Coming Soon đ At the beginning of April, youâll be
introduced to a brand-new GoComics! See more information here. Subscribers, check your
email for more details.
I always had the thought that of all the familiar characters going to college Tiffany would be the one to fall of the wagon. Though I suspected drugs rather something as simple over-eating. But it could be a thyroid issue causing her metabolism to slow down..
I must say I donât appreciate Bernices attitude toward Luann when all she did was go out and have a nice time with her room mate as well as her choice of words, ââTiffany gained weight and needs our support, I think, would have been a more appropriate approach.ââ
Still water runs deep, Luann. Money can pay for things like rent/housing, food, and other necessities. Money isnât, however going to guarantee a kind, loving family like the one Tiffany should have had.
Luann sees this girl who can have anything she wants because sheâs hot and daddyâs rich. Luann doesnât see the Tiffanyâs emotional turmoil because she wouldnât have had when to learn about it. Thereâs always the story that others canât/donât know about someone.
Thatâs just how things work. Thereâs always the things we donât know because we canât crawl into other peopleâs heads.
With that being said, Iâm hoping this snaps Bernice out of her bitterness. She cares about others, or at least has the capacity to do so, and she recognizes that Tiffany needs help. Maybe Bernice will help Tiffany and they will both grow as people.
And, in the meantime, what has happened to Delta, and to (my favourite) Knut? Is he in art school, working towards the noble goal of being a cartoonist?
This situation just seems so ironic to me, because in a strip from some years ago Tiffany asks crystal how people let themselves get so out of shape. Well hereâs your answer Tiff
True clinical depression (having been through it) isnât the result of your wealth or lack thereof, but imbalance in chemicals in the brain. The fact that Tiffany is in emotional turmoil may make it worse, but if she didnât have a propensity for depression, emotional turmoil alone would not have been enough to bring that on. After all, she has had major setbacks in her life before, as when she was forced to give up a beauty queen crown because she was involved with TJ in a scam on the firefighters and the DeGroots. And I donât remember her becoming depressed and binge eating then.
Psst, Luann. None of those reasons would even faze Tiffany. However, if she got a secret look at how Evans planned for her to end up with Gunther, then that could do it.
Everyone so far has dumped on Bernice for her perceived snarkiness, or her way she has hypothesized that Tiffany might have psychological depression. It seems that Bernice is expressing these comments out of bitterness. Dez is a communication channel in the first two panels, but to me the bitterness of our named character, Luann, seems most interesting, possibly disappointing. Luann lists the reasons why Tiffany has had advantages, and this aggravated sense of herself over the years, âthe hottest person on the planetâ dad pays for everything, guy magnet, and so on, and then in the third panel makes a devastatingly mean and sardonic conclusion which the epitome of snarkiness, âyeah, I could sure see how sheâd be depressedâ. Dez looks distressed like she picks up, as that communication channel, the real bile in Luannâs true feelings about Tiffany. After all they have been enemies for years, Tiffany always seeks to make herself higher and better than Luann, and Luann, while being polite, always pushes back against this attitude. Bernice has had a lot against TIffany over the years too, but it is Luann who has most psychological âskin in the gameâ IMO. I am disappointed in her to be honest. She is being mean.
Anybody ever hear of the âfreshman 15â? Tiffâs got the freshman 30 or 40. Almost all college first-year students pack on some pounds. Tiff has overdone it. And no doubt Greg has some more to tell in this story.
I wonder why Luann refers to Tiffany as a âguy magnet.â In the strip at http://www.gocomics.com/luann/2017/03/02, Luann asked Tiff, âDo you even date, Tiff? Iâve never seen you out with a guy.â
Now, granted, after that, Jack dated Tiffany ⊠but he had asked Luann out first. And you could call the dinner with Mr. Gray and Les a date with Gunther ⊠but Luann has dated Gunther in the past.
So Luann should consider herself at least as much as a âguy magnetâ as Tiffany, albeit that may not be saying much.
Come on now , Dez âwhy did Tiffany put on the weight?â better ask yourself how you got so fat and what youâre gonna do about itâŠoh I see, your sparkling personality, sense of adventure (as long as it doesnât involve any actual danger? am I right? ) and insight into the cosmos makes all that irrelevant. Oh my apologies. How stupid and shallow of me to question the one who seeâs all, knows all. Excuse me while I crawl back under my rock.
Poor Tiffany, she is lonely. Just because you seem to have everything in the world, it doesnât mean that you do. In high school, she was a big fish in a little pond. In University, she is a tiny minnow in the ocean. And sheâs lonely, and right now food is her best friend. She is eating her feelings. I sympathize with her.
On the whole whoâs the bad guy here? matter of Luann v. Tiffany. Over the years theyâve each needled each other frequently, have continued a game of one-upsmanship that verged on cruelty. At other times, theyâve been friendly or acknowledged, at least to themselves, good impulses in the other. Itâs not hard to find examples of all this stuff over the decades of Luann stories. But I canât think of any bad behavior of one against that exceeds Tiffany taking photos of Luann changing clothes, attempting to blackmail her with them, and then posting them on the internet. Can anyone cite worse from either against the other?
Question: How close is the university to the kidsâ hometown? It seems close enough so that those who arenât attending university can visit their friends on campus (as Luann is doing here), or the kids living on campus can visit their hometown friends. On the other hand, it has to be far enough away so that it is worth Bernice and Tiffany staying in dorms instead of staying at home and commuting.
1. I see that Luann is picking up on Berniceâs negative stance about Tiffany. Both of them have used the descriptor âFatâ in a pejorative way to âdissâ on Tiffany. I find this sad.
2. Dez, meanwhile, is the one person in the frame that is showing some genuine interest and empathy towards Tiffany. Her comment of, âWonder why she has gained weight.â is a statement that shows some level of concern, and is not simply a âdissâ.
3. While the long high school history of Bernice, Luann, and Tiffany can be somewhat of an explanation for B & Lâs negativity⊠previous strips while at college have shown the three of them interacting in a much more friendly and caring way. It is, to me, disappointing to see B & L initial reaction being simply gossipy and mean spirited.
In my manner of thinking about Tiffany at the momentâŠ. I tend to think she is depressedâŠ. but NOT in a clinical type of depression. I think she is working through emotions of a) Gunterâs kind of nasty slam towards her earlier in the year, b) a greater realization by Tiffany that she is not sure where she is heading anymore in life, c) a greater self awareness by Tiffany of her own range of emotionsâŠ. and d) especially a greater self awareness by Tiffany of NEGATIVE emotions that she is now actually FEELING. Traditionally Tiffany has been more surface focused and probably has not spent much time examining her own feelings. I think this has changed.
Unfortunately for Tiffany, she has adopted the easy to acquire behavior of using food as a coping mechanism as she feels buffeted by her emotionsâŠ. which is a newer experience for her. (to be continued in the next comment)
What I hope though, is that Tiffany continues to work through her emotions so that she becomes a stronger, more well rounded individual. I do not really care if she is heavier or thinner⊠although for Tiffanyâs health and wellness, I hope that eventually she is able to at some point again move towards a normal range BMI for her. I really think Greg may be (hopefully) using this arc to shed more light on the horrific way a large part of society still thinks it is âokâ or ânormalâ or âjustifiedâ to pick on or denigrate folks because of their body size. Greg can use this medium to help some folks to see how biased and unpleasant and unkind that sort of behavior (picking on individuals because of their body parameters) is.
Like I said earlier, it takes people a while to adjust their attitude and set-in feelings about someone else â especially Luann and Tiffany who have been for so long such rivals. Hopefully, this will be the wake-up call for Bernice saying, âOh, this is what counseling/helping others can be!â And hopefully, Bernice will like that as a life mission.
Sadness has an external cause. Depression is a serotonin/dopamine imbalance in the brain which can just happen without any obvious reason and might persist for years or be chronic. For those who have never experienced depression, it is hard to grasp what this feels like, and that includes many mental health practitioners. I am curious how sensitively the Evanses will handle this.
Okay, it is no secret that i think that Tiffany and Bernice are two sides of one coin, both lonely, with that loneliness to a decent extent of their own making, and both bitter about it, but with college age Tiffany turning that bitterness more inward while college age Bernice is turning it outward and has moved beyond being snarky into often being nasty. Tiffanyâs change has had a rapid marker while Berniceâs has been gradual, butâŠ
Now it is Luannâs turn to be usurped by bitterness. What a shallow take on life! Yes, i know she is mainly speaking from long term rivalry and long term hurt, but hopefully she begins to get past this because she is depicted as being in her late teens and every âvalueâ she just mentioned is just as shallow coming from her lips as when they came from Tiffanyâs at a younger age. Hopefully, Luann is being deeply sarcastic, and also KNOWS that, rather than reverting to childhood points of envy.
I wonder. Is there anything Dez gets bitter about? Okay, we know that some of her teas might be bitter, and we know that Bernice sometimes drives her into doing meditation to calm herself. But what gets under her skin?
Oh, and, yes, i am keeping my mind open to alternative explanations, and, yes, i do know how hard it is to get out there and meet new people. (My suggestion to these two is to volunteer in something they care about to meet others with whom they can connect.
That leads me to one other question: are we recently seeing the beginnings of the core group increasingly moving away from each other and developing their own new circles? Both Tiffany and Bernice NEED that to have new friends, and Luann is exploring new relationships already.
Another question (for the far future in our time): Dez has worked hard to be a friend toward Bernice but there has not been much reciprocal behavior. When Luann finishes community college, IF she goes to Monney Uni instead of taking us all to a new setting, might Luann and Dez decide to room together if Bernice does not clean up her act?
It really is absurd that all the commenters are upset with LuAnn. I am sure all the commenters who are pissing all over Luann for her comment are all so perfect they would do a 180 and âturn the other cheekâ in their abject desire to assist their nemesis ( tiffany) instantaneously.
Too much psycho-babble. Evans is so unpredictable, it wouldnât shock me if this turned out to be a repeat of the shower scene from the TV series Dallas. It was all Berniceâs imagination because Tiff had no makeup on. Just sayinâ. Only one person has seen Tiff so far.
Yâknow, people can feel depressed, without suffering from depression. Depression is also an emotional state of being, that can be exaserbated by low self esteem, loneliness, frustration, etc
Okay, what mostly unexpected phys ed classes can you imagine working out once they get into them for various college age main characters here? My take:
Luann: Judo (That would soooooo work.)
Tiffany: first Tai Kwan Do and Tai Chi, progressing into Mixed Martial Arts, maybe Body Building
Bernice: Wrestling, maybe Ballroom Dancing
Dez: Yoga (Duh, of course) and maybe adding Tai Chi
Gunthur: Olympic Weight Training or perhaps Body Building, Ballroom Dancing
Hmmmm, i just thought of something unrelated. I think that Gunther and Dez could at some point be good for each other as a dating couple. There may be that balance of complimentary strengths thing with them just as there has been with Gunther and Tiffany.
First, how much weight had Tiffany gained. She does look heavier, but itâs hard to really tell how much in the bulky sweats. Might just be 10-15 pounds.
And why assume itâs depression. Tiffany could have hurt her back at the gym and not been able to do her usual workout for the rest of the summer. Or she could have taken a course on gourmet cooking over the summer and ate too much of her homework. Or she could have gone on a vacation that involved touring all the best eateries in Europe. (There has got to be a tour somewhere like that.) And yes, she looked a bit ratty when Bernice saw her, but maybe she had a late night, or Bernice woke her up from a nap, or it might just be âthat timeâ of the month.
The point is, assuming Tiffany is depressed and âneeds helpâ might be jumping to conclusions.
Dez and Bernice seem to actually care about Tiffâs problem. They may help her. Many people like Tiffany are deeply insecure, thatâs why they strive so hard to look perfect on the outside.
Dolly Parton once said, âIt takes a lot of money to look this cheapâ. Tiffany has to maintain her image as a sexy party girl or disappear into the background.
The last time we saw Tiffany was June 16th when Gunther dropped her off. The whole conversation is some self realization for Tiffany and Gunther warning her about Leslie. So⊠two potential scenarios here I think. Sheâs been in depression about herself and/or her life, or she ignored Gunther and Leslie has âdone her wrongâ.
I have been a little surprised at the general ignorance about depression in these comments, some made by well-meaning and very astute people. Two books to read, if you want to understand better, are The Noonday Demon by Andrew Solomon and Darkness Visible by William Styron.
Interestingly, situational depression such as i underwent a half century ago due to being a battered child and a half year later as a vulnerable teen shunned due to someoneâs lie is in some lists as situational depression, but is now in more as an adjustment disorder. So, in todayâs terms i guess adjustments were made, both by myself and by others in response to those who threatened action if the beatings continued.
So, i guess that technically in todayâs terminology Tiffany might be dealing with an adjustment disorder!
Learn something every day â sometimes the right question has to found first, though!
I hope none of the gang gets so insensitive as to start calling Tiffany things like, for example, Tiffatty. (HmmâŠmaybe I need some sensitivity training, myself if I could think that upâŠ)
I am kind of amazed by a lot of what has been posted here. First, the idea that if Tiffany is seriously depressed that Bernice, Dez or Gunther could help her. None of them have the training to genuinely help, even if they may want to. They can be supportive, but for real help, someone with genuine depression needs a person with both medical and psychiatric training. Secondly, Iâm not sure why so many people are assuming that Gunther is âto blameâ for any depression that Tiffany may or may not be suffering from. People can withstand a lot of verbal and even physical abuse without becoming depressed, if they donât have the chemical makeup that leads to depression. On the other hand, a person may be surrounded by caring family and still suffer from depressionâŠ
Whatever her current situation may be, sooner or later Tiffany will have a reckoning with reality. She considers herself an actress and model, but her only acting credit is a video game, Eyez of Zeye, that may or may not exist, and her only modeling gig (that I recall) was as âMiss Chamber of Commerce,â a job she was fired from. She always says she is the hottest girl in town and irresistible to boys, but she has never had a boyfriend and rarely has a date (Luann and Bernice both have much more active love lives). Meanwhile, Tiffany appears to have no career plans other than continuing to be gorgeous and popular. All of this is bound to catch up with her eventually, although perhaps not for another few years, according to the usual course of thing she for girls like her.
Luann shows a common misunderstanding of depression. Depression does not correlate one-to-one with apparent success, wealth and possessions, or even seeming popularity. Look at how many movie stars, celebrities, and other notable âsuccessfulâ persons have ended up severely depressed or even committed suicide. Yes, Tiffany could be putting on the pounds out of depression; but, conversely, Bernie should not be so certain, as there many other possible reasons for sudden weight gainâŠ.
It is my hope that the three of them will ultimately befriend Tiffany to help her overcome her situation. I can see Dez as a neutral person who could be the first to go over and open up dialog.
Templo S.U.D. over 7 years ago
Brilliant deduction, Sherlock DeGroot.
beb01 over 7 years ago
I always had the thought that of all the familiar characters going to college Tiffany would be the one to fall of the wagon. Though I suspected drugs rather something as simple over-eating. But it could be a thyroid issue causing her metabolism to slow down..
kenhense over 7 years ago
Weâre treading water a bit hereâŠ
GovernmentCheese over 7 years ago
Why does Bern look like sheâs solving some sort of crime? And how is she qualified to diagnose Tifâs âconditionâ?
Brdshtt Premium Member over 7 years ago
I guess once you have everything, there is nothing to look forward to anymore.
tammyspeakslife Premium Member over 7 years ago
I must say I donât appreciate Bernices attitude toward Luann when all she did was go out and have a nice time with her room mate as well as her choice of words, ââTiffany gained weight and needs our support, I think, would have been a more appropriate approach.ââ
Brdshtt Premium Member over 7 years ago
Or, Luann could trade places with Tiff and maybe sheâd see why she was depressedâŠ
Peppermeow over 7 years ago
Still water runs deep, Luann. Money can pay for things like rent/housing, food, and other necessities. Money isnât, however going to guarantee a kind, loving family like the one Tiffany should have had.
Luann sees this girl who can have anything she wants because sheâs hot and daddyâs rich. Luann doesnât see the Tiffanyâs emotional turmoil because she wouldnât have had when to learn about it. Thereâs always the story that others canât/donât know about someone.
Thatâs just how things work. Thereâs always the things we donât know because we canât crawl into other peopleâs heads.
With that being said, Iâm hoping this snaps Bernice out of her bitterness. She cares about others, or at least has the capacity to do so, and she recognizes that Tiffany needs help. Maybe Bernice will help Tiffany and they will both grow as people.
Leviticus over 7 years ago
She is depressed over not being with Gunther.
Robin Harwood over 7 years ago
And, in the meantime, what has happened to Delta, and to (my favourite) Knut? Is he in art school, working towards the noble goal of being a cartoonist?
PatriciaDilks over 7 years ago
More likely, Tiff is pregnant.
Carrots over 7 years ago
This situation just seems so ironic to me, because in a strip from some years ago Tiffany asks crystal how people let themselves get so out of shape. Well hereâs your answer Tiff
Argythree over 7 years ago
True clinical depression (having been through it) isnât the result of your wealth or lack thereof, but imbalance in chemicals in the brain. The fact that Tiffany is in emotional turmoil may make it worse, but if she didnât have a propensity for depression, emotional turmoil alone would not have been enough to bring that on. After all, she has had major setbacks in her life before, as when she was forced to give up a beauty queen crown because she was involved with TJ in a scam on the firefighters and the DeGroots. And I donât remember her becoming depressed and binge eating then.
howtheduck over 7 years ago
Psst, Luann. None of those reasons would even faze Tiffany. However, if she got a secret look at how Evans planned for her to end up with Gunther, then that could do it.
luann1212 over 7 years ago
Everyone so far has dumped on Bernice for her perceived snarkiness, or her way she has hypothesized that Tiffany might have psychological depression. It seems that Bernice is expressing these comments out of bitterness. Dez is a communication channel in the first two panels, but to me the bitterness of our named character, Luann, seems most interesting, possibly disappointing. Luann lists the reasons why Tiffany has had advantages, and this aggravated sense of herself over the years, âthe hottest person on the planetâ dad pays for everything, guy magnet, and so on, and then in the third panel makes a devastatingly mean and sardonic conclusion which the epitome of snarkiness, âyeah, I could sure see how sheâd be depressedâ. Dez looks distressed like she picks up, as that communication channel, the real bile in Luannâs true feelings about Tiffany. After all they have been enemies for years, Tiffany always seeks to make herself higher and better than Luann, and Luann, while being polite, always pushes back against this attitude. Bernice has had a lot against TIffany over the years too, but it is Luann who has most psychological âskin in the gameâ IMO. I am disappointed in her to be honest. She is being mean.
Vilyehm over 7 years ago
Dezâs daddy has more money than Tiffanyâs daddy.
Did Tiffany take a world tour for the summer? Ever skydive?
Third panel Dezâs look: You know nothing.
But sheâs polite and not saying anything yet
Shonkin over 7 years ago
Anybody ever hear of the âfreshman 15â? Tiffâs got the freshman 30 or 40. Almost all college first-year students pack on some pounds. Tiff has overdone it. And no doubt Greg has some more to tell in this story.
cupertino jay over 7 years ago
wait, i forget, did they ever find out who raided the candy machine. um, or who dint.
gromit82 over 7 years ago
I wonder why Luann refers to Tiffany as a âguy magnet.â In the strip at http://www.gocomics.com/luann/2017/03/02, Luann asked Tiff, âDo you even date, Tiff? Iâve never seen you out with a guy.â
Now, granted, after that, Jack dated Tiffany ⊠but he had asked Luann out first. And you could call the dinner with Mr. Gray and Les a date with Gunther ⊠but Luann has dated Gunther in the past.
So Luann should consider herself at least as much as a âguy magnetâ as Tiffany, albeit that may not be saying much.
notbornyesterday over 7 years ago
Come on now , Dez âwhy did Tiffany put on the weight?â better ask yourself how you got so fat and what youâre gonna do about itâŠoh I see, your sparkling personality, sense of adventure (as long as it doesnât involve any actual danger? am I right? ) and insight into the cosmos makes all that irrelevant. Oh my apologies. How stupid and shallow of me to question the one who seeâs all, knows all. Excuse me while I crawl back under my rock.
AnyFace over 7 years ago
Tiff all but haunts Luann in panel #2.
JayBluE over 7 years ago
âA Series Of Fortunate Eventsâ
âThe Grass Is Always Greener On The Other Side Of Our ImaginationâŠAnd Especially If We Canât See Over The Fenceâ
âAssume The Dispositionâ
âSheâs A Hot Solder Of Fortune That Needs To Be Re-Fusedâ
âSee The Farthest, For The Tri-agesâ
âSheâs Here, To Log-ic A Constraintâ
âSoon Weâll Be Raisinâ All De Etres, Around Here!â
âA Situation, In Time, Enslaves Nineâ
âCommunity Chess-edâ
âA Case Of Myth Taking Identityâ
âAll Her Straits Were Paved With Goldâ
âJust A Suburban Legendâ
âItâs After Breakfast, In Americaâ (⏠â©)
âDonât You Look At My Life, Girlfriend!â (âȘ)
âThey Gotta Have âEm In Taxes, Cos Everyoneâs A Millionaire!â (âȘ)
âMoving In Stereotypesâ (âŹ)
âTalking Heads Follow Dire Straitsâ (â©)
âFor The Jung At Heartâ
or
âYouâre Such A Freud-y Catâ
cabalonrye over 7 years ago
Going from queen of the small school to one among other in the huge uni. Lonely.
Aqsnt over 7 years ago
Would the conversation be different If Tiffany hadâŠâŠ..say anorexia?
jckc1 over 7 years ago
Has anyone given thought to the possibility sheâs pregnant?
GirlGeek Premium Member over 7 years ago
Just talk to her and stop deducing whatâs wrong!!
Pet over 7 years ago
Poor Tiffany, she is lonely. Just because you seem to have everything in the world, it doesnât mean that you do. In high school, she was a big fish in a little pond. In University, she is a tiny minnow in the ocean. And sheâs lonely, and right now food is her best friend. She is eating her feelings. I sympathize with her.
jimmjonzz Premium Member over 7 years ago
On the whole whoâs the bad guy here? matter of Luann v. Tiffany. Over the years theyâve each needled each other frequently, have continued a game of one-upsmanship that verged on cruelty. At other times, theyâve been friendly or acknowledged, at least to themselves, good impulses in the other. Itâs not hard to find examples of all this stuff over the decades of Luann stories. But I canât think of any bad behavior of one against that exceeds Tiffany taking photos of Luann changing clothes, attempting to blackmail her with them, and then posting them on the internet. Can anyone cite worse from either against the other?
Liam Astle Premium Member over 7 years ago
Tiffanyâs fat for a role in a movie?
jimmjonzz Premium Member over 7 years ago
And Iâm loving the side eye Desdemona is giving LuannâŠ.
Vilyehm over 7 years ago
Technical boring who cares question.
When todayâs strip first appeared, I distinctly remember seeing a white gap between Luannâs fingers in the first panel. It is now colored in.
Is the repair of lack of coloring something GoComics can take care of?
Shirl Summ Premium Member over 7 years ago
She isnât pregnant is she? Hope not.
Mordock999 Premium Member over 7 years ago
Tiffany Ferrell, the âPoor Little Rich Girl,â Huh, Luann??
But âLuann DeGroot?â
1) Loving Parents.
2) Close âOldâ Friends.
3) Close âNewâ Friends.
4) Getâs attention from a Campus âJockâ and flowers after He Busted Your Foot.
5) Had a âQuestionably Hotâ Boyfriend before You DUMPED Him.
6) Got Straight "A"s in Art Class.
7) Loved by the Kids at Your Summer Job.
8) Loved by this Kid Youâre Mentoring Named âFay.â
9) Loved by Your Pet Pooch, âPuddles.â
10) And Dare I Say it, Probably STILL loved by this Guy named âGunther.â All Ya Gotta do is Say the Word.
So Yeah, Lu. I can See Why Youâre NOT, âDEPRESSED,â
Frosty The Snowman over 7 years ago
Tiff is pregnant?
Tyge over 7 years ago
Depression often happens when your life is in turmoil; and Tiffanyâs certainly is.
Russell Bedford over 7 years ago
jckc1 Iâm on team Tiff forgot the pillâŠright there with you!
Kim Roberts over 7 years ago
Tiffany never learned the art of making friends. Of course sheâs lonely and depressed. Poor kidâ
T Smith over 7 years ago
âI donât care too much for money, money canât buy me love.â
Jogger2 over 7 years ago
Question: How close is the university to the kidsâ hometown? It seems close enough so that those who arenât attending university can visit their friends on campus (as Luann is doing here), or the kids living on campus can visit their hometown friends. On the other hand, it has to be far enough away so that it is worth Bernice and Tiffany staying in dorms instead of staying at home and commuting.
Pipe Tobacco Premium Member over 7 years ago
6
Pipe and coffee break analysis for today:
1. I see that Luann is picking up on Berniceâs negative stance about Tiffany. Both of them have used the descriptor âFatâ in a pejorative way to âdissâ on Tiffany. I find this sad.
2. Dez, meanwhile, is the one person in the frame that is showing some genuine interest and empathy towards Tiffany. Her comment of, âWonder why she has gained weight.â is a statement that shows some level of concern, and is not simply a âdissâ.
3. While the long high school history of Bernice, Luann, and Tiffany can be somewhat of an explanation for B & Lâs negativity⊠previous strips while at college have shown the three of them interacting in a much more friendly and caring way. It is, to me, disappointing to see B & L initial reaction being simply gossipy and mean spirited.
In my manner of thinking about Tiffany at the momentâŠ. I tend to think she is depressedâŠ. but NOT in a clinical type of depression. I think she is working through emotions of a) Gunterâs kind of nasty slam towards her earlier in the year, b) a greater realization by Tiffany that she is not sure where she is heading anymore in life, c) a greater self awareness by Tiffany of her own range of emotionsâŠ. and d) especially a greater self awareness by Tiffany of NEGATIVE emotions that she is now actually FEELING. Traditionally Tiffany has been more surface focused and probably has not spent much time examining her own feelings. I think this has changed.
Unfortunately for Tiffany, she has adopted the easy to acquire behavior of using food as a coping mechanism as she feels buffeted by her emotionsâŠ. which is a newer experience for her. (to be continued in the next comment)
Pipe Tobacco Premium Member over 7 years ago
What I hope though, is that Tiffany continues to work through her emotions so that she becomes a stronger, more well rounded individual. I do not really care if she is heavier or thinner⊠although for Tiffanyâs health and wellness, I hope that eventually she is able to at some point again move towards a normal range BMI for her. I really think Greg may be (hopefully) using this arc to shed more light on the horrific way a large part of society still thinks it is âokâ or ânormalâ or âjustifiedâ to pick on or denigrate folks because of their body size. Greg can use this medium to help some folks to see how biased and unpleasant and unkind that sort of behavior (picking on individuals because of their body parameters) is.
Code the Enforcer over 7 years ago
Like I said earlier, it takes people a while to adjust their attitude and set-in feelings about someone else â especially Luann and Tiffany who have been for so long such rivals. Hopefully, this will be the wake-up call for Bernice saying, âOh, this is what counseling/helping others can be!â And hopefully, Bernice will like that as a life mission.
Luanaphile over 7 years ago
Sadness has an external cause. Depression is a serotonin/dopamine imbalance in the brain which can just happen without any obvious reason and might persist for years or be chronic. For those who have never experienced depression, it is hard to grasp what this feels like, and that includes many mental health practitioners. I am curious how sensitively the Evanses will handle this.
SukieCrandall Premium Member over 7 years ago
Speaking of bitternessâŠ
Okay, it is no secret that i think that Tiffany and Bernice are two sides of one coin, both lonely, with that loneliness to a decent extent of their own making, and both bitter about it, but with college age Tiffany turning that bitterness more inward while college age Bernice is turning it outward and has moved beyond being snarky into often being nasty. Tiffanyâs change has had a rapid marker while Berniceâs has been gradual, butâŠ
Now it is Luannâs turn to be usurped by bitterness. What a shallow take on life! Yes, i know she is mainly speaking from long term rivalry and long term hurt, but hopefully she begins to get past this because she is depicted as being in her late teens and every âvalueâ she just mentioned is just as shallow coming from her lips as when they came from Tiffanyâs at a younger age. Hopefully, Luann is being deeply sarcastic, and also KNOWS that, rather than reverting to childhood points of envy.
I wonder. Is there anything Dez gets bitter about? Okay, we know that some of her teas might be bitter, and we know that Bernice sometimes drives her into doing meditation to calm herself. But what gets under her skin?
Oh, and, yes, i am keeping my mind open to alternative explanations, and, yes, i do know how hard it is to get out there and meet new people. (My suggestion to these two is to volunteer in something they care about to meet others with whom they can connect.
That leads me to one other question: are we recently seeing the beginnings of the core group increasingly moving away from each other and developing their own new circles? Both Tiffany and Bernice NEED that to have new friends, and Luann is exploring new relationships already.
Mikey over 7 years ago
Poor Tiffanyâs been reading âLuannâ.
SukieCrandall Premium Member over 7 years ago
Another question (for the far future in our time): Dez has worked hard to be a friend toward Bernice but there has not been much reciprocal behavior. When Luann finishes community college, IF she goes to Monney Uni instead of taking us all to a new setting, might Luann and Dez decide to room together if Bernice does not clean up her act?
SactoSylvia over 7 years ago
Empathy, thy name is NOT Luann.
Terminal Frost Premium Member over 7 years ago
It really is absurd that all the commenters are upset with LuAnn. I am sure all the commenters who are pissing all over Luann for her comment are all so perfect they would do a 180 and âturn the other cheekâ in their abject desire to assist their nemesis ( tiffany) instantaneously.
Frank Farkel over 7 years ago
Too much psycho-babble. Evans is so unpredictable, it wouldnât shock me if this turned out to be a repeat of the shower scene from the TV series Dallas. It was all Berniceâs imagination because Tiff had no makeup on. Just sayinâ. Only one person has seen Tiff so far.
Terminal Frost Premium Member over 7 years ago
Yâknow, people can feel depressed, without suffering from depression. Depression is also an emotional state of being, that can be exaserbated by low self esteem, loneliness, frustration, etc
notbornyesterday over 7 years ago
In a strip composed of one dimensional stereotypes, Berniceâs character is REALLY getting tiresome
SukieCrandall Premium Member over 7 years ago
Okay, what mostly unexpected phys ed classes can you imagine working out once they get into them for various college age main characters here? My take:
Luann: Judo (That would soooooo work.)
Tiffany: first Tai Kwan Do and Tai Chi, progressing into Mixed Martial Arts, maybe Body Building
Bernice: Wrestling, maybe Ballroom Dancing
Dez: Yoga (Duh, of course) and maybe adding Tai Chi
Gunthur: Olympic Weight Training or perhaps Body Building, Ballroom Dancing
Hmmmm, i just thought of something unrelated. I think that Gunther and Dez could at some point be good for each other as a dating couple. There may be that balance of complimentary strengths thing with them just as there has been with Gunther and Tiffany.
MikeMonahan over 7 years ago
sheâs probably pregnant.
Schrodinger's Dog over 7 years ago
Do you think Gunther will join Tiff in a workout program to help her lose the weight?
pickled-onions over 7 years ago
Maybe she is hiding a pregnancy
Asharah over 7 years ago
First, how much weight had Tiffany gained. She does look heavier, but itâs hard to really tell how much in the bulky sweats. Might just be 10-15 pounds.
And why assume itâs depression. Tiffany could have hurt her back at the gym and not been able to do her usual workout for the rest of the summer. Or she could have taken a course on gourmet cooking over the summer and ate too much of her homework. Or she could have gone on a vacation that involved touring all the best eateries in Europe. (There has got to be a tour somewhere like that.) And yes, she looked a bit ratty when Bernice saw her, but maybe she had a late night, or Bernice woke her up from a nap, or it might just be âthat timeâ of the month.
The point is, assuming Tiffany is depressed and âneeds helpâ might be jumping to conclusions.
David over 7 years ago
Wondered when the girls would start to put on weight, although in real life it doesnât hit most women until after they have kids or hit middle age.
locake over 7 years ago
Dez and Bernice seem to actually care about Tiffâs problem. They may help her. Many people like Tiffany are deeply insecure, thatâs why they strive so hard to look perfect on the outside.
Airman over 7 years ago
Dolly Parton once said, âIt takes a lot of money to look this cheapâ. Tiffany has to maintain her image as a sexy party girl or disappear into the background.
Schrodinger's Dog over 7 years ago
so what will be Desâ solution? Make her drink cat-poop tea ?
SukieCrandall Premium Member over 7 years ago
AIRMAN: given your background, this announcement may be of interest to you since it will affect people you helped rescue:
https://www.nih.gov/news-events/news-releases/federal-agencies-partner-military-veteran-pain-management-research
writemom over 7 years ago
The last time we saw Tiffany was June 16th when Gunther dropped her off. The whole conversation is some self realization for Tiffany and Gunther warning her about Leslie. So⊠two potential scenarios here I think. Sheâs been in depression about herself and/or her life, or she ignored Gunther and Leslie has âdone her wrongâ.
Luanaphile over 7 years ago
I have been a little surprised at the general ignorance about depression in these comments, some made by well-meaning and very astute people. Two books to read, if you want to understand better, are The Noonday Demon by Andrew Solomon and Darkness Visible by William Styron.
SukieCrandall Premium Member over 7 years ago
Having asked the question after Luanaphile led me to the right one, I looked up forms of depression. The lists differ.
http://www.webmd.com/depression/guide/depression-types#1
http://www.healthline.com/health/depression/types-tab
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/depression/index.shtml
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3181770/
Interestingly, situational depression such as i underwent a half century ago due to being a battered child and a half year later as a vulnerable teen shunned due to someoneâs lie is in some lists as situational depression, but is now in more as an adjustment disorder. So, in todayâs terms i guess adjustments were made, both by myself and by others in response to those who threatened action if the beatings continued.
So, i guess that technically in todayâs terminology Tiffany might be dealing with an adjustment disorder!
Learn something every day â sometimes the right question has to found first, though!
JPuzzleWhiz over 7 years ago
I hope none of the gang gets so insensitive as to start calling Tiffany things like, for example, Tiffatty. (HmmâŠmaybe I need some sensitivity training, myself if I could think that upâŠ)
Argy.Bargy2 over 7 years ago
I am kind of amazed by a lot of what has been posted here. First, the idea that if Tiffany is seriously depressed that Bernice, Dez or Gunther could help her. None of them have the training to genuinely help, even if they may want to. They can be supportive, but for real help, someone with genuine depression needs a person with both medical and psychiatric training. Secondly, Iâm not sure why so many people are assuming that Gunther is âto blameâ for any depression that Tiffany may or may not be suffering from. People can withstand a lot of verbal and even physical abuse without becoming depressed, if they donât have the chemical makeup that leads to depression. On the other hand, a person may be surrounded by caring family and still suffer from depressionâŠ
GaryCooper over 7 years ago
Whatever her current situation may be, sooner or later Tiffany will have a reckoning with reality. She considers herself an actress and model, but her only acting credit is a video game, Eyez of Zeye, that may or may not exist, and her only modeling gig (that I recall) was as âMiss Chamber of Commerce,â a job she was fired from. She always says she is the hottest girl in town and irresistible to boys, but she has never had a boyfriend and rarely has a date (Luann and Bernice both have much more active love lives). Meanwhile, Tiffany appears to have no career plans other than continuing to be gorgeous and popular. All of this is bound to catch up with her eventually, although perhaps not for another few years, according to the usual course of thing she for girls like her.
Nenamatahari over 7 years ago
I knew quite a few people who tried to drink their sorrows away and gained weight that way.
RSH over 7 years ago
Bern may be making analytical grade conclusions but at least she is correct. Luann is less perceptive and understanding, almost sarcastic.
Sisyphos over 7 years ago
Luann shows a common misunderstanding of depression. Depression does not correlate one-to-one with apparent success, wealth and possessions, or even seeming popularity. Look at how many movie stars, celebrities, and other notable âsuccessfulâ persons have ended up severely depressed or even committed suicide. Yes, Tiffany could be putting on the pounds out of depression; but, conversely, Bernie should not be so certain, as there many other possible reasons for sudden weight gainâŠ.
Vilyehm over 7 years ago
Luanaphileâs 15%
Is the Saturday strip no one wants to see going to be Dez and Bernice and Luann pounding on Tiffanyâs door while loud music is playing.
Katecst over 7 years ago
Lots of medical issues will increase weight.
Jimmy90403 over 7 years ago
Tiffany hinted at her insecurities earlier when she asked Gunther why she canât meet a guy, despite all her superficial moves.
RSH over 7 years ago
It is my hope that the three of them will ultimately befriend Tiffany to help her overcome her situation. I can see Dez as a neutral person who could be the first to go over and open up dialog.
Teto85 Premium Member over 7 years ago
Good. I hate Tiff. Let her get diabetes and all of itâs complications and die before 30.