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How much space does she need, and for how long? I think Gunther wants to talk it over now. He is trying to stall her, not act dense like a 13 year old. He is trying to get a response from her. Remember years ago in for Better or For Worse how Deanna reacted when Michael told her he loved her? She had broken an engagement previously and wasnât sure if she was ready to commit herself to love him back.
So Gunther is still trying to mollify Bets and doesnât (so far) realize why she is so upset. Does Bets know why? It canât be about the TTFT and subsequent spat. It must be the âI Love You Bombâ that Gunther dropped so unexpectedly. That bomb certainly took all the air out of the room!
SO! The question is; Is Bets upset because Gunther escalated the relationship beyond her âseamstress with benefitsâ understanding? OR! Is Bets suffering from shock at the emotional impact of the declaration and what unexpected effect it may be having on her?
I seem to remember Bets saying she was Guntherâs girlfriend, but I canât recall her ever saying Gunther was her boyfriend.
Please correct me if Iâm incorrect.
Still, it seems Bets is now shocked to discover that Gunther was actually serious about their relationship while she thought it was just fun and games.
Step back Gun, uBer home and let her call youâŠit has been a rough night all around. She will let her heart decide and you have no control over thatâŠsorry.
Odds are heâll be placing a call to Luann for a ride home before the end of the week. Maybe even by midweek so he can vent to her and get her perspective as a woman before the week ends.
Bets, if it were GUNTHER who asks for space, you would throw a hissy fit. Go and be alone with yourself and leave our Gunther alone and God willing, he finds his way back to his gang.
I said this saturday, sheâs in shock and feeling guilty. She just needs time to process all the sweet romantic talk and gestures gunthers been displaying and the fact that heâs done everything he can to salvage a ruined eveningââdespite all her ranting and raving.
This arc being written to bring a level of maximum confusion to the reader, later in the week an unemployed elephant, released from tour with Ringling Brothers, will sit on the hood of Betsâs car.
We have become accustomed to Guntherâs glitches. Now we finally see that his savior Bets is messed up as well. I have no idea how this relationship will wind up â but I still think Gunther & Tiffany might be a better match. Tiffany is needy and so is Gunther. But Bets has just shown us her own insecurity â so the door remains wide open at this moment.
For someone who does not seem to be that invested in Gunther, on the first date, she was sure possessive of him when Luann was hovering around. âHeâs, like, absolutely, totally mine, âŠto a certain point.â
Is she =really= going to drive away and leave him there?! And heâs like, oh, ok? Wow! Way to stand up for yourself, Gunner. Oh, wellâmaybe someone will show up at Weenie World and s/he and the G-man will talk and s/he will give Gun a ride home. OR heâll Uber home.
Stranding Gunther would be cruel and a deal breaker. But, Bets shows jealousy of Tiffany, so she must care for Gunther. Therefore, next comes the heart to heart talk where we hear about Betsâ tragic history with romantic relationships. Then, everybody go home.
A better question is whatâs wrong with YOU, Gunth?
Declaring you âloveâ someone that treats you like doormat?
Hell, Punk and Puddles get better treatment!
And havenât you been following this darn Strip, lately??
You never, ever, EVER, follow an emotionally disturbed woman out to the parking lot.
Just ask Tara.
Whatâs it going take?
Bets speeding off, plowing into you and turning you into âhood ornamentâ like that creepy singing ornament in that ALLSTATE commercial?
You should whip out your phone, video this whole silly drama for Betsâ fans as cautionary tale of what happens to ânice guysâ who grovel and do what theyâre told by their pushy, crazy, soon to be ex girlfriends.
And when youâre done, Iâd call Tiffany to apologize for what happened.
Maybe sheâll even give you a ride home, or at the very least call an Uber for you.
And by all means give Bets that âspace.â
If youâre lucky maybe sheâll move to Utah.
And for the love of Gaw, BURN that stupid pirate outfit!
I think it is over⊠I recall my ex-girlfriend behavior a few days before she broke my heart for the 2nd and last time, and I am seeing this and it is bringing some very sad memories to me!
Even money we are seeing âthe momentâ that leads to the second young married couple â Gunther and Bets â in the strip. Lots of dominoes to fall.
Luann turning herself inside out over how she feels about Gunther and what to do if itâs serious. Somebody leaving the Little House that Mr. Grey Built (Guntherâs first instinct being that itâs perfect.
Bets quickly, and smartly, calling living in your motherâs backyard when youâre MARRIED as crazy (Spoiler: They end up in Brad and Toniâs giving those two the excuse to buy that house they looked at earlier [theyâre going to need the extra room]).
A year from now when G&B actually tie the knot, Luann and Jack finally click. A lot more.
They both seem so confused, so afraid. Dunno how this will end. But sure is a turning point for their relationship. I hope they donât break up, but they understand how to grow as a couple with mutual love and respect âĄ.
I am not one of those reviling Bet or despairing Gunther. This is the first time he has expressed his feelings so clearly to a female and I think this is a first time for Bets as well. If not then she has a backstory that we may find out about this week. Itâs wide open the directions this might go so I think itâs premature to predict, but I personally project it will be hilarious and surprising, stay tuned.
Is she ever going to admit to him that she was just using him as a prop so she could create content for her internet accounts, or is she just going to hope he realizes that on his own?
Been there. There few choices. Give her time to think. 2nd, women do this to get a reaction from the guy, itâs part in their DNA. 3rd to chase or not. Itâs almost like the second choice but a different meaning⊠last input. He doesnât see as it in a big deal meaning. But to Bets. It was.
Your emotions got the better of you in the moment. Happens all the time to a zillion guys both young and old. Back off and give her space. Take a cab or phone a friend for support. Heck, Iâd go to Tiffanyâs party. Get support and eat well. Your true friends will always be there for you.
major warning flags. theyâve been dating at least a year plus in the luannaverse and methinks while they are an âitemâ Bets has never said the L word in direct relation to GunthâŠ
Thereâs multiple potential things going on in her head, and Iâll hit them in the order of what I think are likely
1) Anger \ resentment are going at full tilt because she didnât get her way, sheâs mad at Gunth for what she believes is backing Tif over her. the L word bombarded her and in her twisted anger state feels like it was done as manipulation (because thatâs something she would do to get her way)
2) Bets saw gunth as a plaything, a puppy she could play with and not get hurt⊠someone whoâll let her be herself, yet hasnât yet really put her heart into the relationship ⊠i.e. she loves what he does for her, but doesnât actually find herself attracted to him. His L bomb has made her realize maybe sheâs not IN LOVE with him.
3) Bets is emotionally immature and doesnât really know what she wants or what sheâs doing or where sheâs going. the sudden L bomb derailed her tantrum and she doesnât know where to go with it⊠perhaps a sudden realization sheâs been unloading on the guy who LOVES her⊠perhaps ever so slightly the realization of how much sheâs using and abusing Gunth at this point.
I lean hard on the likelihood sheâs used to having âthe powerâ by being the girl⊠and being hit by an L bomb has rattled her hard. In the past Iâve argued that being with Bets is at least progress (relationship-wise) as most the core characters are not very interested in the G man for anything other than their childhood friend.
Personally I see so many warning flags from failed relationships in Bets, but I also know from my own experience as a young man, Gunth is still eager to be part of the race and meet the sociatal expectations that he should be found finding his âother halfâ⊠Despite the fact that we as people will never be âcompleteâ
She lost control control again, first with Tiff and now with Gunthie. That probably hasnât happened to her in a long time and she is having trouble dealing with it.
@drewpanon, rrsltx and tremane53: According to Dr. Kenneth Roberson (psychiatrist who treats patients on the spectrum), it is extremely difficult for those on the spectrum to express emotions, even though they may feel them. And in general, those on the spectrum are unable to meet the eyes of those they are talking to. Discussions about whether Gunther has either aspergers or is on the spectrum have repeatedly appeared and just donât make senseâŠ
Sheâs into being an influencer & the clicks & likes their relationship that way. Now that it has to be an actual relationship â sheâs freaking out. Sheâs gone.
Gunther will not let her go. He loves her. Bets can let her guard down and be loved. It sounds easy, but for many people itâs really difficult to realize they deserve love. Gunther is gentle and kind, he will show her itâs real.
Wow, a little surprised GnK continued but I like it! A good sequence happening here, one person whoâs been gobsmacked and needing to process while the other is clinging like a Klingon. Gunther upped the ante a lot from what I believe Bets thought their relationship was, fair on both accounts. Something else Bets is having to deal with is Tiffany read their relationship right and had the right idea for the night (Boom! thatâs the sound in Betâs head when she heard I love you). Really some good stuff here. Honestly GnK have upped the game pretty darn well since the gang left high school. Lots of issues have been brought up that late teen/early twenty year olds go through and none of it bad. Something even better is more of the stories have a long game, taking longer to process than a few weeks, something I like because life isnât a sitcom though sometimes you donât if you should laugh or cry.
Donât worry about Gunther. Aaron Hill will return from Hawaii, come out of the closet, and he and Gunther will live happily ever after (yes, Iâm being facetious).
Is it possible that sheâs not that upset about hearing âI love youâ and more upset that the spontaneous admission did not give her a chance to stage it and post it to her fans?
Glad we continued this arc. I thought sheâd be sitting in the carâŠ.What did she expect him to say when she accused a Gunther of caring about Tiffanyâs feelings more than herâs? A continued argument? Why not an âI love youâ! Is she just playing games, wanting his full attention? Now she realizes he is more serious than she is. Gunther seems to want to break the tension with his comment.
up until now Bets has commandeered (sp) a relationship built around fun, games, costumes, probably frivolous sex (all of it her way). Now Gunther is asking for the meat of a relationship i.e. caring, respect and yes âloveâ. She needs space to think about these things.
Mm, bets has obviously been hurt before, weâve covered that. Sheâs scared of commitment and being loved because sheâs scared of being burned. Thatâs evident here. However she needs to get her act in gear and stop taking and running from Gunther. Otherwise sheâs going to lose him. And then whoâll be there for her to make corny videos with?
Really? Space? She didnât need space when she was doing her âSelfish B**châ routine! Maybe this will end up with Gunther changing his name to Stradivarius, because sheâs sure playing him like one!
While Betsâs issues have been obvious for a long time I donât have the hostility towards her that others do. This is a scenario that could go either way. While I suspect Greg will break them up (the strip tends not to place much investment in characters other than the basic four remaining high school friends) I could also see an interesting arc where we find out where Betsâs issues arose from in her life and why hearing the Gunther loves her scares her. I remember years of Brad dealing with Toniâs substantial issues (people forget that because she was supposed to be a trophy because of her looks), and while they werenât identical issues to Betsâs she was someone who called (and to a degree still calls) the shots in her relationship with Brad and spent a long time pushing him away when he wanted a commitment. There is a potential for a transformative arc in which Bets and Gunther go to a deeper level in their relationship.
Perhaps Bets got in her car to check her InstaFaceChat account. She needs to poll her fans to see if they would prefer her relationship with Gunther to progress or end. She will give Gunther her answer as soon as her fans give her their answer.
Would you say Bets is a High School version of Tiff? I havenât seen a single time that Bets showed ANY kind of real friendship with any of the gang, especially Gunther. Itâs all been about her cross-playing, social media etc.To be honest if Gunther defended Tiff at the dinner, I think Bets would of walked off and left him there
Not sure how to view thingsâŠ. but here are some opinions I have been mulling over (and they are not necessarily congruent with each other):
1. Betsâ reaction Saturday was odd but could have many meaningsâŠ. it is pretty obvious she is âGun-shyâ (pun intended) about the relationship becoming more serious for some reason. But why? Is it a) as most are suggesting, because she has had some kind of troubled relationship past that makes her fearful of closeness and commitment but that she wants a relationship, b) she never wanted anything other than a âbuddy-buddyâ or perhaps âfriends-with-benefitsâ relationship, c) she only needed/wanted a prop to help her build her social media following, or d) she wanted the âcoverâ of being in a relationship for some reason and picked Gunther because of his ânerdinessâ that had Bets think he would never question or challenge her? I tend to suspect (a) but, the other three are also a bit interesting to think about.
2. Guntherâs reaction today is also odd, but could have many meaningsâŠ. it is indeed obvious that he loves her. But why the âIs this enough?â comment in the last panel? Is it a) he is just REALLY obtuse at times and completely misses social cues/context, b) is it just a âthrow-awayâ gag for today from Greg, c) is it a psychological ploy by Gunther because he knows that if he acts overly literal to Betsâ words, it will âbreak the iceâ and get Bets to talk about her feelings, or d) is it Gunther reacting to his realization that if Bets ran out because he mentioned âloveââŠ. maybe she does not have romantic feelings for him? I tend to suspect (b) that it is just a filler day, a âthrow-awayâ gag day from Greg.
Bets and Gunther got off on the wrong foot. Sheâs too self-centered to treat him right. While sheâs been a fun girlfriend, I donât think sheâs a good serious match for him.
Bets is all about living in fantasy worlds; first, the world of ComicCons and other fantasy conventions, where you dress up as a favorite character and act the part of the character, and then, the fantasy world of an âinfluencerâ on the internet. (Note that the internet started out as a place to electronically share data, especially scientific data, but has now become a place where like-minded people go to share conspiracies and to demean those who donât believe those conspiracies.) Someone who lives in a series of fantasies would find the concept of âloveâ to be foreign and maybe frightening, just like the idea of âsharingâ someone who helps them to act out a fantasy might be frightening or even maddeningâŠ
Gunth could always walk home, and contemplate how his evening went, and then realize what a terrible mistake he has made. Then go to the Fuze and into the welcoming arms of Luann, enjoy some nice home baked banana pie, and recharge his batteries. That would end this arc and start a new one! Iâm sure, having alienated all the other characters, Bets will eventually move on to Quill, or some other outsider.
Interesting body language. It looks like she is very deliberately walking away, like it was his offense and sheâs done â not a âsurprise by I LOVE YOU, need to regroupâ walk.
Hang on now. Whose car did they come in? If Bets drove, then she may indeed drive away and leave Gunther. But in the last panel, the car hasnât gone anywhere, soâŠ.I guess weâll wait and see what happens tomorrow.
I had been wondering how long in Luann time the two had been a couple. I think Gunther dropped the L word without really knowing how Bets felt about him. And not a great night to declare oneâs love when your partner is bitching and whining. Everything is a show for her: the study group party became her make-out party. Her relationship with Gunther became IG fodder. Gunther canât seem to find a gal who shares his interests and wants him the way that he is.
In Bets defense. She is bringing a lot to the relationship. 1) Money/a job/career smarts 2) no baggage from friends/family. Guns bringing 1) college debt? A possible college degree witch is no garentee of a job anymore? 2) high maintenance mom and friend. I would think twice before getting serious with Gunther too.
In panel #3, those car silhouettes look like predators waiting in the background for Bets to drive away so they can rip him apart limb from limb. Take a look, very menacing lookingâŠ
Hereâs the thing: Bets is most comfortable in a world of fantasy, playing roles at a ComicCon or creating a ârealityâ for her fans to follow on line. Real world emotions like âloveâ interfere with the fantasy world sheâs most comfortable with. She can really enjoy her time with Gunther as long as he either supports those fantasies, or her anger at anything that interrupts them. Tiffanyâs enactment of her business class assignment as a âromantic dinner for twoâ never interested Bets, but her anger wasnât simply because she was the customer and the customer is always right. It was because âromanceâ wasnât at all a part of Betsâ fantasy, and pirates (like science fiction critters at a Con) are part of Betsâ fantasy world. Her anger at Gunther isnât just because he was supportive of Tiffanyâs âromantic dinnerâ idea, but because Gunther isnât supporting her pirate fantasyâŠ
Gunther is very open and very honest. Regardless of what heartaches he may reap on the way to finding his own true love, he will ultimately find someone as open and honest as he is, and he will have a good life.
Templo S.U.D. almost 4 years ago
more than that, Gunther
Rhetorical_Question almost 4 years ago
Gag line? too soon!
AnyFace almost 4 years ago
She looks more sad than anything else. âš
Pilly the Almighty Teddy Bear almost 4 years ago
No. Itâs not. Bets will never be happy.
JohnSheldon almost 4 years ago
Place your Bets, place your Bets :)Who will give me even odds that she drives away and leaves Gunther to take an Uber home?
beb01 almost 4 years ago
She needs space. Try Iowa, Gunther,
Ahuehuete almost 4 years ago
It was fun while it lasted, I guess. Now Gunth can focus on finishing his degree, getting a job in silicon valley, and we can then say goodbye to him.
Z-bert almost 4 years ago
Glad we didnât leave this storyline.
Rhetorical_Question almost 4 years ago
Bets miscalculated the relationship between herself and Gunther. She was thinking that Gunther was not committed to the relationship.
Joe1962 almost 4 years ago
Can we say that Gunther is simple minded.
pseudomao almost 4 years ago
Gunther â your fries!
Willow Mt Lyon almost 4 years ago
How much space does she need, and for how long? I think Gunther wants to talk it over now. He is trying to stall her, not act dense like a 13 year old. He is trying to get a response from her. Remember years ago in for Better or For Worse how Deanna reacted when Michael told her he loved her? She had broken an engagement previously and wasnât sure if she was ready to commit herself to love him back.
alasko almost 4 years ago
Is she going to leave with Guntherâs car?
charlenelin1201 almost 4 years ago
Give her all the space she wants, then sheâll come back. Works all the time.
Tyge almost 4 years ago
So Gunther is still trying to mollify Bets and doesnât (so far) realize why she is so upset. Does Bets know why? It canât be about the TTFT and subsequent spat. It must be the âI Love You Bombâ that Gunther dropped so unexpectedly. That bomb certainly took all the air out of the room!
SO! The question is; Is Bets upset because Gunther escalated the relationship beyond her âseamstress with benefitsâ understanding? OR! Is Bets suffering from shock at the emotional impact of the declaration and what unexpected effect it may be having on her?
me_the_polish_gull almost 4 years ago
I donât like where is it goingâŠ
Argythree almost 4 years ago
Maybe Peru is far enough, GuntherâŠ
Ruth Brown almost 4 years ago
Leaving him without a ride is extremely inconsiderate. Let her go and grow up.
Tyge almost 4 years ago
I must admit, this whole arc has been fascinating with several juicy vignettes!
bytebot-gocomics almost 4 years ago
I seem to remember Bets saying she was Guntherâs girlfriend, but I canât recall her ever saying Gunther was her boyfriend.
Please correct me if Iâm incorrect.
Still, it seems Bets is now shocked to discover that Gunther was actually serious about their relationship while she thought it was just fun and games.
ronaldspence almost 4 years ago
Step back Gun, uBer home and let her call youâŠit has been a rough night all around. She will let her heart decide and you have no control over thatâŠsorry.
lvlax almost 4 years ago
Gunther canât seriously be that clueless can he?
oddhumor almost 4 years ago
Odds are heâll be placing a call to Luann for a ride home before the end of the week. Maybe even by midweek so he can vent to her and get her perspective as a woman before the week ends.
capricorn9th almost 4 years ago
Bets, if it were GUNTHER who asks for space, you would throw a hissy fit. Go and be alone with yourself and leave our Gunther alone and God willing, he finds his way back to his gang.
gnmnrbl almost 4 years ago
I said this saturday, sheâs in shock and feeling guilty. She just needs time to process all the sweet romantic talk and gestures gunthers been displaying and the fact that heâs done everything he can to salvage a ruined eveningââdespite all her ranting and raving.
Vilyehm almost 4 years ago
This arc being written to bring a level of maximum confusion to the reader, later in the week an unemployed elephant, released from tour with Ringling Brothers, will sit on the hood of Betsâs car.
kenhense almost 4 years ago
We have become accustomed to Guntherâs glitches. Now we finally see that his savior Bets is messed up as well. I have no idea how this relationship will wind up â but I still think Gunther & Tiffany might be a better match. Tiffany is needy and so is Gunther. But Bets has just shown us her own insecurity â so the door remains wide open at this moment.
Brdshtt Premium Member almost 4 years ago
For someone who does not seem to be that invested in Gunther, on the first date, she was sure possessive of him when Luann was hovering around. âHeâs, like, absolutely, totally mine, âŠto a certain point.â
overtherainbow almost 4 years ago
Is she =really= going to drive away and leave him there?! And heâs like, oh, ok? Wow! Way to stand up for yourself, Gunner. Oh, wellâmaybe someone will show up at Weenie World and s/he and the G-man will talk and s/he will give Gun a ride home. OR heâll Uber home.
Asharah almost 4 years ago
Heck, at least drive him home!
BabyBlue almost 4 years ago
I Need Space is right up there with I Love You But Iâm Not In Love With You, and of course the ever-popular Itâs Not Me Itâs You.
Time to salvage your pride Gunny Boy. Your only hope now is to hold your head up high and walk away.
Airman almost 4 years ago
Stranding Gunther would be cruel and a deal breaker. But, Bets shows jealousy of Tiffany, so she must care for Gunther. Therefore, next comes the heart to heart talk where we hear about Betsâ tragic history with romantic relationships. Then, everybody go home.
Mordock999 Premium Member almost 4 years ago
âWhatâs wrong with HER?â
A better question is whatâs wrong with YOU, Gunth?
Declaring you âloveâ someone that treats you like doormat?
Hell, Punk and Puddles get better treatment!
And havenât you been following this darn Strip, lately??
You never, ever, EVER, follow an emotionally disturbed woman out to the parking lot.
Just ask Tara.
Whatâs it going take?
Bets speeding off, plowing into you and turning you into âhood ornamentâ like that creepy singing ornament in that ALLSTATE commercial?
You should whip out your phone, video this whole silly drama for Betsâ fans as cautionary tale of what happens to ânice guysâ who grovel and do what theyâre told by their pushy, crazy, soon to be ex girlfriends.
And when youâre done, Iâd call Tiffany to apologize for what happened.
Maybe sheâll even give you a ride home, or at the very least call an Uber for you.
And by all means give Bets that âspace.â
If youâre lucky maybe sheâll move to Utah.
And for the love of Gaw, BURN that stupid pirate outfit!
imagenesis almost 4 years ago
I think it is over⊠I recall my ex-girlfriend behavior a few days before she broke my heart for the 2nd and last time, and I am seeing this and it is bringing some very sad memories to me!
chihuahuamama999 almost 4 years ago
I hope she just keeps on driving and NEVER COMES BACK.
STEPUP almost 4 years ago
âI need some spaceâ, we all know what that usually means!!
Parto_the_P almost 4 years ago
Even money we are seeing âthe momentâ that leads to the second young married couple â Gunther and Bets â in the strip. Lots of dominoes to fall.
Luann turning herself inside out over how she feels about Gunther and what to do if itâs serious. Somebody leaving the Little House that Mr. Grey Built (Guntherâs first instinct being that itâs perfect.
Bets quickly, and smartly, calling living in your motherâs backyard when youâre MARRIED as crazy (Spoiler: They end up in Brad and Toniâs giving those two the excuse to buy that house they looked at earlier [theyâre going to need the extra room]).
A year from now when G&B actually tie the knot, Luann and Jack finally click. A lot more.
pekelopan Premium Member almost 4 years ago
If Bets drives off and leaves Gunther in the parking lot without a ride home, I think no one will be left on team Bets.
tonypezzano almost 4 years ago
Be polite Bets. You really should be driving him home as well.
Aladar30 Premium Member almost 4 years ago
They both seem so confused, so afraid. Dunno how this will end. But sure is a turning point for their relationship. I hope they donât break up, but they understand how to grow as a couple with mutual love and respect âĄ.
tigger0612 Premium Member almost 4 years ago
Jeff Foxworthy: âI need some spaceâ is half a sentence, the rest of it is âwithout you in it!â
twstd almost 4 years ago
Let her go Gunther, you can do better
luann1212 almost 4 years ago
I am not one of those reviling Bet or despairing Gunther. This is the first time he has expressed his feelings so clearly to a female and I think this is a first time for Bets as well. If not then she has a backstory that we may find out about this week. Itâs wide open the directions this might go so I think itâs premature to predict, but I personally project it will be hilarious and surprising, stay tuned.
drewpamon almost 4 years ago
Thereâs that aspergers cropping up again
sueb1863 almost 4 years ago
Is she ever going to admit to him that she was just using him as a prop so she could create content for her internet accounts, or is she just going to hope he realizes that on his own?
R.R.Bedford almost 4 years ago
and then I go and spoil it all, by saying something stupid, likeâŠI LOVE YOU
illuminare almost 4 years ago
He may have jumped the gun but she has never wanted more than to treat him like an object. Time to move on Gunther and take it slow.
dlkrueger33 almost 4 years ago
Dump her, Gunther. You can do better. She doesnât care about you.
wuulfgarcomics almost 4 years ago
Twoud appear ol Bets was just caught up in the chase for IG clout, seeking stuff to post about, ignoring the person right in front of her.
JoeStoppinghem Premium Member almost 4 years ago
When Bets said, âI just need some space, Gun.â
He shouldâve said, âI donât understand, but I need a ride home.â
Johnnyrico almost 4 years ago
âPaging Dr. Clueless⊠Paging Dr. CluelessâŠâ
jmcenanly almost 4 years ago
It is ironic that she leaves him by saying that she needs space, considering that when they met, she was dressed as Nyota Uhura.
tremaine53 almost 4 years ago
This is an odd time for Gunther to suddenly be so literal. It would suggest that heâs âon the spectrumâ.
tremaine53 almost 4 years ago
Showing up at Weenie World in pirate outfits: Courageous? Or just really embarrassing?
13shark77 almost 4 years ago
Been there. There few choices. Give her time to think. 2nd, women do this to get a reaction from the guy, itâs part in their DNA. 3rd to chase or not. Itâs almost like the second choice but a different meaning⊠last input. He doesnât see as it in a big deal meaning. But to Bets. It was.
Decepticomic almost 4 years ago
Bets, take all the space you need⊠Thatâs right⊠Keep going⊠Annnnnd⊠GONE! Phew. Good riddance to garbage.
electricpostcard almost 4 years ago
Your emotions got the better of you in the moment. Happens all the time to a zillion guys both young and old. Back off and give her space. Take a cab or phone a friend for support. Heck, Iâd go to Tiffanyâs party. Get support and eat well. Your true friends will always be there for you.
Ellis97 almost 4 years ago
I think Gunther is a henpecked husband.
elliel203 almost 4 years ago
Gunther said the L word too soon, and at the wrong moment to boot.
TheElderGodfather almost 4 years ago
major warning flags. theyâve been dating at least a year plus in the luannaverse and methinks while they are an âitemâ Bets has never said the L word in direct relation to GunthâŠ
Thereâs multiple potential things going on in her head, and Iâll hit them in the order of what I think are likely
1) Anger \ resentment are going at full tilt because she didnât get her way, sheâs mad at Gunth for what she believes is backing Tif over her. the L word bombarded her and in her twisted anger state feels like it was done as manipulation (because thatâs something she would do to get her way)
2) Bets saw gunth as a plaything, a puppy she could play with and not get hurt⊠someone whoâll let her be herself, yet hasnât yet really put her heart into the relationship ⊠i.e. she loves what he does for her, but doesnât actually find herself attracted to him. His L bomb has made her realize maybe sheâs not IN LOVE with him.
3) Bets is emotionally immature and doesnât really know what she wants or what sheâs doing or where sheâs going. the sudden L bomb derailed her tantrum and she doesnât know where to go with it⊠perhaps a sudden realization sheâs been unloading on the guy who LOVES her⊠perhaps ever so slightly the realization of how much sheâs using and abusing Gunth at this point.
I lean hard on the likelihood sheâs used to having âthe powerâ by being the girl⊠and being hit by an L bomb has rattled her hard. In the past Iâve argued that being with Bets is at least progress (relationship-wise) as most the core characters are not very interested in the G man for anything other than their childhood friend.
Personally I see so many warning flags from failed relationships in Bets, but I also know from my own experience as a young man, Gunth is still eager to be part of the race and meet the sociatal expectations that he should be found finding his âother halfâ⊠Despite the fact that we as people will never be âcompleteâ
1BlackLivesMatter almost 4 years ago
Nowâs your chance, Gunther. Dump her and donât look back.
colddonkey almost 4 years ago
The result of hearing what she wanted to hear and now panics.
Wubbie almost 4 years ago
She lost control control again, first with Tiff and now with Gunthie. That probably hasnât happened to her in a long time and she is having trouble dealing with it.
homeboy almost 4 years ago
I got a feeling sheâll be back and Gunther wonât be able to get rid of her.
Argythree almost 4 years ago
@drewpanon, rrsltx and tremane53: According to Dr. Kenneth Roberson (psychiatrist who treats patients on the spectrum), it is extremely difficult for those on the spectrum to express emotions, even though they may feel them. And in general, those on the spectrum are unable to meet the eyes of those they are talking to. Discussions about whether Gunther has either aspergers or is on the spectrum have repeatedly appeared and just donât make senseâŠ
willkepley almost 4 years ago
Sheâs into being an influencer & the clicks & likes their relationship that way. Now that it has to be an actual relationship â sheâs freaking out. Sheâs gone.
carrissima almost 4 years ago
Begone and get thee hence, wench!!!!
comic reader 22 almost 4 years ago
Gunther will not let her go. He loves her. Bets can let her guard down and be loved. It sounds easy, but for many people itâs really difficult to realize they deserve love. Gunther is gentle and kind, he will show her itâs real.
TrudyQ Premium Member almost 4 years ago
Bets has some work to do
Ordinary Average Guy almost 4 years ago
Leave it to a woman to want âa romantic dinnerâ then flips out when her man says âI love you.â
LarryMonroe1 almost 4 years ago
Gunther is doomed to a life in the friendzone. Heâs a throwaway. He was to Rosa, now Bets.
RickMcdermott almost 4 years ago
Time has come to say goodby to Betts gunner shes no good for you
DawnQuinn1 almost 4 years ago
Not an Uber, he will call Luann to pick him up and she will ask a million questions.
Pohka almost 4 years ago
Wow, a little surprised GnK continued but I like it! A good sequence happening here, one person whoâs been gobsmacked and needing to process while the other is clinging like a Klingon. Gunther upped the ante a lot from what I believe Bets thought their relationship was, fair on both accounts. Something else Bets is having to deal with is Tiffany read their relationship right and had the right idea for the night (Boom! thatâs the sound in Betâs head when she heard I love you). Really some good stuff here. Honestly GnK have upped the game pretty darn well since the gang left high school. Lots of issues have been brought up that late teen/early twenty year olds go through and none of it bad. Something even better is more of the stories have a long game, taking longer to process than a few weeks, something I like because life isnât a sitcom though sometimes you donât if you should laugh or cry.
rrsltx almost 4 years ago
It seems Bets prefers superficial rather than meaningful validation and adoration. I suspect sheâs insulating herself, but why?
Michael G. almost 4 years ago
Hereâs a fiver, Gun. Buy yourself a clue.
LarryMonroe1 almost 4 years ago
Donât worry about Gunther. Aaron Hill will return from Hawaii, come out of the closet, and he and Gunther will live happily ever after (yes, Iâm being facetious).
Anon4242 almost 4 years ago
Is it possible that sheâs not that upset about hearing âI love youâ and more upset that the spontaneous admission did not give her a chance to stage it and post it to her fans?
ctolson almost 4 years ago
The distance is about to increase quickly, leaving Gunth in a cloud of dust and need to find a ride home.
RonaldMcCalip almost 4 years ago
What. A. Jerk!You have to give Evans credit! When he creates a villain or some type of misanthrope, he does a good job!
KEA almost 4 years ago
kinda surprised she didnât say âIf you donât know Iâm not going to tell you.â
Otis Rufus Driftwood almost 4 years ago
Gunther opens his heart to a young lady again, and this is the thanks he gets. As Sir Paul McCartney said, love isnât silly at all.
Fontessa almost 4 years ago
Iâd give her LOTS of space, like a couple of light yearsâ worth.
eladee AKA Wally almost 4 years ago
That pretty cold Bets!!!! Who will he call for a ride? Luann? Tiffany? Les? Uber?
YorkGirl Premium Member almost 4 years ago
Glad we continued this arc. I thought sheâd be sitting in the carâŠ.What did she expect him to say when she accused a Gunther of caring about Tiffanyâs feelings more than herâs? A continued argument? Why not an âI love youâ! Is she just playing games, wanting his full attention? Now she realizes he is more serious than she is. Gunther seems to want to break the tension with his comment.
RSH almost 4 years ago
up until now Bets has commandeered (sp) a relationship built around fun, games, costumes, probably frivolous sex (all of it her way). Now Gunther is asking for the meat of a relationship i.e. caring, respect and yes âloveâ. She needs space to think about these things.
RSH almost 4 years ago
1st panel her hands are still balled up in fists, 2nd panel maybe not so much âŠ. âŠ. itâs a step.
northbraddock52 almost 4 years ago
Leave her to her fantasy world and cut your losses
MuddyUSA Premium Member almost 4 years ago
Does Gunther even know about Uber?
TheFiddleBackSpider almost 4 years ago
Mm, bets has obviously been hurt before, weâve covered that. Sheâs scared of commitment and being loved because sheâs scared of being burned. Thatâs evident here. However she needs to get her act in gear and stop taking and running from Gunther. Otherwise sheâs going to lose him. And then whoâll be there for her to make corny videos with?
tims145 almost 4 years ago
If she drives away, Gunther will get the chance to walk home in full pirate regalia. That will give the neighbors something to talk about.
Airman almost 4 years ago
Give it time. Just donât knock her up while youâre both figuring things out.
D.E.N. almost 4 years ago
Really? Space? She didnât need space when she was doing her âSelfish B**châ routine! Maybe this will end up with Gunther changing his name to Stradivarius, because sheâs sure playing him like one!
kaycstamper almost 4 years ago
Let her go! Good riddance! You can do better, Gunth!
locake almost 4 years ago
Gunther should have brought his books along so he could study while Bets is deciding what she wants to do. He is wasting valuable study time.
Caldonia almost 4 years ago
If they break up, I sure hope she gets to keep that pirate outfit. Barely anyone got to see it.
Tyge almost 4 years ago
Bets needs space. May she should move to Peru.
kauri44 almost 4 years ago
While Betsâs issues have been obvious for a long time I donât have the hostility towards her that others do. This is a scenario that could go either way. While I suspect Greg will break them up (the strip tends not to place much investment in characters other than the basic four remaining high school friends) I could also see an interesting arc where we find out where Betsâs issues arose from in her life and why hearing the Gunther loves her scares her. I remember years of Brad dealing with Toniâs substantial issues (people forget that because she was supposed to be a trophy because of her looks), and while they werenât identical issues to Betsâs she was someone who called (and to a degree still calls) the shots in her relationship with Brad and spent a long time pushing him away when he wanted a commitment. There is a potential for a transformative arc in which Bets and Gunther go to a deeper level in their relationship.
locake almost 4 years ago
Perhaps Bets got in her car to check her InstaFaceChat account. She needs to poll her fans to see if they would prefer her relationship with Gunther to progress or end. She will give Gunther her answer as soon as her fans give her their answer.
Plods with ...âą almost 4 years ago
Skeerd her
Troglodyte almost 4 years ago
Gun looks shot.
oldcomicsfan almost 4 years ago
Gunther looks kinda dashing with a neat âstash.
fathergod almost 4 years ago
Hereâs a thought for you all..
Would you say Bets is a High School version of Tiff? I havenât seen a single time that Bets showed ANY kind of real friendship with any of the gang, especially Gunther. Itâs all been about her cross-playing, social media etc.To be honest if Gunther defended Tiff at the dinner, I think Bets would of walked off and left him there
Pipe Tobacco Premium Member almost 4 years ago
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Not sure how to view thingsâŠ. but here are some opinions I have been mulling over (and they are not necessarily congruent with each other):
1. Betsâ reaction Saturday was odd but could have many meaningsâŠ. it is pretty obvious she is âGun-shyâ (pun intended) about the relationship becoming more serious for some reason. But why? Is it a) as most are suggesting, because she has had some kind of troubled relationship past that makes her fearful of closeness and commitment but that she wants a relationship, b) she never wanted anything other than a âbuddy-buddyâ or perhaps âfriends-with-benefitsâ relationship, c) she only needed/wanted a prop to help her build her social media following, or d) she wanted the âcoverâ of being in a relationship for some reason and picked Gunther because of his ânerdinessâ that had Bets think he would never question or challenge her? I tend to suspect (a) but, the other three are also a bit interesting to think about.
2. Guntherâs reaction today is also odd, but could have many meaningsâŠ. it is indeed obvious that he loves her. But why the âIs this enough?â comment in the last panel? Is it a) he is just REALLY obtuse at times and completely misses social cues/context, b) is it just a âthrow-awayâ gag for today from Greg, c) is it a psychological ploy by Gunther because he knows that if he acts overly literal to Betsâ words, it will âbreak the iceâ and get Bets to talk about her feelings, or d) is it Gunther reacting to his realization that if Bets ran out because he mentioned âloveââŠ. maybe she does not have romantic feelings for him? I tend to suspect (b) that it is just a filler day, a âthrow-awayâ gag day from Greg.
AmissaSada almost 4 years ago
Bets and Gunther got off on the wrong foot. Sheâs too self-centered to treat him right. While sheâs been a fun girlfriend, I donât think sheâs a good serious match for him.
R.W. Singer Sr. almost 4 years ago
At least give the poor guy a ride home.
BJShipley1 almost 4 years ago
Oh Gunther, just dump her already. She wants space, then give her space.
Moon57Shine almost 4 years ago
I see a breakup coming, if it already isnât here.
Ukko wilko almost 4 years ago
Bets manipulates other people, for her own comfort. Actually loving someone is, for her, a foreign concept.
DondiDoo almost 4 years ago
Space. As a measure of time, not distance.
locake almost 4 years ago
Most people in a steady relationship for a year would not be shocked to hear I Love You from their partner. Bets reactions does not make any sense.
LightWarriorK almost 4 years ago
My prediction: Gunth goes back to Tiffanyâs, and they become an item by the end of this arc. Or at least start something scandalous.
wantcomicsnow almost 4 years ago
I posted this above in answer to one of Pohkaâs commentsââfor all you people who keep saying Bets is âgobsmackedââŠâŠâŠâŠ.
Of course sheâs gobsmacked. One of her props just said âI love you.â
Kinda like a ventriloquistâs dummy coming to lifeâŠâŠ..:D :D :P
seanyj almost 4 years ago
Oh now she wants some space. Before she was all clingy and needy. Whats up with that ladies?
johnkuhnlein Premium Member almost 4 years ago
Evans is fascinated by the idea of men being humiliated by women. Also, Gunther is gay, in case you havenât figured that out.
Rhetorical_Question almost 4 years ago
For Bets,the situation sounded like a rebound relationship. Gunther is a safe recovery for Bets.
Argythree almost 4 years ago
Bets is all about living in fantasy worlds; first, the world of ComicCons and other fantasy conventions, where you dress up as a favorite character and act the part of the character, and then, the fantasy world of an âinfluencerâ on the internet. (Note that the internet started out as a place to electronically share data, especially scientific data, but has now become a place where like-minded people go to share conspiracies and to demean those who donât believe those conspiracies.) Someone who lives in a series of fantasies would find the concept of âloveâ to be foreign and maybe frightening, just like the idea of âsharingâ someone who helps them to act out a fantasy might be frightening or even maddeningâŠ
seanyj almost 4 years ago
Run Gunther, Run! Bets is way too psychotic for you and you deserve much better.
Perplexed almost 4 years ago
Gunth could always walk home, and contemplate how his evening went, and then realize what a terrible mistake he has made. Then go to the Fuze and into the welcoming arms of Luann, enjoy some nice home baked banana pie, and recharge his batteries. That would end this arc and start a new one! Iâm sure, having alienated all the other characters, Bets will eventually move on to Quill, or some other outsider.
DON STEINER almost 4 years ago
OK Gunther, have you caught on yet that all she wanted you for is to design and sew her costumes, you can do betterâŠask your Mom.
STACEY MARSHALL Premium Member almost 4 years ago
I also would like a space gun!
Schrodinger's Dog almost 4 years ago
I suspect that , whatever this relationship was , itâs now over. Bets just wasnât ready for a more serious one, certainly not like Gunther.
Sad, but it happens in real life too.
LeighBurton almost 4 years ago
Gunther! I thought you got smarter over the years! Cut Bets out of your life!
raybarb44 almost 4 years ago
Sorry Gunther, no itâs notâŠâŠ
rmbdot almost 4 years ago
Gun, you fool! You left your fries behind!
rmbdot almost 4 years ago
Interesting body language. It looks like she is very deliberately walking away, like it was his offense and sheâs done â not a âsurprise by I LOVE YOU, need to regroupâ walk.
PhoenixHocking almost 4 years ago
Hang on now. Whose car did they come in? If Bets drove, then she may indeed drive away and leave Gunther. But in the last panel, the car hasnât gone anywhere, soâŠ.I guess weâll wait and see what happens tomorrow.
Night-Gaunt49[Bozo is Boffo] almost 4 years ago
Was Bets correct as a customer or what Tiffany had to offer as a business?
Scoutmaster77 almost 4 years ago
He used the âLâ word. Looks like fear of commitment. Who knows, maybe weâll learn some more about her past.
boatlesspirate almost 4 years ago
Ditch that selfish
kittysquared Premium Member almost 4 years ago
I had been wondering how long in Luann time the two had been a couple. I think Gunther dropped the L word without really knowing how Bets felt about him. And not a great night to declare oneâs love when your partner is bitching and whining. Everything is a show for her: the study group party became her make-out party. Her relationship with Gunther became IG fodder. Gunther canât seem to find a gal who shares his interests and wants him the way that he is.
astahl2003 almost 4 years ago
In Bets defense. She is bringing a lot to the relationship. 1) Money/a job/career smarts 2) no baggage from friends/family. Guns bringing 1) college debt? A possible college degree witch is no garentee of a job anymore? 2) high maintenance mom and friend. I would think twice before getting serious with Gunther too.
BlitzMcD almost 4 years ago
Carpe diem, Gun. This is your chance.
dtercho almost 4 years ago
Itâs all fun and games until someone says âI love youâ!
Sisyphos almost 4 years ago
Itâs never âenough,â Gunther. As far as a lady in flight is concerned, space is infinite!
In other words, Loser-Boy, you have been dumpedâŠ.
Kathy M T M Premium Member almost 4 years ago
Dear Gunther- WHY?!
Brdshtt Premium Member almost 4 years ago
In panel #3, those car silhouettes look like predators waiting in the background for Bets to drive away so they can rip him apart limb from limb. Take a look, very menacing lookingâŠ
Argythree almost 4 years ago
Hereâs the thing: Bets is most comfortable in a world of fantasy, playing roles at a ComicCon or creating a ârealityâ for her fans to follow on line. Real world emotions like âloveâ interfere with the fantasy world sheâs most comfortable with. She can really enjoy her time with Gunther as long as he either supports those fantasies, or her anger at anything that interrupts them. Tiffanyâs enactment of her business class assignment as a âromantic dinner for twoâ never interested Bets, but her anger wasnât simply because she was the customer and the customer is always right. It was because âromanceâ wasnât at all a part of Betsâ fantasy, and pirates (like science fiction critters at a Con) are part of Betsâ fantasy world. Her anger at Gunther isnât just because he was supportive of Tiffanyâs âromantic dinnerâ idea, but because Gunther isnât supporting her pirate fantasyâŠ
sallymargret almost 4 years ago
Gunther is very open and very honest. Regardless of what heartaches he may reap on the way to finding his own true love, he will ultimately find someone as open and honest as he is, and he will have a good life.
David Huie Green LikeNobody'sEverSeen almost 4 years ago
âGettinâ there.â