge. I’m too busy working and developing pet projects.
dalemcginnis 10 months ago
Bets is an extreme extrovert and is now trying to act like an introvert, Gun recognizes that that is not good for either of them or their relationship. Bets just needs to find a balance between being on social media and having private moments for only the two of them.
DaBump Premium Member 10 months ago
Bets is afraid if she doesn’t go cold turkey, and staying there, she’s going to be sucked into addiction again.
Skeptical Meg 10 months ago
Now that Bets is “normal”, Gunther realises he liked it better when All Bets Are Off!
artheaded1 10 months ago
She’s got to find the middle ground. You can enjoy all the comic con and cosplay you want without an online audience.
PaulAbbott2 10 months ago
Cue ominous break-up music?
comic reader 22 10 months ago
Why is he yelling?? She’s sitting right next to him. That’s the sign of an immature loser. Someone who has to shout to express themselves, like a baby. Dump him Bets, you can’t wait for him to grow up.
Mimi Premium Member 10 months ago
looks like her biggest ‘con’ yet.
Rockabore 10 months ago
The passive aggressiveness of Bets’ body-language’s the only part of today’s strip making me laugh. This is not what a happy relationship looks like. This is pretty bitter. Sad part is they’re most likely not going to break up even though their approach to being on different pages tend to be “cold shoulder, ignore the issue, and passive aggression.” It’s like slow torture.
Doug K 10 months ago
Being Zombies is not that fun.
Zombies don’t live up to all (the fun) they’re cracked up to be.
Wubbie 10 months ago
Hey Gunthie! I hear the monastery is looking for someone who knows how to sew robes.
Diane913 10 months ago
There has to be a middle ground somewhere.
BJShipley1 10 months ago
Sorry, but I can’t take a guy seriously who buttons every shirt he wears (including pajama tops) all the way to the top button. Any American who does that is either a religious fundamentalist or a future serial killer, and since I’ve never heard Gunther talk about his faith…
tcayer 10 months ago
So Gunn doesn’t want to snuggle and watch videos?
yangeldf 10 months ago
you can still dress up and go to cons without obsessively updating your social media about it
phileaux 10 months ago
So did you do those things just to post or do you like doing them?
hoffquotes2 10 months ago
For ages??? She just stopped the vlog
MS72 10 months ago
Go Gunny!
ElyseLaura 10 months ago
Thinking back to when they did cosplay and go to a con together, I think the issue is Gun sees cons as a place to engage and interact with fans, while Bets sees them as a place to engage and interact with HER fans. In her mind there’s no point now that she’s killed her socials
NELS BALWIT Premium Member 10 months ago
I’ve noticed that when the internet goes out people start talking. We are a little rusty at first, but soon we are enjoying each other. I’m thinking of shutting it down for an hour or so every day.
David Huie Green LoveJoyAndPeace 10 months ago
“I love the real you, even if you are a bit artificial. It is what you made yourself, so still the real deal!!”
percheronhitch6 10 months ago
I said it yesterday, but the comment got shuffled to the “also ran” department. It’s all about balance. These two are learning the invaluable lesson of balance in all things.
bjminnis 10 months ago
Bets knows just how to influence Gunther. being boring is the way to passively get what you want. smart girl
Jaymi Cee Premium Member 10 months ago
So, I am just wondering why Bets doesn’t want the costuming and the con-going by itself. That sounds like a lot of fun. The main problem was allowing too much of social media to consume them. What if they just did the stuff they liked for the fun of doing it, minus the “showing it to everyone else on earth and getting them to comment” part?
MuddyUSA Premium Member 10 months ago
Gunther wants it…..
rbullfogg 10 months ago
What about “Sex in the Comic!” Or “Love AmericaComic”. LOL. ;)
illuminare 10 months ago
Bets needs to open a dictionary and look up the words addiction and moderation and then go see a psychologist because she obviously cant handle it.
Wishingonastar 10 months ago
Could this be the end of the Dippy Duo?
MatthewJB 10 months ago
Would someone please clue in the Davises that “Bets ‘n’ Gun” has two apostrophes, both facing the same way, not facing in opposite directions? Thanks in advance.
The Quiet One 10 months ago
This Bets and Gun isn’t working.
[Unnamed Reader - 14b4ce] 10 months ago
Binge ROWAN&MARTIN’S LAUGH IN and keep track about how all the stars left for greener pastures until there was nobody left
[Unnamed Reader - 14b4ce] 10 months ago
Binge 1960’s TV commercials. It’s shorter
RonBerg13 Premium Member 10 months ago
Then stop f a r t i n g around Gunther, and KISS her !!!!
ericbrower 10 months ago
As dark as it sounds, this almost feels like a date rape! Bets dedicated so much to her fandom, did so much to please them. And they turned on her. Now she hides her true self away. Afraid of being hurt again.
Gunther’s right (as usual). Forget cosplaying or conning for others Bets. Do it for YOURSELF!
Lescoe Brandon 10 months ago
Given the look in Bets’ eyes, I wonder if Greg and Karen are going to have Bets doing drugs? She’s acting really stoned. California is a weed legal state and a few good brownies would have Bets tripping balls all day long.
WilliamVollmer 10 months ago
Gunther wants the “living Betts” in what context? In one context, how much privacy do they have, and, for how long?
Otis Rufus Driftwood 10 months ago
Gunther is seeking growth. Does Bets want to grow?
Sisyphos 10 months ago
That’s the way the cookie crumbles, “my way or the highway” boy. Sheesh! Can’t you ever be satisfied with what you have, rather than demanding absolute perfection?